Someones using my email address
Someones using my email address
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Mikey G

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4,895 posts

270 months

Friday 2nd December 2005
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In the last couple of weeks i have been receiving emails from various people and companies regarding feedback and replies to messages sent from someones else.
Now this guy seems to be getting a little frustrated that he is not getting replies to his messages and is sending more back out questioning the standards of these companies, but they are replying into my email account....
So far i have received about 15 of these including a Screwfix invoice twice and i have just received a reply from an advertising company concerning this guy to place an advert in their publication, but this time i get an attachment of the advert and it contains a phone number, do i ring it?

But my main query is, how can he send email under my name/address? he obviously isnt receiving and back as i seem to be getting them all.
I have had this email address for nearly 6 years so i cant see NTL giving the address to someone else.

aranell

868 posts

254 months

Friday 2nd December 2005
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Mikey G said:

But my main query is, how can he send email under my name/address? he obviously isnt receiving and back as i seem to be getting them all.
I have had this email address for nearly 6 years so i cant see NTL giving the address to someone else.


It's fairly easy to "spoof" an email so that the address appears to come from somewhere/someone else (taking a look in my email today, I have an email from "myself" ). If someone gets an email like this, answering the email may send the email to the spoofed email address, hence an incorrect person receives the email. This might be what's happened here. If this is the case, there isn't really anything (feasible) you can do about it

JonRB

80,078 posts

302 months

Friday 2nd December 2005
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A lot of virues (virii?) will choose one email address from an infected machine as the "TO" address and another as the "FROM" adress. The recipient then thinks that it has come from you.

Sometimes the email is bounced back to the 'sender' as being invalid or containing a virus, at which point most users panic and think they have a virus.

Some mailing list / spamming software will also set the sender as being the recipient. It's not hard to do - it is only a text field after all.

Mikey G

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4,895 posts

270 months

Friday 2nd December 2005
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The emails are too genuine in his requests to be spam and my anti virus picks up nothing.

I also had a reply after he sent an email to a french telecom company asking them how he can change his home address with them as he has recently moved, he apparently has shares in them, the reply was in french so dont know what it meant...



icamm

2,153 posts

290 months

Friday 2nd December 2005
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All you can do is reply to them stating you are not the person they are trying to contact

Mikey G

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4,895 posts

270 months

Friday 2nd December 2005
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icamm said:
All you can do is reply to them stating you are not the person they are trying to contact


I have been, and it is confusing them, he sends another request asking why he has had no response from them then they reply to me again
If i get any more on Monday i'm going to ring this builder in the advert he is trying to put up
Surely after 2 weeks he would have realised he isnt getting replies to ANY of his emails

chris.mapey

4,778 posts

297 months

Friday 2nd December 2005
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He's probably a numpty (like me with computers!)

He's entered the reply to address on his email program wrong - may have recently upgraded the machine & not typed the details in right.

Can you get a message to him stating that can he check his email settings?

Chris

Mikey G

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4,895 posts

270 months

Friday 2nd December 2005
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The original email he has sent out has the address on it that he is using, and its mine..
I can reply to the replies from the people he has sent to but i cant send him an email direct as it gets delivered to. . . . . me..

GreenV8S

31,024 posts

314 months

Friday 2nd December 2005
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Assuming it's been done by accident, there's a chance that he has just put the wrong address in the 'reply to' field. If you look at the header of the original outgoing message from him, you could find the sender's address. If this is different to your address, you can contact him directly (not by replying) to tell him. If he has actually been sending messages 'from' your address you're rather stuck, but presumably that would also mean that he's receiving *your* mail when he does a 'send and receive'. Do you have any idea whether that's happening?

In that case one remaining hope to contact him is to reconfigure your email client to leave a copy of received messages on the server (this is a standard option in Outlook Express, for example) and then send yourself a message explaining what you think has happened and asking him to contact you.

LongQ

13,864 posts

263 months

Saturday 3rd December 2005
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I think you must just be unlucky.

In my experience most organisations just ignore emails - and I know mine works OK!

Presumably the guy is getting some of his own mail or he may have worked out that there is something odd going on by now. Can your ISP help in some way?

judas

6,240 posts

289 months

Saturday 3rd December 2005
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I had this happen to me a while back, only this guy had used my e-mail address to set up his Amazon account! Oh, I could have had some real fun there

trackcar

6,453 posts

256 months

Saturday 3rd December 2005
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I used to get a lot of mails from tesco online shopping ..

this kind of thing happens alot if the perswon types the wrong addy .. like he could write user@hotmail.com instead of user@hotmail.co.uk by mistake in a rush one day .. hey presto no mail to him and all mail to some poor unsuspecting bystander.

just try a few simple variations on the address theme like changing .com to .co.uk or .net and see if one of them just happens to be hte right person .. word teh mai accordingly to explain what's happening.

stone

1,538 posts

277 months

Saturday 3rd December 2005
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My money would be on NTL playing up. We had a similar problem a couple of years ago when we were receiving all somebody else' mail It turned out to be an NTL person rather than the other person. HTH

xiphias

5,889 posts

257 months

Saturday 3rd December 2005
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What pisses me off is I constantly get emails from companies for dance music. Would seems someone made up an email address that was the same as mine.

BliarOut

72,863 posts

269 months

Saturday 3rd December 2005
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chris.mapey said:
He's probably a numpty (like me with computers!)

He's entered the reply to address on his email program wrong - may have recently upgraded the machine & not typed the details in right.

Can you get a message to him stating that can he check his email settings?

Chris


That's most likely the problem. As has been mentioned, you need to look in the e-mail header. It will contain his actual e-mail address as well as the reply to address. Not sure which e-mail app you are using, but search the help files for how to view the header. It will contain a 'from' and a 'reply to' address. Send a fresh e-mail to the 'from' address and let him know.

As an example, in Outlook 2000, select an e-mail and right click it. Select options and you can see the header.

Mikey G

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4,895 posts

270 months

Saturday 3rd December 2005
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BliarOut said:
As has been mentioned, you need to look in the e-mail header. It will contain his actual e-mail address as well as the reply to address. Not sure which e-mail app you are using, but search the help files for how to view the header. It will contain a 'from' and a 'reply to' address. Send a fresh e-mail to the 'from' address and let him know.

As an example, in Outlook 2000, select an e-mail and right click it. Select options and you can see the header.


Done all that, still shows my email address......

leosayer

7,838 posts

274 months

Sunday 4th December 2005
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Do you have his home address from the french email?

Mikey G

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4,895 posts

270 months

Sunday 4th December 2005
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leosayer said:
Do you have his home address from the french email?


Unfortunatly he was asking how he could change his address...

I have a phone number from the advert he sent to the advertising agency