What to do about a job offer - opinions please!
What to do about a job offer - opinions please!
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fimbo

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313 posts

258 months

Wednesday 21st March 2007
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I'm a lawyer in private practice in the City and boy or boy does my firm get its pound of flesh out of me. Out of the blue I get a call from a large international company - they want to talk to me about being their International Legal Counsel. I oblige and after a flight to Canada and back, they offer me the job. So far so good. Package looks very inviting too (increase in basic of £30k) plus potentially bigger bonus than I currently receive. Trouble is, I'm having second thoughts about a move out of private practice. Whilst my job is hard work, long hours etc etc, it is also very interesting - the sort of thing I could do (assuming I don't die at my desk) until retirement. The new job, by comparison, doesn't seem to have the same level of interest - sure it's got its challenges but I'm not going to be preparing for trial from one week to the next (well let's hope not or something's gone seriously wrong!). However, one part of the new co's 'sell' to me was that I will not be working anything like the hours I currently work - just ask the current holder of the post they said - so I did and yep, he's out of the office 6:30/7pm most nights, whereas I'm still there 'til at least 9pm. I have a young family ( 2 children aged 5 and 2) so feel like a bit of a weekend Dad at the moment with little chance to see them during the week - new job could fix that.

Compromises, compromises. Big chat with new co MD tomorrow to thrash out a few things and decide whether I want the job. I've gone round in circles on this one so thought I'd throw it open to you for your opinions.

Cheers.

chris_tivver

583 posts

236 months

Wednesday 21st March 2007
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Cliched but true, no-one ever says on their deathbed "I wish I'd spent more time in the office"

claphamgt3

12,246 posts

273 months

Wednesday 21st March 2007
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Working in another professional services sector, there are some analogies & things that, in your position, I would consider:
* Are you on the partner track at your practice? If so, that is likely to be more lucrative in the long run than all but the best GC roles
* Hard to go back into practice after too log client-side
* More vunerable to redundancy/dismissal client-side
* Check out the statutory obligations of your role carefully
* Consider the pro's/con's of moving a young family to Canada
* What will your current practice do to keep you if you raise the issue in a mature & constructive manner?

Slyjoe

1,591 posts

241 months

Wednesday 21st March 2007
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You can't buy back the time with your kids.............
Enough said I think.
(although job satisfaction and cash do come into it... enjoy them whilst you're young!!)

Fimbo

Original Poster:

313 posts

258 months

Wednesday 21st March 2007
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job is based in the City not Canada...and yes, my current firm has discussed putting me up for partnership in the next couple of years. Not wishing to be cynical but I suspect that carrot is dangled around a lot. My firm's philosophy (a bit Darwinian) is move up the ladder or they move you out. Pretty ruthless but that's the nature of the job these days so not sure about job security being better in the private sector.

ipsg.glf

1,590 posts

248 months

Thursday 22nd March 2007
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Slyjoe said:
You can't buy back the time with your kids.............


yes

yellowvette

1,142 posts

252 months

Thursday 22nd March 2007
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Only you can really know what you want out of life. FWIW my philosophy on work is this: I quite enjoy my job, enough that I don't hate having to go to work, so that's good enough for me. I don't expect my job to be something I want to do with my time though, and I can think of almost no job I would continue to do if I won the lottery. I work for one reason - to earn enough money to enjoy my free time. I like having a nice house, nice cars, bikes, etc. so I work to pay for it all, end of story. Therefore, if I'm offered a job with better money, that I wouldn't hate doing, then I'd take it. I do have other considerations myself, such as a good final salary pension scheme and a very secure job, but those aside I'd go for the money every time. So, if I were in your position (and if I'm reading your post right in thinking you've been offered and extra £30K, rather than a £30K total) it would be a very easy decision for me to make. Especially factoring in less hours etc. Status and job enjoyment means nothing to me, money and hours means almost everything. Others will think differently. But as I say, only you can really know what you want.

rob.e

2,863 posts

308 months

Thursday 22nd March 2007
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more money, more time with your kids.. sounds like a no-brainer to me.

"interest" is overrated if you ask me.

work to live, rather than live to work etc.

gio g

2,995 posts

239 months

Thursday 22nd March 2007
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As already said, this is your choice, sometimes getting opinion of others confuses the choices you make, instead of helping.

However in this case the consensus sounds positive to take the offer. It's amazing sometimes what change can bring to a persons life!

Goodluck.

Goochie

5,799 posts

249 months

Thursday 22nd March 2007
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As a mechanical engineer, I'm totally baffled as to why someone is having difficulties deciding what to do with a job offer that provides a salary increase that is more that my entire salary!

jacko lah

3,297 posts

279 months

Thursday 22nd March 2007
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fimbo said:
Package looks very inviting too (increase in basic of £30k) plus potentially bigger bonus than I currently receive.

he's out of the office 6:30/7pm most nights, whereas I'm still there 'til at least 9pm. I have a young family ( 2 children aged 5 and 2) so feel like a bit of a weekend Dad at the moment with little chance to see them during the week - new job could fix that.

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I'd be really ed off if I never left the office til 6.30 most nights. Mind you I have to leave home by 6.45am to get to work on time and try to get home by 6pm so I can have tea at the table with my kids. Mind you Your increase in basic is what most ENGINEERS with Honours degrees would dream of, so They'll want a pound of flesh.

2 well planned days with your kids is better than 7 badly managed days with them.

£30K could pay for some seriously cool weekends.

Right I'm going to ask you to do Value added non value added analysis on your current job.

In the Value added side I want you to put the things that ONLY YOU or someone qualifified and experienced to your level could do. and in the nonE vALUE ADDED IS SOMETHING AN assistant OR lesser mortal could do. The Routine and the mundane perhaps ?

My negotiation would be along the lines of this : In my current job I spend 3 hours a day on something an assistant could do, If I had 2 assistants instead of one, I could free up 3 hours and use 2 more productively for the company. The other hour I could leave at 5.30.

Instead of paying me the extra £30K (I went into the wrong job clearly), pay me an extra £15K and use the rest for an additional assistant.

The more time away from the office, the more productive you are.

eltax91

10,769 posts

236 months

Thursday 22nd March 2007
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Such a huge increase in salary has got to be a no-brainer for me. I agree with the concensus, work to live, don't live to work. I recently had a (modest) £5k increase in salary by moving jobs, and the new job is not nearly as interesting as the old one. But as mentioned before, i enjoy the fact that the extra £400 a month has gotten me on the track of saving for a nice car instead of my Diesel Wagon! I will always go where the money is in my life i think...

leosayer

7,838 posts

274 months

Thursday 22nd March 2007
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Do it.

Take this from someone who turned down something similar and regretted it.

jacko lah

3,297 posts

279 months

Thursday 22nd March 2007
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Goochie said:
As a mechanical engineer, I'm totally baffled as to why someone is having difficulties deciding what to do with a job offer that provides a salary increase that is more that my entire salary!




Because He's on so much more than he really needs anyway and who needs one more ivory back scratcher anyway ? Please take my humour in the well meaning way it was meant.

Last Year I was doing a Job that paid £29K. I got a promotion to a job I hate earning £32K. I'd happily go back to the old job, and wish I'd not followed the extra cash, luckily I've had this discussion with the bosses and I'm moving sideways in april (basically doing my old job TBH), but I suspect my salary rise will be RING FENCED for a while.

The thing is anyone can call themselves an engineer, but not everyone could call themselves a Lawyer or accountant. We've got people as Manufacturing Engineers with an ONC and NOTHING else but years of experience.

Zigs

1,866 posts

236 months

Thursday 22nd March 2007
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you leave at 9 and that's hard... good thing you never became a b(w)anker

Take it, I moved from a partnership to client side, best thing I ever did. Work-life doesn't exist in my job but the money is better and big Co's treat people like people (they have to, HR make them, it's brilliant) unlike partnerships where your role in life is to fund the partner's next Zonda. Also, big Co's are more secure (IMO) if you are good and you get more freedom to manage your own career. Get out of the partner route whilst you still can!

Zigs

big bad ben

251 posts

267 months

Thursday 22nd March 2007
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I'm afraid I can't offer any constructive advice, except that job advice and similar topics are usually posted in the Pie and Piston...

Edited by big bad ben on Thursday 22 March 12:27

tricky 100

954 posts

272 months

Thursday 22nd March 2007
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rob.e said:
more money, more time with your kids.. sounds like a no-brainer to me.

"interest" is overrated if you ask me.

work to live, rather than live to work etc.


Spot on.

fimbo

Original Poster:

313 posts

258 months

Friday 23rd March 2007
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Thank you all for your comments. I decided not to take the job. I don't think I'm ready for it at the moment. I've spent the last 6 years working my way up to take a shot at Partnership so I'd rather have a go and fail than not try at all. All done very amicably and they hope that in the future our paths cross again, so you never know if circumstances change...

mxi933

467 posts

238 months

Friday 23rd March 2007
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Perhaps you guys could help me out with a real dilemma.

I'm going out tonight - should I wear the white shirt or the blue?
Thanks ever so much for your advice

Oilchange

9,724 posts

290 months

Friday 23rd March 2007
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you have to bear in mind that they gave you such a measly payrise to do a job that you hate that you would hardly notice the extra money anyway. Had it been £500 a month, in your pocket, then it may have made a difference but 3K a year, gross, is harder to live with whilst in a sh1t job.
Funny, though, when I get promoted (I say when, more like IF) I will get a pathetic payrise but it'll be stepped up 7 bands, plus annual 1st of April stuff...





Last Year I was doing a Job that paid £29K. I got a promotion to a job I hate earning £32K. I'd happily go back to the old job, and wish I'd not followed the extra cash, luckily I've had this discussion with the bosses and I'm moving sideways in april (basically doing my old job TBH), but I suspect my salary rise will be RING FENCED for a while.