What punishment when child dies in hot car?
What punishment when child dies in hot car?
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LotusNova

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512 posts

248 months

Monday 30th July 2007
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Appologies if a similar thread has been posted previously.

http://www.cnn.com/2007/LIVING/wayoflife/07/26/lef...

My current understanding is that punishment can serve one or more of 3 purposes:
1. Punish the person in question for what they did.
2. Deter the person in question from repeating the same bahaviour in the future.
3. By transmission of details, deter others from repeating the same bahaviour in the future.

Imho:
1. Is not useful. Nobody has the power to change the past.
2. Only the person in question can know for sure, if the direct consequences of their action(s) are enough to deter them from repeat behaviour. In the case above, I think the chances are that no further consequences would be useful in this respect (my opinion).
3. It's always a benefit to society to remind the rest of us of consequences. However, I'm personally more likely to pay attention to a cause/effect that seems reasonable than to one that is not. If a punishment seems to me out of proportion to the crime, I'm more likely to ignore & forget it. If I can see the relevance, I'm more likely to remember.

I'd be interested in learning from the BIB/legal bods views on this.

putridp

235 posts

234 months

Monday 30th July 2007
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Mine hasn't the value of a BiB's opinion wink but it's an opinion nonetheless.

If you make point 3 too relaxed, the crime of manslaughter can't exist, which to my mind leaving a child to die in a hot car must be.

Who could forget that people/animals die in hot cars? If it's your own child then maybe it's natural selection in action, but it's rather harsh.

I think the human mind's own conscious would be more than punishment enough in most cases, but shouldn't future children be protected from the person's stupidity?

Edit: just read the article: how could you forget you've got your child in the backseat?! For 7 hours?! I'm paranoid about leaving my dog in the car for 5 minutes on cold winter day if the sun is even vaguely shining.

Edited by putridp on Monday 30th July 21:12

LotusNova

Original Poster:

512 posts

248 months

Monday 30th July 2007
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putridp said:
...If you make point 3 too relaxed...
I agree - and I believe it is always necessary to have an explicit deterrent for others. My point is that if you make it too harsh, it will be a less effective deterrent than if it was more reasonable. Just wondering if other folks saw it the same way.

Mr2Mike

20,143 posts

286 months

Monday 30th July 2007
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What a sickening article frown I can be absent minded, but I can't possibly imagine forgetting the existence of the most precious thing in my life sitting behind me. A horrible way to die, baked to death after being abandoned by your parents.

The answer the original post surely depends on the circumstances. If the parent "convienently" forgot because they didn't want to deal with the responsibility any more then clearly it's murder. If they were genuinly absent minded/ignorant enough to leave their own child in a baking hot car, then they will already be experiencing something far worse than any prision could inflict.

LotusNova

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512 posts

248 months

Tuesday 31st July 2007
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anonymous said:
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Mods - please feel free to move it, if there's a more appropriate place for it.

Peter Ward

2,097 posts

287 months

Tuesday 31st July 2007
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The article indicates that many more children have died in this way since we started placing rear-facing child seats on the back seat (presumably because in most cars you can't switch off the passenger airbag). I wonder how many lives have been saved in accidents vs. lives lost because of forgetting the child? A sad but interesting piece of evidence in support of the law of unintended consequences.

jacko lah

3,297 posts

280 months

Tuesday 31st July 2007
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For most parents I think the child dying would be enough punishment.

My own parents were pretty stupid and left me in a carry cot in the boot of an estate car whilst they walked in the hills. I think the penalty for doing that if the kid is fine should be quite severe.

davido140

9,617 posts

257 months

Tuesday 31st July 2007
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Me and my brother used to get left in the car in the pub car park whilst mum and dad went for a drink.

Obviously not the same thing as we were a bit older between 5 and 7 IIRC, always got a coke and a packet of Big D nuts to keep us ammused. It was character building! biggrin


Bing o

15,184 posts

250 months

Tuesday 31st July 2007
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Sterilisation.

Jasandjules

72,664 posts

260 months

Tuesday 31st July 2007
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In answer to the OP. It won't be harsh enough.

SplatSpeed

7,491 posts

282 months

Tuesday 31st July 2007
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i know you can forget

i left my kid at school once started working and lost track of time

boy was i in trouble

people do forget and he will punich himself for life

but if he decided to do it then a concious decision was made

that is what the court has to decide

V8 EOL - Rich

2,782 posts

253 months

Tuesday 31st July 2007
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If it was me who had forgot, I'd want to be put down.

burwoodman

18,718 posts

277 months

Tuesday 31st July 2007
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he will live with this mistake the rest of his days-prison is no place for him because unlike speeding or doing some similar stupid thing no one thinks damn I must not leave the baby in the car for 7 hours.


Whilst up at canary wharf in the car park a while back i saw my friends kids all sitting in the car. His wife had nipped into waitrose supposedly for 10 mins. He was rather defensive and im confident it never happened again. There are 4 billion people out there-bound to be a few idiots

Mr_annie_vxr

9,270 posts

242 months

Tuesday 31st July 2007
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burwoodman said:
he will live with this mistake the rest of his days-prison is no place for him because unlike speeding or doing some similar stupid thing no one thinks damn I must not leave the baby in the car for 7 hours.


Whilst up at canary wharf in the car park a while back i saw my friends kids all sitting in the car. His wife had nipped into waitrose supposedly for 10 mins. He was rather defensive and im confident it never happened again. There are 4 billion people out there-bound to be a few idiots
The problem is though others do. Others leave the kids at home whilst they holiday, others levae toddlers whilst they go to the shops for half an hour. This is not the first or the last.

Whilst I have some sympathy. If you choose to have 12 children then you choose to have that responsibility.

Bing o

15,184 posts

250 months

Tuesday 31st July 2007
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burwoodman said:
he will live with this mistake the rest of his days-prison is no place for him because unlike speeding or doing some similar stupid thing no one thinks damn I must not leave the baby in the car for 7 hours.
So leaving your child to cook to death in the family car because of your negligence is not as bad as speeding?

Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight!!

davido140

9,617 posts

257 months

Tuesday 31st July 2007
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Bing o said:
Sterilisation.
yes some kind of equivalent to the sex offenders register for people unfit to have, or care for, or be near children.

pikeys should automatically be added to the list until they have a fixed address.

LotusNova

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512 posts

248 months

Tuesday 31st July 2007
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Jasandjules said:
In answer to the OP. It won't be harsh enough.
Could you elaborate a bit? I'm interested in understanding other folks views on the matter.