any Legal Begals here?
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scott64

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236 posts

282 months

Wednesday 15th February 2006
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Quick question, got divorced one and half years ago. Managed to do clean break etc. However my ex, in an open letter said she had no intentions of co-habitating or re-marrying. But she is now talking about doing just that. Her settlement I guess was based on these facts,is there anything one can do to have re-adjusted?

nwtony

3,010 posts

259 months

Wednesday 15th February 2006
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Not much of a point to argue. no intention is different to never will and neither is enforcable. Human rights and all that. IMO of course - may speed plod and the law is a better place for this?

DieselJohn

2,114 posts

287 months

Wednesday 15th February 2006
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Don't mean to offened but it seems a bit silly to expect her to live as a spinster for the rest of her life.

Put the past behind you and get on with enjoying today dude!

SpaceCowboy

563 posts

267 months

Wednesday 15th February 2006
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Hi, it's been approx 5 years since I've read up on any family law, but I'm almost certain that a clean-break means just that, the result being that each party is left to get on with the rest of their life with no commitment to the other.

Did you expect your ex to remain single for the rest of her life, in default of which you'd be entitled to a refund of sorts?

>> Edited by SpaceCowboy on Wednesday 15th February 16:30

Tunnelmeister

12,802 posts

313 months

Wednesday 15th February 2006
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i speak from experience - are you just jealous someone else is now enjoying the fruits of her loins ??

scott64

Original Poster:

236 posts

282 months

Wednesday 15th February 2006
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no would never go back there, just bitter pill to swallow when had to give a large sum of cash, i.e she gets house without mortgage etc. etc. Especialy as it is with the guy who caused the prob. But have to say never enjoyed life so much!!

Tunnelmeister

12,802 posts

313 months

Wednesday 15th February 2006
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scott64 said:
no would never go back there, just bitter pill to swallow when had to give a large sum of cash, i.e she gets house without mortgage etc. etc. Especialy as it is with the guy who caused the prob. But have to say never enjoyed life so much!!


good man, then move on - nowt worse than folk that bleat on about whats happened in the past on tinternet

billynomates

2,101 posts

267 months

Wednesday 15th February 2006
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scott64 said:
Quick question, got divorced one and half years ago. Managed to do clean break etc. However my ex, in an open letter said she had no intentions of co-habitating or re-marrying. But she is now talking about doing just that. Her settlement I guess was based on these facts,is there anything one can do to have re-adjusted?



Thats the same thing....sort of as I had...but different

She claimed that she was forced to live with the guy as she had no other options. but still wanted me to pick up the tab... said thats bollox ..good man.

Shes still there saved me a fortune

ex



then I bought the Tuscan





>> Edited by billynomates on Wednesday 15th February 18:24