Feeling very uncomfortable!!

[petrol_penelope]

Need some advise please

in the office and the past couple of weeks one of the senior managers has been coming on to me, Not subtaly either.

He keeps coming over to our side of the building bareing in mind he works for a completely different side of the business to me and on the other side of the building, so anyway he make trips over to this side of the building stands over me winks at me and then walks off.

Now it is starting to get a little worse when im going for a Cig break he seems to time it at the same time now i dont mind him or anybody for that matter who joins me when i go out but it always seems to be just the two of us.

the other day whilst being stood out side he went to touch my chest of which i backed away and asked him what he was doing which he replied I had fluff on my top!!!!! Looked down and there was nothing there apart from my cancer support badge which i wear. he compliments me all the time bust says things like "God your looking sexy today and i Cant get you off my mind!!!"

Just been down for a break now and he appeared a few miniutes after i got out side no-one else there and aske me..... " so when can i ravage!" to which my reply was look im not being funny but im very happy with my OH and would not in a millions years even think about cheating on him im sorry.

So i finished my cig and went to wait for the lift he manages to get in the lift with me and then said to me "So there is no way i can have some fun in the lift with you?" I just laughed nervously and hoped for the left to hurry up just so i could get out.

What do i do? Do i say some thing to him once and for all OR do i report him ??? please help me im starting to feel really uncomfortable with it.

Sorry it so long but i just wanted to paint the picture for you.

[Zod]

Is this a wind-up?

I not, just tell him you are not interested. If he continues, report him to HR.

[hornetrider]

Stab your 'cig' in his eye

[zippy500]

Go and see HR now. Best to get it on record and protect yourself

[petrol_penelope]

Zod said:

Is this a wind-up?

I not, just tell him you are not interested. If he continues, report him to HR.

No its not a wind up.

[Matt_N]

Is a promotion on the cards?

[Correct Change]

Keep a diary of everything.

[andy400]

Jesus, what a loser.






I'd have had you twice by now.....

[Riknos]

He has breached sexual harassment laws already, and you have warned him enough times.. This is a job for HR!

[LHDisbest]

Creep - Sexual Harrasment

Report ASAP - I hate office creeps (and im a man!)

[aussiebruce]

yes, i think you will have to tell someone higher up. but i guess you already know that.

[_Batty_]

BJ = promotion

[tricky69]

stop being a tease ???

[mitzy]

He sounds like a complete perv.

Is his name Rod


I would have a word with his boss, book a meeting with him and tell him , or get on to your HR Manager.

I know we all have a laugh and a joke on here about this. But if it was your wife/girlfriend I think you blokes would be pretty angry.

It's not a nice feeling.

[hornetrider]

_Batty_ said:

BJ = promotion

Don't you pay attention? There'll be no profit in that, he works in a different dept

[HundredthIdiot]

Explain that you currently have a CLK 63 AMG Black Series and he's an A160 CDI.

If he doesn't get the message he should be working somewhere else.

Edited by HundredthIdiot on Thursday 30th October 11:23

[Geronimo]

petrol_penelope said:

Need some advise please

in the office and the past couple of weeks one of the senior managers has been coming on to me, Not subtaly either.

He keeps coming over to our side of the building bareing in mind he works for a completely different side of the business to me and on the other side of the building, so anyway he make trips over to this side of the building stands over me winks at me and then walks off.

Now it is starting to get a little worse when im going for a Cig break he seems to time it at the same time now i dont mind him or anybody for that matter who joins me when i go out but it always seems to be just the two of us.

the other day whilst being stood out side he went to touch my chest of which i backed away and asked him what he was doing which he replied I had fluff on my top!!!!! Looked down and there was nothing there apart from my cancer support badge which i wear. he compliments me all the time bust says things like "God your looking sexy today and i Cant get you off my mind!!!"

Just been down for a break now and he appeared a few miniutes after i got out side no-one else there and aske me..... " so when can i ravage!" to which my reply was look im not being funny but im very happy with my OH and would not in a millions years even think about cheating on him im sorry.

So i finished my cig and went to wait for the lift he manages to get in the lift with me and then said to me "So there is no way i can have some fun in the lift with you?" I just laughed nervously and hoped for the left to hurry up just so i could get out.

What do i do? Do i say some thing to him once and for all OR do i report him ??? please help me im starting to feel really uncomfortable with it.

Sorry it so long but i just wanted to paint the picture for you.

Are you fit?

[Little Dave]

Report him or alternatively when he next siddles up to you shout very loudy "Get your hand off my bottom you pervert". At least that way the whole office has been warned.

[SpydieNut]

Riknos said:

He has breached sexual harassment laws already, and you have warned him enough times.. This is a job for HR!

agree

slimy toad.

next time knee him in the knackers, twice.

[madrob6]

Get somebody else to fondle you on a ciggy break so that when he comes out he catches you at it.

Should dent his ego nicely.