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staceyb

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7,107 posts

255 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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Does anyone do it? I've been offered a job with my uncles plastering company, currently work for one of his competitors , but I don't know whether it will be too awkward or not. Anyone had any experience and would you do it or not?

Cheers

Stacey

speedychrissie

2,994 posts

270 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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it has the potential for being awkward, but i dont think that would stop me. what might make me think long and hard about it is if you are planning on staying there for a long time and hopefully "progressing" ie moving up the ladder. would it be harder to justify you progressing in the company if you are family? would you want that situation.

just my thoughts.

>> Edited by speedychrissie on Monday 27th February 12:40

Donut

4,521 posts

282 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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My wife works for her dad, it's great as she can have the day off when ever she needs too if one of our kids are ill etc.

I would say it would depend on your relationship, there are some members of my family that I would never work for or have working for me!

Davel

8,982 posts

289 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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How do you get on with your uncle?

I worked for my dad for many years. We fell out and I left for four years before he asked me to go back. I went back for another 8 years.

He then died in 99 and now I run the business.

I'd go for it if you get on ok with the guy, as long as you don't think he's after your current employers business rather than you.

staceyb

Original Poster:

7,107 posts

255 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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Well thats the thing I never see him apart from birthdays and Christmasses and stuff but lately ive been seeing him more on site which has been weird.

I eventually want to go self employed and set up my own business. The only other problem is that the company I currently work for paid for my uni fees so I kind of feel I should stay to repay them or if I leave I would have to pay them myself which would mean the mx5 would have to go.

Tuska

961 posts

261 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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I run my own buisness and employ both my wife and my mother.

Needless to say, i have to make the coffee.

Its all good though. Family are much less likley to let you down, i find. There are obvious problems and relationship risks involved but your uncle has presumably thought it through before offering you the job. He must think that it will work out good for both of you.

r988

7,501 posts

260 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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staceyb said:
Well thats the thing I never see him apart from birthdays and Christmasses and stuff but lately ive been seeing him more on site which has been weird.

I eventually want to go self employed and set up my own business. The only other problem is that the company I currently work for paid for my uni fees so I kind of feel I should stay to repay them or if I leave I would have to pay them myself which would mean the mx5 would have to go.


Stay where you are, wouldn't want to lose your car!

Yugguy

10,728 posts

266 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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depends how closely you work with them I guess, and if what the manager/worker roles are.

staceyb

Original Poster:

7,107 posts

255 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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Yugguy said:
depends how closely you work with them I guess, and if what the manager/worker roles are.


Well in my opinion my uncles business is smaller than the company im working for now and I get the impression I would have to chip in with other things as well as the QSing which I don't like the idea of and as part of my contract I would have set working hours which I don't like either, here as long as my work is done I work what I like.

I think I may have just convinced myself to stay put.

vixpy1

42,699 posts

295 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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staceyb said:


I think I may have just convinced myself to stay put.


I'm dying to do a 'plastering Stacey' gag here

staceyb

Original Poster:

7,107 posts

255 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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vixpy1 said:
staceyb said:


I think I may have just convinced myself to stay put.


I'm dying to do a 'plastering Stacey' gag here


Go on then.

vixpy1

42,699 posts

295 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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staceyb said:
vixpy1 said:
staceyb said:


I think I may have just convinced myself to stay put.


I'm dying to do a 'plastering Stacey' gag here


Go on then.


See, you've put me on the spot now and i can't perform..

Nick P

29,977 posts

282 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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vixpy1 said:
staceyb said:
vixpy1 said:
staceyb said:


I think I may have just convinced myself to stay put.


I'm dying to do a 'plastering Stacey' gag here


Go on then.


See, you've put me on the spot now and i can't perform..


do you want me to plaster stacey for you by proxy?

staceyb

Original Poster:

7,107 posts

255 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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vixpy1 said:
staceyb said:
vixpy1 said:
staceyb said:


I think I may have just convinced myself to stay put.


I'm dying to do a 'plastering Stacey' gag here


Go on then.


See, you've put me on the spot now and i can't perform..


Ah diddums

vixpy1

42,699 posts

295 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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Nick P said:
vixpy1 said:
staceyb said:
vixpy1 said:
staceyb said:


I think I may have just convinced myself to stay put.


I'm dying to do a 'plastering Stacey' gag here


Go on then.


See, you've put me on the spot now and i can't perform..


do you want me to plaster stacey for you by proxy?


Yeah, but be carefull with your tool otherwise you will get it in her hair..









That was crap

Jaglover

46,845 posts

266 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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If Stacey goes for a night out with Vixpy she might get plastered



How's that

Nick P

29,977 posts

282 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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Jaglover said:


How's that


whats this got to do with cricket?

staceyb

Original Poster:

7,107 posts

255 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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Jaglover said:
If Stacey goes for a night out with Vixpy she might get plastered


I think I would have to get plastered

Nick P

29,977 posts

282 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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staceyb said:
Jaglover said:
If Stacey goes for a night out with Vixpy she might get plastered


I think I would have to get plastered


you'd have to get plastered to get plastered?

vixpy1

42,699 posts

295 months

Monday 27th February 2006
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staceyb said:
Jaglover said:
If Stacey goes for a night out with Vixpy she might get plastered


I think I would have to get plastered