51. Divorced. No job. £1,000,000
51. Divorced. No job. £1,000,000
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jjr1

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As per the title, how would you start again at a very late age?

Mr Whippy

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263 months

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Kids?

Panamax

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56 months

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Depends whether you want to work or not work.
Depends where the £1m is, in terms of tax wrapper (ISA/SIPP) or general cash/investments.
Depends if you also own your own home.
Depends whether you've already made provision for retirement.
Depends on your anticipated level of monthly outgoings.

The bottom line IMO is that £1m is either "a lot" or "not a lot" depending on your hopes and dreams.

ChocolateFrog

34,692 posts

195 months

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Very late age rofl

Someone's fishing.

On the of chance this isn't a wind up then if there's no kids that could almost be construed as a dream scenario.

Money across a few funds and drawdown 5% or so, buy suitable go anywhere vehicle and just do one for the rest of my life.

200 countries, get set, go.

MitchT

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231 months

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Depends what you want from life.

I'm 51. In that positon I'd buy a modest house in my favourite spot in Cornwall (about £300k), stick the rest somewhere safe and spend my time painting after the style of the late Cornwall-based artist John Miller - the kind of pics that holidaymakers want to buy - and also having them made into postcards, prints, etc., which is where the bulk of the income would be.

Don't care about making more money. Just living modestly, doing what I love, where I love.

Quattr04.

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Somewhere where the sun shines all year round and you can get a tan, drink a coffee by the beach in January and shag the local big titty women

Plenty of countries with golden visas when you’ve got more than 500k

fk the UK

SP_

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127 months

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fk off to Asia and never return

jjr1

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Mr Whippy said:
Kids?
Yes but they are anti dad. 14 and 17

jjr1

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Panamax said:
Depends whether you want to work or not work.
Depends where the £1m is, in terms of tax wrapper (ISA/SIPP) or general cash/investments.
Depends if you also own your own home.
Depends whether you've already made provision for retirement.
Depends on your anticipated level of monthly outgoings.

The bottom line IMO is that £1m is either "a lot" or "not a lot" depending on your hopes and dreams.
No house

Just money on the bank and a basic state pension if I keep contributing.

jjr1

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ChocolateFrog said:
Very late age rofl

Someone's fishing.

On the of chance this isn't a wind up then if there's no kids that could almost be construed as a dream scenario.

Money across a few funds and drawdown 5% or so, buy suitable go anywhere vehicle and just do one for the rest of my life.

200 countries, get set, go.
Absolutely not fishing. I genuinely do like this answer as it fills many of my dreams.

Not sure if brave enough to commit to the future without a partner

jjr1

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Quattr04. said:
Somewhere where the sun shines all year round and you can get a tan, drink a coffee by the beach in January and shag the local big titty women

Plenty of countries with golden visas when you ve got more than 500k

fk the UK
It is funny. I probably ended up in this predicament just because I really hate the UK and hated my boring life just before 50.

jjr1

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SP_ said:
fk off to Asia and never return
No offense to Asian women, but I still have a few few years left and they don’t do it for me

bunchofkeys

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jjr1 said:
SP_ said:
fk off to Asia and never return
No offense to Asian women, but I still have a few few years left and they don t do it for me
Africa?

LBT123456

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Go marry a lady-boy, that's hthe advice you were hoping for

Hugo Stiglitz

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Id stay away from dating sites and concentrate on my hobbies.

bigglesA110

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MitchT said:
Depends what you want from life.

I'm 51. In that positon I'd buy a modest house in my favourite spot in Cornwall (about £300k), stick the rest somewhere safe and spend my time painting after the style of the late Cornwall-based artist John Miller - the kind of pics that holidaymakers want to buy - and also having them made into postcards, prints, etc., which is where the bulk of the income would be.

Don't care about making more money. Just living modestly, doing what I love, where I love.
This, all day long. And travel, see the world, but avoid doing so on business class and in luxury hotels. You'll get more from it too getting your feet dirty and at a slower pace.

PushedDover

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Investing you and your kids - (you are retired so have time)

Find somewhere, something simple and rebuild.
Life is not over, and the part above about ‘without a partner’ - you can’t click a finger to gain that. Trust it may or can happen.

Make life simple. Rebuild

jjr1

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LBT123456 said:
Go marry a lady-boy, that's hthe advice you were hoping for
Frankly that is a little bit weird but hey ho

jjr1

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PushedDover said:
Investing you and your kids - (you are retired so have time)

Find somewhere, something simple and rebuild.
Life is not over, and the part above about without a partner - you can t click a finger to gain that. Trust it may or can happen.

Make life simple. Rebuild
This makes a lot of sense, but it is quite an unusual situation to have a reasonable amount of money but to start your entire life again

PushedDover

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jjr1 said:
PushedDover said:
Investing you and your kids - (you are retired so have time)

Find somewhere, something simple and rebuild.
Life is not over, and the part above about without a partner - you can t click a finger to gain that. Trust it may or can happen.

Make life simple. Rebuild
This makes a lot of sense, but it is quite an unusual situation to have a reasonable amount of money but to start your entire life again
I, and many here I assume, have - and with far less money


Obviously, locations and tastes may strew the numerate aspect, but principle and priorities remain the same.

I made a pledge to myself to ‘be happy’ - yes a bit woowoo or happy clappy, but a general direction, priority, you could have worse.
The way the reference to your children is made, suggests a bit of an effort may make huge rewards.