The two child benefit cap
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lrdisco

Original Poster:

1,670 posts

108 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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Are you for or against it?
Personally we stopped at two children due to cost and I object to paying tax so the unwashed can live on benefits paid for out of my taxes.
Obviously not a problem paying for unexpectedly deceased but otherwise pay for your own offspring.

GT03ROB

13,958 posts

242 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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For.


Slow.Patrol

3,719 posts

35 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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For (against removal)

However, if the Government insist on this, then make it a tax allowance so that only working people benefit.

BikeBikeBIke

12,850 posts

136 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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For.

Subsidising people who can't afford kids to have kids was always a crazy idea.

fiatpower

3,553 posts

192 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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For the cap. I don't work so that someone can stay at home and pop out kid's for a job.

AB

19,322 posts

216 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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fiatpower said:
For the cap. I don't work so that someone can stay at home and pop out kid's for a job.
Yep, same here. I've never received a penny in child benefit, I had kids because I was in a position to be able to, not because someone put me in the position against their will.

pghstochaj

3,344 posts

140 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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Slow.Patrol said:
For (against removal)

However, if the Government insist on this, then make it a tax allowance so that only working people benefit.
What if the parent/parents is/are disabled and unable to work?

dirty boy

14,815 posts

230 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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We purposefully stopped at two due to the expense and wanting to be able to give our children the best experiences possible.

Would have loved at least a 5-a-side team laugh

Tycho

12,099 posts

294 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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For.

But:

If the parents have a third child then what can you do without penalising the child? Do you give food and clothing stamps out instead of benefits to force the parents to spend on the kids rather than Sky, fags or booze? How would you treat a family with 3 kids and the main breadwinner is made redundant?

Crumpet

4,921 posts

201 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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pghstochaj said:
Slow.Patrol said:
For (against removal)

However, if the Government insist on this, then make it a tax allowance so that only working people benefit.
What if the parent/parents is/are disabled and unable to work?
The amount they get even with the cap is, frankly, outrageous. Then of course there’s what actually classifies as a disability or inability to work…..

You shouldn’t be able to get more in benefits than someone working full time.

(For the cap.)

GT03ROB

13,958 posts

242 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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Tycho said:
For.

But:

If the parents have a third child then what can you do without penalising the child? Do you give food and clothing stamps out instead of benefits to force the parents to spend on the kids rather than Sky, fags or booze? How would you treat a family with 3 kids and the main breadwinner is made redundant?
You want a 3rd or 4th or 5th, you make sure you can support them without benefits. It's called personal responsibility.

Sheets Tabuer

20,782 posts

236 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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I find it slightly insane that you would reward the very people that bang out kids for more benefits with more benefits for banging out more kids.

Frimley111R

18,033 posts

255 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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Tycho said:
For.

But:

If the parents have a third child then what can you do without penalising the child? Do you give food and clothing stamps out instead of benefits to force the parents to spend on the kids rather than Sky, fags or booze? How would you treat a family with 3 kids and the main breadwinner is made redundant?
This

For and against is a very simple way of looking at it but some people are idiots and have car crash lives. They wouldn't care that they live in poverty because of a cap, that's just the way they live and, as you point out, it's the kids that suffer.

You can say no more benefits after 2 but if they have more are you saying to them 'sorry, but your parents were warned?'

andymc

7,557 posts

228 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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Frimley111R said:
Tycho said:
For.

But:

If the parents have a third child then what can you do without penalising the child? Do you give food and clothing stamps out instead of benefits to force the parents to spend on the kids rather than Sky, fags or booze? How would you treat a family with 3 kids and the main breadwinner is made redundant?
This

For and against is a very simple way of looking at it but some people are idiots and have car crash lives. They wouldn't care that they live in poverty because of a cap, that's just the way they live and, as you point out, it's the kids that suffer.

You can say no more benefits after 2 but if they have more are you saying to them 'sorry, but your parents were warned?'
the kids will not see a penny of it

Granadier

1,057 posts

48 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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For, for the same reasons as everyone else said

otolith

64,580 posts

225 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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The replacement rate for the UK (the average number of children a woman needs to bear in order to maintain a static population size) is 2.1 children per woman over their reproductive life.

If you wish to maintain a stable population, if every woman has at least two children, you need 10% of women to have 3 kids.

If, as is currently the case in the UK, 18% of women never have any children, you need 46% of women to have 3 kids.

If additionally, as is currently the case in the UK, 17% of women only ever have one child, you need 63% of women to have 3 kids.

untakenname

5,236 posts

213 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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I know too many people who put off having kids till their late 30's due to not being able to afford it in their twenties and for some it's now too late so I'm for keeping the cap.

Sob story articles like this are annoying, the case studies they use are a single mum of 4 and a single mum of 5!

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cql94yr4y7vo.a...

stuckmojo

3,803 posts

209 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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Absolutely for the cap.

borcy

9,527 posts

77 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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All depends on what benefits are inside the cap and what isn't, who is eligible and who isn't.

Bit too broad brush at the moment.

BikeBikeBIke

12,850 posts

136 months

Monday 24th November 2025
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otolith said:
The replacement rate for the UK (the average number of children a woman needs to bear in order to maintain a static population size) is 2.1 children per woman over their reproductive life.

If you wish to maintain a stable population, if every woman has at least two children, you need 10% of women to have 3 kids.

If, as is currently the case in the UK, 18% of women never have any children, you need 46% of women to have 3 kids.

If additionally, as is currently the case in the UK, 17% of women only ever have one child, you need 63% of women to have 3 kids.
If we want to subsidise children to keep our population up then let's subsidise the best parents not the worst.