Why are people so keen to reduce their food bill constantly?
Why are people so keen to reduce their food bill constantly?
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Quattr04.

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869 posts

12 months

Yesterday (11:05)
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Recently on Instagram all I see is people talking about reducing their food costs, and lots of videos comparing the cost of essentials at M&S VS Aldi and people
Being shocked that M&S have a strategy to sell the “essentials” at the same price as Aldi.

There as one video where the caption was “I aspire to be M&S foodhall weekly shop rich”

Another where a woman said you know you’ve made it in life when you grab a trolly at M&S

I commented on one of these videos that I do my weekly shop there, and for 2 people it costs me less than £100, usually around £80, for a exclusively whole food low UPF shop, meats, fruits, sourdough etc

People then commented about how I was crazy, that they shop for 4 in Aldi for £30 a week, students spending £10 in Lidl living off pizza and pasta

These people seemed genuinely proud of cutting their food costs to the bones, but then you click on their profile and they’re all posing in designer clothes at the pumpkin patch with their GLAs in the background

To me good food is the building block of a good life, and it’s something I’m willing to spend more on, I can’t always make it to the farm shop so m&s is constantly reliable

bucksmanuk

2,380 posts

191 months

Yesterday (11:26)
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I doubt if anyone is feeding a family of 4 for £30/week – even at Aldi. If they are, I dread to think what they are eating. And what’s a family of 4?
The husband is 5’7” and thin as a rake. The wife is 5’0” and there’s almost nothing to her and 2 skinny kids, both under 5?
Or
Is the husband a stocky bloke at 6’5”, his wife is a chunky monkey and she’s 5’10” and they have 2 15-year-old lads who wouldn’t look out of place on a front row?
I have problems keeping it under £35/week at Aldi and I’m feeding just me.

Spare tyre

11,976 posts

151 months

Yesterday (11:28)
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I’m guessing to pay for other things, it’s really hard for a lot of people at the moment, especially young working families

shtu

4,085 posts

167 months

Yesterday (11:39)
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Quattr04. said:
that they shop for 4 in Aldi for £30 a week
Conveniently forgetting Saturday night in a restaurant and the 3 nights of takeaways? Or the freezer full of stuff that they replenish once every month or two?

Another one like that I know of is someone who would eat breakfast and "lunch" (actually 3 course dinner) in the subsidised onsite restaurant, and really didn't eat much at home as a result.

People are also often just making stuff up for the sake of an argument/to support their viewpoint/attack the poster. I mean, that obviously never happens around here, but you can see how it could. biggrin

In reality, lots of folk are so poor at budgeting/spending I'd take any claims of living on £7.50pp of food a week as being a big understatement.

Meltphace 6

412 posts

34 months

Yesterday (11:41)
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Hmm I would be very interested to see how £80 at M&S could feed 2 adults 2000 to 2500 calories per day each, for 7 days. 28000-35000 calories for £80 at M&S is fishy (pardon the pun).

Jasandjules

71,803 posts

250 months

Yesterday (11:42)
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I am keen to reduce all my bills. My wife, not so much...

MrWideFit

136 posts

11 months

Yesterday (11:46)
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Jasandjules said:
I am keen to reduce all my bills. My wife, not so much...
I am ,hopefully, soon moving into my first home, i am hoping that i wont have to drill it into the girlfriend that 45 minute showers are not to become the usual when on a meter as opposed to her parents fixed rate hehe

Gary29

4,791 posts

120 months

Yesterday (11:48)
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MrWideFit said:
I am ,hopefully, soon moving into my first home, i am hoping that i wont have to drill it into the girlfriend that 45 minute showers are not to become the usual when on a meter as opposed to her parents fixed rate hehe
Yeah good luck with that.....

remedy

2,090 posts

212 months

Yesterday (11:48)
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Why would you engage in social media one-upmanship?

It's a sewer and most of it is lies anyway. Just worry about you and yours and if you are healthy and doing ok, great.

Quattr04.

Original Poster:

869 posts

12 months

Yesterday (11:48)
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Meltphace 6 said:
Hmm I would be very interested to see how £80 at M&S could feed 2 adults 2000 to 2500 calories per day each, for 7 days. 28000-35000 calories for £80 at M&S is fishy (pardon the pun).
It’s not that hard, if you think about a lot of stuff you buy it’s more than 1 meals worth

I love making own ramen, you buy a pack of rice noodles and there’s 6 portions in a pack, the chicken broth makes 6 portions too from the jar, so it’s only the salmon (£6) and the veg (£3) that is one meal only

Same with stuff like chippollatas. 12 in a pack, 3 each in a toad in the hole and then another 3 for another meal,

Granted for lunch I tend to just take a tin of soup for £1.10, but that’s enough for me




bloomen

9,093 posts

180 months

Yesterday (11:52)
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To many, many people food is nothing but fuel. Spending less on it makes sense.

I used to stay with a relative with that attitude. They managed to find ready meals that didn't even need refrigeration and everything else was always the cheapest and nastiest possible.

I took to bringing my own food as eating there made me want to commit suicide.

That, and everyone's skint.


Michael_B

1,476 posts

121 months

Yesterday (11:54)
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MrWideFit said:
I am, hopefully, soon moving into my first home, i am hoping that i wont have to drill it into the girlfriend
With a user name like that, that’s probably what she’s expecting wink

welshjon81

696 posts

162 months

Yesterday (11:54)
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Funnily enough, I was chatting to a guy that sits next to me in the office yesterday afternoon. I've been sitting with him for a few years and as you do, we speak quite a bit about all sorts. Anyway, it is well known in our team that he is tighter than a ducks arse. As there being four men in my team we are always asking what each other is having for dinner that night, or we talk about eating out or take aways on weekend etc. as I'm sure we all do.

When he speaks about the food eats, it's difficult to take him seriously:- They are a family of 3, son is in uni. Never any take aways, never eat out, I have never see him eat in work. In fact I have never seen him spend any sort of money!!!! He buys food from the reduced section only and his food bill for last week for the 3 of them was £28.

One night last week he had findus crispy pancakes and salad, for dinner.

I couldn't live like that.

Jasandjules

71,803 posts

250 months

Yesterday (12:00)
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MrWideFit said:
Jasandjules said:
I am keen to reduce all my bills. My wife, not so much...
I am ,hopefully, soon moving into my first home, i am hoping that i wont have to drill it into the girlfriend that 45 minute showers are not to become the usual when on a meter as opposed to her parents fixed rate hehe
I tell you what, if you can get her to switch off lights from a room she leaves EVEN IF she is going to go back there "later" then marry her. ....... If you can get her to not turn the thermostat up to 22c for no discernible reason, marry her immediately....

P675

669 posts

53 months

Yesterday (12:00)
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It's one of the few things people have control over spending.

welshjon81

696 posts

162 months

Yesterday (12:03)
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Jasandjules said:
MrWideFit said:
Jasandjules said:
I am keen to reduce all my bills. My wife, not so much...
I am ,hopefully, soon moving into my first home, i am hoping that i wont have to drill it into the girlfriend that 45 minute showers are not to become the usual when on a meter as opposed to her parents fixed rate hehe
I tell you what, if you can get her to switch off lights from a room she leaves EVEN IF she is going to go back there "later" then marry her. ....... If you can get her to not turn the thermostat up to 22c for no discernible reason, marry her immediately....
And close doors behind her. I've been trying to train mine for 20 years to do it. She still leaves the utility, kitchen and then living room door open and wonders why there is a "chilly draft" blowing through the house.


Dynion Araf Uchaf

5,007 posts

244 months

Yesterday (12:10)
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welshjon81 said:
Funnily enough, I was chatting to a guy that sits next to me in the office yesterday afternoon. I've been sitting with him for a few years and as you do, we speak quite a bit about all sorts. Anyway, it is well known in our team that he is tighter than a ducks arse. As there being four men in my team we are always asking what each other is having for dinner that night, or we talk about eating out or take aways on weekend etc. as I'm sure we all do.

When he speaks about the food eats, it's difficult to take him seriously:- They are a family of 3, son is in uni. Never any take aways, never eat out, I have never see him eat in work. In fact I have never seen him spend any sort of money!!!! He buys food from the reduced section only and his food bill for last week for the 3 of them was £28.

One night last week he had findus crispy pancakes and salad, for dinner.

I couldn't live like that.
Were they cheesy findus pancakes?

Meltphace 6

412 posts

34 months

Yesterday (12:11)
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Quattr04. said:
Meltphace 6 said:
Hmm I would be very interested to see how £80 at M&S could feed 2 adults 2000 to 2500 calories per day each, for 7 days. 28000-35000 calories for £80 at M&S is fishy (pardon the pun).
It s not that hard, if you think about a lot of stuff you buy it s more than 1 meals worth

I love making own ramen, you buy a pack of rice noodles and there s 6 portions in a pack, the chicken broth makes 6 portions too from the jar, so it s only the salmon (£6) and the veg (£3) that is one meal only

Same with stuff like chippollatas. 12 in a pack, 3 each in a toad in the hole and then another 3 for another meal,

Granted for lunch I tend to just take a tin of soup for £1.10, but that s enough for me
From the soup for lunch comment, I wouldn t be surprised if you re both not hitting the calories you should be. For example a tin of Waitrose chicken soup has 48 calories in it (2% of recommended daily intake for a man).

Edit: Waitrose because it’s what I had to hand

Edited by Meltphace 6 on Tuesday 20th January 12:15

beambeam1

1,574 posts

64 months

Yesterday (12:22)
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Did I read that right? Humble bragging about being able to shop at M&S then simply describing how to make a posh pot noodle?

vikingaero

12,126 posts

190 months

Yesterday (12:23)
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I think "some" people are constantly looking to reduce their food bills.

If you look nationally, M&S are looking to expand their Food Halls by an extra 200+ units. When I look at my local Food Hall, it is properly busy and "some" people are going for better quality food.