Need some advice, lifestyle decision
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What do you honestly expect people to say?
I can only presume you've posted this in the hope that someone might say 'it's fine' and you can use that as some kind of mitigation.
If thats the case then.....sure it's fine,why not, you're a red-blooded man, it's only a bit of fun. Make sure you bum her as well. It's only fine if you bum her, got that?
>> Edited by carrera2 on Sunday 27th November 19:56
I can only presume you've posted this in the hope that someone might say 'it's fine' and you can use that as some kind of mitigation.
If thats the case then.....sure it's fine,why not, you're a red-blooded man, it's only a bit of fun. Make sure you bum her as well. It's only fine if you bum her, got that?
>> Edited by carrera2 on Sunday 27th November 19:56
You sound like you just want to go off and 
someone else because it's a fun lads thing to do, and because someone else is doing it. That's shit.
Here's an idea, why don't you go and work on your marriage and find out if it's going to last or not.If it doesn't, you can then go out and shag everything in sight until your dick falls off. I'm not sure why you seem to want to crap on your wife by cheating on her. Each to their own though
someone else because it's a fun lads thing to do, and because someone else is doing it. That's shit. Here's an idea, why don't you go and work on your marriage and find out if it's going to last or not.If it doesn't, you can then go out and shag everything in sight until your dick falls off. I'm not sure why you seem to want to crap on your wife by cheating on her. Each to their own though
Don't do it. If you go ahead and cheat on your wife you may well look back at this moment and wish you could turn the clock back.....
Think about taking your kids back to their mum at 5pm on a Sunday night after you've had them in your flat for the weekend - you can't go in and put them to bed 'cos she won't let you in the house.....that's what might happen when you get caught...
BUT you must deal with the fact that you feel this way - if your marriage was going well then you wouldn't be tempted - having said that I wonder just how tempted you actually are or whether it's just a boost to your ego?
I wonder if your friends wife is setting you up...?? Unlikely??? Are you prepared to bet all you've got on it..??
Work at your marriage - please - otherwise one day you'll regret it.
>> Edited by Piglet on Sunday 27th November 20:05
Think about taking your kids back to their mum at 5pm on a Sunday night after you've had them in your flat for the weekend - you can't go in and put them to bed 'cos she won't let you in the house.....that's what might happen when you get caught...
BUT you must deal with the fact that you feel this way - if your marriage was going well then you wouldn't be tempted - having said that I wonder just how tempted you actually are or whether it's just a boost to your ego?
I wonder if your friends wife is setting you up...?? Unlikely??? Are you prepared to bet all you've got on it..??
Work at your marriage - please - otherwise one day you'll regret it.
>> Edited by Piglet on Sunday 27th November 20:05
I'm sorry you even have to ask this question on a public forum. Do you want us to 
and say go on son, you lucky devil? You have 3 kids FFS, is it worth breaking up the family for a quick fling? never mind it being with your best mate. If I was you, I would tell your mate what his wife has done, surely a friendship and family is far more important than a shag?
and say go on son, you lucky devil? You have 3 kids FFS, is it worth breaking up the family for a quick fling? never mind it being with your best mate. If I was you, I would tell your mate what his wife has done, surely a friendship and family is far more important than a shag?Ask your mate if he minds you sleeping with his wife. If he says yes, tell your wife what you're up to and if the missus is OK with that, then go ahead and do it.
However, I suspect you already know what your wife and your (soon to be) ex mate will say, so why on earth are you asking for the permission of a bunch of anonymous strangers when the people closer to you are the ones whose opinions on this subject are the ones that should matter.
If you do go ahead and do it, please please please, use a condom. If this woman has propositioned you, there's every chance she's done this type of thing before. Your current wife doesn't deserve the possibility of crabs, herpes, chlamydia, syphillis, gonorrhea, or even HIV because you couldn't resist getting your dick wet.
However, I suspect you already know what your wife and your (soon to be) ex mate will say, so why on earth are you asking for the permission of a bunch of anonymous strangers when the people closer to you are the ones whose opinions on this subject are the ones that should matter.
If you do go ahead and do it, please please please, use a condom. If this woman has propositioned you, there's every chance she's done this type of thing before. Your current wife doesn't deserve the possibility of crabs, herpes, chlamydia, syphillis, gonorrhea, or even HIV because you couldn't resist getting your dick wet.
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