Waitress automatically adds the optional tip, do you......
Waitress automatically adds the optional tip, do you......

Poll: Waitress automatically adds the optional tip, do you......

Total Members Polled: 251

Pay the tip, I always do: 14%
Pay the tip, its wrong to complain: 6%
Murder the bitch after she leaves work: 10%
Make a big scene in the restaurant : 7%
Cancel the bill and start again: 63%
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R5GTTgaz

Original Poster:

7,897 posts

251 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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Me and the good wife have just returned from an expensive dinner, when the waitress handed us the chip and pin jobby she had already pressed yes to accept the optional 12.5% tip.

The restaurant was quite full and tbh we didn't want to look tight and make a fuss about it so we paid and left.

Frederick

5,905 posts

251 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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You've forgotten the option to say "Quietly ask the waitress to restart the transaction" which is what I would personally do.

The whole point of saying "do you accept the service charge" is to give the option to the diner, not for the waiter/ess to add another 12.5% to your bill unchallenged.

Edited by Frederick on Friday 8th August 20:26

rfn

4,609 posts

238 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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Providing the service was acceptable, I would usually leave in the region of a 10% tip.

It was rude, however, for her to have accepted it on your behalf, perrsonally I'd have made her restart the transaction and refused to give the tip on that reasoning.

eldar

25,338 posts

227 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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R5GTTgaz said:
Me and the good wife have just returned from an expensive dinner, when the waitress handed us the chip and pin jobby she had already pressed yes to accept the optional 12.5% tip.

The restaurant was quite full and tbh we didn't want to look tight and make a fuss about it so we paid and left.
Yopu probably are paying the eaterie rather than the waitress. Tell her to cancel the card, and leave the tip in cash, then she gets it.

hornetrider

63,161 posts

236 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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rfn said:
Providing the service was acceptable, I would usually leave in the region of a 10% tip.

It was rude, however, for her to have accepted it on your behalf, perrsonally I'd have made her restart the transaction and refused to give the tip on that reasoning.
Ditto that. Usually give 10% for good service, but I will NEVER be told to give tip where its discretionary. Such actions will result in no tip whatsoever.

Animal

5,670 posts

299 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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I'd have told the presumptuous bint to start again.

Tips are for good service, not for doing your damn job - unless you happen to work at Simpson's, apparently! That said, it's not as if waiting staff earn that much so what's the harm in being generous?

moleamol

15,887 posts

294 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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eldar said:
R5GTTgaz said:
Me and the good wife have just returned from an expensive dinner, when the waitress handed us the chip and pin jobby she had already pressed yes to accept the optional 12.5% tip.

The restaurant was quite full and tbh we didn't want to look tight and make a fuss about it so we paid and left.
Yopu probably are paying the eaterie rather than the waitress. Tell her to cancel the card, and leave the tip in cash, then she gets it.
Good point, it's probably not her doing it at all, it may well be the restaurant so that they get all of the tips.

Autonotiv

2,673 posts

255 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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Depends what the service was like?

if it was crap then make a scene, if it was good then yes.

R5GTTgaz

Original Poster:

7,897 posts

251 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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Autonotiv said:
Depends what the service was like?

if it was crap then make a scene, if it was good then yes.
Not worth a tip at all.

jimmyjimjim

8,333 posts

269 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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Easier here. If they add the extra tip, then that's all they get. As I normally tip more than 15% they loose out. They haven't made the same mistake twice at any place I've been back to.

OneOn!

99 posts

219 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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Tell her to restart the transaction. I'm one of those people that don't tip at all.

wiz 1

2,474 posts

245 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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Have no problem what so ever in not tipping if the service is bad and if he foods not up to scratch then it goes back in the kitchen.

Digger.

17,044 posts

222 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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I'd be livid. Its up to the customer to decide any level of tip, which i personally leave at my discretion and in cash. The fact that she pretty much committed you to paying 12.5% extra negates any outstanding service the rest of the staff may have provided during the evening. How busy they are is irrelevant IMO. I would call back now, and have a bleat me, pretending you have just spotted the extra on your receipt.

I love putting people in their place! furious

Edited by Digger. on Friday 8th August 20:47

King Herald

23,501 posts

247 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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Animal said:
Tips are for good service, not for doing your damn job - unless you happen to work at Simpson's, apparently! That said, it's not as if waiting staff earn that much so what's the harm in being generous?
Do your balls ache from being so totally 'on the fence' about what to do? hehe

R5GTTgaz

Original Poster:

7,897 posts

251 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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Digger. said:
I'd be livid. Its up to the customer to decide any level of tip. The fact that she pretty much committed you to paying 12.5% extra negates any outstanding service the rest of the staff may have provided during the evening. How busy they are is irrelevant IMO. I would call back now, and have a bleat me, pretending you have just spotted the extra on your receipt.

I love putting people in their place! furious
Mrs R5 is now writing a letter and sending an email to them. type

sstein

6,249 posts

285 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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I was in a restaurant where the I paid the waiter at the bar with the switch card, he asked me to enter the price of the meal... fine... then he asked me to enter a tip for him! hehe So cheeky!

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Stuart

dave_s13

14,031 posts

300 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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Asked the pzza express waiter last night re the tip system via credit cards thinking it didn't actually end up in his pocket.

They do actually get the tip but it's taxed obviously. This isn't the same in all places though.

I wouldn't have paid the tip in this instance and restarted the transaction.....cheeky buggers.

R5GTTgaz

Original Poster:

7,897 posts

251 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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I thought it would have been for her, otherwise what would have been the incentive to add it on?

eccles

14,408 posts

253 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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R5GTTgaz said:
Me and the good wife have just returned from an expensive dinner, when the waitress handed us the chip and pin jobby she had already pressed yes to accept the optional 12.5% tip.

The restaurant was quite full and tbh we didn't want to look tight and make a fuss about it so we paid and left.
Funny enough a chap in work this morning was talking about a similar situation to this. The resteraunt had automatically added the 12.5%, and it was written in tiny letters on the paper receipt. He only noticed whilst examining it in the car afterwards, he went back in and asked them to refund his card the 12.5%, which they did after a bit of fuss. He told them he'd have gladly tipped them more if they'd not automatically added it to his bill.

fflyingdog

621 posts

270 months

Friday 8th August 2008
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Don't leave a tip at all if i can help it ,Mrs Fflyingdog is more charitable than i,my point is if the wages are crap as a waiter/waitress then get a better job simple.I don't get a tip when an aircraft i released for service doesn't crash.If you take a low paid job then expect low wages do not expect people who have paid the stated price for goods/services to make up your wage packet.