"Black Humour" - rights and wrongs thereof
"Black Humour" - rights and wrongs thereof
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Landlord

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12,689 posts

286 months

Thursday 27th November 2008
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Following on from the link to the story of the poor chap who died after his pants caught alight.

To the people who don't happen to think this is funny; Why do you think those who do should be judged by you? Why do you think there's any relevance or point in comments along the lines of "you should be ashamed of yourselves"?

It's often troubled my why people think they have a right to judge other people on what they might find amusing - when it all boils down to levels of detachment. I mean, I giggled - mostly at the image of a wheelchair bowling towards the kitchen only to thud to a halt in the doorway whilst his crotch gently smoked away. But this is because I can, in this instance, detach myself from the screaming and the unimaginable agony the chap would have experienced in his final moments. It's MY mental imagery that is amusing me - not the chaps suffering.

Ignoring the specifics of the story and turning to black/dark humour general, I guess I'm interested in peoples opinions on the "how could you?!" judgement.

V8mate

45,899 posts

218 months

Thursday 27th November 2008
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Everything's funny, isn't it? Makes life more bearable.

If the bad thing happens to me, it's down to me to do something about it.

I take the piss and expect nothing better in return from my fellow planet dwellers. Cuts out disappointment.

scotal

8,751 posts

308 months

Thursday 27th November 2008
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I assumed he was laughing at the attrocious headline, not the event itself, but maybe i am just naive.

Plotloss

67,280 posts

299 months

Thursday 27th November 2008
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Some people cant find humour in anything.

It's their loss essentially.

cronk-flakes

3,480 posts

282 months

Thursday 27th November 2008
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rofl Flaming pants... Classic...

rofl

G'kar

3,728 posts

215 months

Thursday 27th November 2008
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No judgement from me, I just didn't find it funny.

Actually, that's not true. I read the headline and rubbed my hands together, thinking 'ooh, this'll be good' and preparing my gigglechops for overload.

But then the story was appalling and just sucked the joy out of the headline.

"Torquemada"

5,196 posts

266 months

Thursday 27th November 2008
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It's a gift to be able to find humour in bleak situations although it's not always appreciated by everyone.

The Asian text joke thing was a case in point. The jokes weren't particularly funny but it was the crashingly inappropriate nature of it that was comical - that and the mock outrage.

Spiritual_Beggar

4,833 posts

223 months

Thursday 27th November 2008
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Just because he died, doesnt mean the whole incident is not fookin hilarious!!!!!

Of course you feel sorry that he died, but if you go around feeling sorry or sad for everyone else, then you aren't exactly going to enjoy life. Laughter and humour make the world a better place

People need to lighten up!

Edited by Spiritual_Beggar on Thursday 27th November 16:28

Cara Van Man

29,977 posts

280 months

Thursday 27th November 2008
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Landlord said:
Following on from the link to the story of the poor chap who died after his pants caught alight.

To the people who don't happen to think this is funny; Why do you think those who do should be judged by you? Why do you think there's any relevance or point in comments along the lines of "you should be ashamed of yourselves"?

It's often troubled my why people think they have a right to judge other people on what they might find amusing - when it all boils down to levels of detachment. I mean, I giggled - mostly at the image of a wheelchair bowling towards the kitchen only to thud to a halt in the doorway whilst his crotch gently smoked away. But this is because I can, in this instance, detach myself from the screaming and the unimaginable agony the chap would have experienced in his final moments. It's MY mental imagery that is amusing me - not the chaps suffering.

Ignoring the specifics of the story and turning to black/dark humour general, I guess I'm interested in peoples opinions on the "how could you?!" judgement.
Disgusting.

Some poor cripple going out in a blaze of glory is just not funny.

I bet you found it funny that the poor pilot chap lost his sight whilst flying?

<tut>

wink

SMcP114

2,916 posts

221 months

Thursday 27th November 2008
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Have I missed something?

Linky??

phil1979

3,671 posts

244 months

Thursday 27th November 2008
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http://www.thisistotalessex.co.uk/latestnews/MALDO...

The reader's comments are worth a look.

mechsympathy

58,662 posts

284 months

Thursday 27th November 2008
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SMcP114 said:
Have I missed something?

Linky??
Google "wheelchair pants fire"rofl

Sits down with a nice cup of tea and the interweb and prepares for a right good giggle.