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mrs fish

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30,018 posts

289 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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Children 'having sex at 11'

More than a quarter of 11-year-olds in the UK know someone their age who is having sex, according to a new survey.

The charity, Marie Stopes International, commissioned the study of 1,077 children aged from 11-15.

It intends to use the findings to win support for a new campaign it is running to supply any child logging onto its website with free condoms on request, which will be posted to them at home.

More than half of those surveyed did not know that condoms could prevent HIV while one in 10 believed the virus could be passed on through kissing.

The study also revealed that more young people were concerned about contracting a sexually transmitted infection or getting pregnant than they were about doing well at school.

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mrsd

1,502 posts

284 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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That's horrendous (mind you 11 year olds lie. A lot) Cue someone (probably someone who hasn't got any kids) saying "If you give them condoms you're just encouraging them to have sex"
Can't see sending condoms to 11 year olds homes is a good idea though. What happens when some little scrote puts his friends' details in ? IMHO schools should have condoms available. But then someone always chips in with the above argument

swilly

9,699 posts

305 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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hmmmm and 110% of all school boys claimed to have shagged an older woman who was gaggin for it.

plipton

1,302 posts

289 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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B*llox - Mrs P-to-be's 2 are 11 and 13. They claim stuff like this all the time. They also reckon "other boys" go to bed at 10:30. Like f*** they do !!!

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And another thing - what 11 year old's todger is going to be big enough for a johnny (yes I'm an old git) anyway?

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>> Edited by plipton on Friday 28th March 13:47

CB-Dave

1,002 posts

291 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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ELEVEN???? WTF IS WRONG WITH THIS COUNTRY??

Sorry but that makes me feel sick.

Having said that, when I was that age there was always something said about so and so going out with so and so, but that was it - sex wasn't an option, hell - I think the most bodily contact was holding hands going home from school!

Who'd have thought it would change so much in 10 years...

danger mouse

3,829 posts

292 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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I totally agree with MrsD.

11 yo's talk a whole lot of crap, especially when they are around their mates. They are old enough to excercise bravardo but to inexperienced to know when it obviously sounds like bulls4!t.

Problem is that although any adult knows this, someone in a postion a of responsiblity can't take the risk that in a specific case it is the truth, by discounting it as a fabrication. They would get their arses totally kicked for neglegence.

Also, what good would it do for contaception to be availible in schools anyway? Even if they don't know all the whys and wherefores about sex, one thing you can be sure of is: they know they shouldn't be doing it.

Going the the school nurse would be a blatent admission of guilt, and I certainly wouldn't trust/expect the nurse to maintain that confidence and nor would any kid with half a brain.


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donatien

1,113 posts

289 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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Quite common in some parts of the country......


the dodger

2,376 posts

294 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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I didn't evem know how to w*nk at 11! Still wasn't sure how to shag at 15 (and neither did she, also 15). Got a bit better after a few goes.

But - girls have got older sooner over the past 20 years. Evolution, television, soap operas, films, fashion, lack of parental control, the bloody internet, have all contributed.

CarZee

13,382 posts

298 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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mmmmmmm.. exaggerated story perpetuated by special interest group (special interest being their salaries) and published by newspapers who thrive on crating and driving moral panic.

Complete shit in summary..

size13

2,033 posts

288 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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I thought this was a Mungo thread!

Mike B

47 posts

315 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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Am sure there is an element of truth in CZ post but I still remember 10+ years ago, working in hospital labs, come termination day how many 11-14 yo were on the list. Given the social changes since then I would not be surprised if in certain areas the figures were not up to these level

monkeyjunky

418 posts

315 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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Lets get the facts right here. 1 in 4 know someone whos at it. Now they all know at least 35 other kids (a class full) so that would be 1 in 140 is claiming to be at it. 50% lie (at least) so in fact 4 in 1000 11 year olds are at it.

Sounds about right. Not quite a headline grabber though is it.

funkihamsta

1,261 posts

294 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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When my sister was 13, she was telling me about her classmate who was having "bumsex" with her 17 year old boyfriend!!

I know the girl she was talking about and frankly l wasn't suprised. Ah the delights of Southend on Sea.

donatien

1,113 posts

289 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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funkihamsta said: When my sister was 13, she was telling me about her classmate who was having "bumsex" with her 17 year old boyfriend!!

I know the girl she was talking about and frankly l wasn't suprised. Ah the delights of Southend on Sea.


Sounds more like Arse-end-on-Sea

911newbie

611 posts

291 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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Strewth !
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...I still remember 10+ years ago, working in hospital labs, come termination day how many 11-14 yo were on the list.
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they were terminating 11 year olds !

Actually doesn't sounds like a bad idea for some of the little brats

plipton

1,302 posts

289 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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911newbie said: Strewth !
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...I still remember 10+ years ago, working in hospital labs, come termination day how many 11-14 yo were on the list.
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they were terminating 11 year olds !

Actually doesn't sounds like a bad idea for some of the little brats
:fugginbrilliantidea:

Make it compulsary I say

llamekcuf

545 posts

285 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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Sounds more like Arse-end-on-Sea


lol!

agent006

12,058 posts

295 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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more than a quarter of eleven year olds....


...know someone who's talking crap about having sex.

Esprit

6,373 posts

314 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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I'm sexually active and I have a mental age of 11.... does that count?

Tripps

5,814 posts

303 months

Friday 28th March 2003
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Bloke I once met reckoned he lost his virginity at 11 to two 14 year-old babysitters - yeah right!

Throughout your teens someone, then later everyone is having sex, except yourself of course. Surely the questionaire would have been more valid if they asked "have you had sex?".

I reckon that monkeyjunky has got it right, statistically not even viable, but if it pays the salaries of these people, they'll set out to scare parents who are already worried enough when their kids hit their teens.