Felling Cr@p

[Alpha1]

At the moment I'm going through days where i could instantly drop everything and leave and getting very stressed. Id go to the airport and just fly away, most likely Australia. I have never really had these thoughts before. i sometimes think for hours on all the negative in my life, all the st i cant change.

Works very good, well paid and very good future prospects.
Got a nice bungalow,
Going to the Maldives in Nov
Getting Married Next Nov
Just bought a new Car
Just about to complete on a new re-mortgage for 5 years
Got a gorgeous girlfriend who lives with me.

What the fk is wrong with me?
Mid Life Crisis?
I'm 23

[illmonkey]

refer to: http://pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?h=0&t...


Next.

[sleep envy]

Alpha1 said:

Getting Married Next Nov

Alpha1 said:

I'm 23

I'd be feeling st about that too

HTH

[steven182]

I think you are broken.

although I have a relatively good life i sometimes feel like just fking off for a bit and spending someone elses money. but noone will give me their money =[

[TheCarpetCleaner]

sleep envy said:

Alpha1 said:

Getting Married Next Nov

Alpha1 said:

I'm 23

I'd be feeling st about that too

HTH

Wait until he has kids

[Timmy35]

You have too few troubles and we naturally prefer to have things to worry about.

Bum your fiancees sister and get caught by her doing it, she'll call off the engagement and you'll loose your job through her posting pictures of you all over the town in revenge, then you'll loose your house, and holiday.

Once you've done all of that you have a right to post of her about having some real problems.

[The Curn]

Alpha1 said:

Got a nice bungalow,

Maybe this is the issue?

Sleeping on the ground floor always makes me feel a bit strange.

HTH

[Deltaf01]

Your spoilt.
When you have none of those things youll be either happier or a heck of a lot more miserable.

[GTIR]

Dunno, but your should feel for this bloke...

linky

Think yourself lucky young man.

[308mate]

Alpha1 said:

At the moment I'm going through days where i could instantly drop everything and leave and getting very stressed. Id go to the airport and just fly away, most likely Australia. I have never really had these thoughts before. i sometimes think for hours on all the negative in my life, all the st i cant change.

Works very good, well paid and very good future prospects.
Got a nice bungalow,
Going to the Maldives in Nov
Getting Married Next Nov
Just bought a new Car
Just about to complete on a new re-mortgage for 5 years
Got a gorgeous girlfriend who lives with me.

What the fk is wrong with me?
Mid Life Crisis?
I'm 23

Harden up.

If you have a good job thats paid well with good prospects, I expect you work quite hard. Which can come as a shock to a 23 yr old. Especially if youve been in Uni for ages and dont feel like youve "travelled" enough when staring in the face of settling down. Man-up man!

Youre making me sick.

Either that, or sack the whole lot off at once and move somewhere thats good for your soul, instead of where your life and career is mapped out already and you can be reliably be a flash git forever but bored to death. Thats what I did.

[mybrainhurts]

Alpha1 said:

Felling Cr@p

Blimey..even lumberjacks won't tackle that

Bet your axe gets rusty....

[N1CK]

TheCarpetCleaner said:

sleep envy said:

Alpha1 said:

Getting Married Next Nov

Alpha1 said:

I'm 23

I'd be feeling st about that too

HTH

Wait until he has kids

im 23, married for 3 years and have 3 kids.....

[Neil_H]

Alpha1 said:

Works very good, well paid and very good future prospects.
Got a nice bungalow,
Going to the Maldives in Nov
Getting Married Next Nov
Just bought a new Car
Just about to complete on a new re-mortgage for 5 years
Got a gorgeous girlfriend who lives with me.

It's called stress, probably brought on by the pressure of attaining and keeping the above material possessions, with no real gains to quality of life, just extra stress.

HTH.

[Fume troll]

Alpha1 said:

Getting Married Next Nov

Got a gorgeous girlfriend who lives with me.

Has your fiance met your girlfriend?

Seriously though, you need a challenge. Here are some suggestions for you to do:

Sign up to help with a community project local to you.
Join the TA.
Do some charity work. Preferably dealing directly with people a lot worse off than you (won't be hard to find)

Cheers,

FT.

[M400 NBL]

Alpha1 said:

Got a nice bungalow
Going to the Maldives in Nov
Getting Married Next Nov

Maybe trying to grow up too quickly. A bungalow FFS

You need a good lads holiday at least once a year at your age. Don't tell me you've already got that out of your system already!

[thewave]

N1CK said:

im 23, married for 3 years and have 3 kids.....

your father in law is minted I presmue?

[N1CK]

no he isn't, thats where i've gone wrong isn't it? Damn!

[space1999]

Don't worry we all get the blues, running away doesn't help the issues are still there! Go to the docs and talk it through, probably just nevres and stress built up. Also try getting out in the sun more (yes difficult when it keeps blo*dy raining) but sun produces vit D and A which you really cannot buy over the counter but sun helps you produce it. Keep positive and if you feel down think of things when they are done, and dream of your holiday.

[Mr Will]

I'm the same age as you and find the key is to develop a sense of 'enough'.

Modern socity teaches us to strive for more, better, shinier, faster which means you will never be happy with your life.

Sometimes you just need to sit back and enjoy what you do have.

[Davey S2]

Alpha1 said:

What the fk is wrong with me?

Got a nice bungalow.