Going Bald Sucks........
Going Bald Sucks........
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Sloppy

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609 posts

242 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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I'm sure I'm not the only man on here who is currenty suffering the devastating effects of male pattern baldness, I am 27 and hair has been thinning since around he age of 21, my hairline has seriously receded and is also very thin around the crown.

Luckily I am 6ft4 so people notice it less on me, but this is still the one thing that gets me down about myself.....I would happily sacrifice a finger or two to have a full head of hair. Has anyone on here tried hair transplants or other methods to combat this?!


bob1179

14,138 posts

238 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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I'm 29 and have a receeding hairline. I wouldn't worry about it, after all my opinion is 'st happens'.

Anyway, they say that bald blokes are more 'virile', I'm not sure if it's true or not (I'm a lazy bd) but maybe that thought will cheer you up.

Or you could just shine up the bald patch and use it as some sort of reflector to glare people with on those rare days that it is sunny.

smile

Edited by bob1179 on Saturday 20th December 11:40

Parrot of Doom

23,075 posts

263 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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Get it shaved off. All of it.

Eric Mc

125,609 posts

294 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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Never bothered me - but then, I'm not vain smile

hornetrider

63,161 posts

234 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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What is it with baldness? I have a mate similar age to yourself, also been going since 21ish, who is completely gutted about it as well.

For reference, I have a lovely full mane myself hehe

Sloppy

Original Poster:

609 posts

242 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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You wouldn't understand unless it was happening to you mate....but cheers for letting us know you have great hair....smug git wink

bob1179

14,138 posts

238 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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Like PoD said, shave it off lad!

Nowt finer than a shorn bonce.

Maybe.

biggrin

Edited by bob1179 on Saturday 20th December 11:42

A1GOY

1,521 posts

231 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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Been going since 21. I'm 22 now and I've got some lively widow's peaks.
May have to wig it up...

razbox

907 posts

248 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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Sloppy said:
You wouldn't understand unless it was happening to you mate....but cheers for letting us know you have great hair....smug git wink
Interesting website:
http://www.regrowhair.com/category/non-surgical-ha...

Geoff82

433 posts

251 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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I too am cursed with a receding hairline. I have elected not to shave it all of until 'the island' threatens to appear - you know, the lone tuft of hair at the front left behind when the rest of the hairline has long since disappeared.

Pork

9,455 posts

263 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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I wouldnt worry about it.

Mine is going (albeit I'm a teeny weeny bit older) and I'm not fussed. I've got a lot of mates who went bald years ago (early-mid 20's) and they all just shaved it. Thankfully, having a shaved head is trendy!

The four lads I'm thinking of now, I cant imagine with hair. They'd look rediculous!

Embrace it.

Super Slo Mo

5,374 posts

227 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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Sloppy said:
You wouldn't understand unless it was happening to you mate....but cheers for letting us know you have great hair....smug git wink
It happens to a lot of us, some are worried about it, some aren't.

Personally I think the transplants/combovers/wigs/whatever other quack cures there are just look daft, although that's just my opinion.

I had a number 2 ten years ago, then gradually reduced it to 1, 0 and now use a razor once or twice a week. Best thing I ever did, but then my hair always looked stupid anyway. My view is that shaving it off looks better (and is much easier maintenance) than trying to hide it.

Also, as a 6'4" Skinhead, people will treat you differently! No idea why, but they do.

NeilBeforeZod

636 posts

256 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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Thing is, it's really bothering you, but nobody else cares.
It's part of life, accept it, buzz cut and move on. Surely your self image is more than just what's on your head, right?

I've been baldie for years now and I think it's great. Apart from when it's really cold, when you need a wooly hat. I can tell it's raining before anyone else though and I never have bed hair smile

Hedders

24,460 posts

276 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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A1GOY said:
Been going since 21. I'm 22 now and I've got some lively widow's peaks.
May have to wig it up...
Don't do it!! You will spend the rest of your days worrying if people are looking at your wig.

Another vote for the big Shave.

randomman

2,215 posts

218 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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I wouldn't know, my dad's got a full head of hair, both my grandads had a full head of hear, both their dads were pretty will folicled too.

I've got too much hair, way too much - do you want some?

Sloppy

Original Poster:

609 posts

242 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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Hedders said:
A1GOY said:
Been going since 21. I'm 22 now and I've got some lively widow's peaks.
May have to wig it up...
Don't do it!! You will spend the rest of your days worrying if people are looking at your wig.

Another vote for the big Shave.
Shaving your head is all very well if your head shape suits it, unfortunately mine doesn't.

Eric Mc

125,609 posts

294 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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NeilBeforeZod said:
Thing is, it's really bothering you, but nobody else cares.
It's part of life, accept it, buzz cut and move on. Surely your self image is more than just what's on your head, right?

I've been baldie for years now and I think it's great. Apart from when it's really cold, when you need a wooly hat. I can tell it's raining before anyone else though and I never have bed hair smile
My thoughts entirely. I've always had a positive atitude to lack of hair since reading Clive James' treatise on being an "own-up baldie" back in the 1980s.

Sloppy

Original Poster:

609 posts

242 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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randomman said:
I wouldn't know, my dad's got a full head of hair, both my grandads had a full head of hear, both their dads were pretty will folicled too.

I've got too much hair, way too much - do you want some?
Yeah sure, whats your best price?!

alfaman

6,416 posts

263 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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my hair gradually thinned from my late 20's (now in my 40's ) - I have a number 1 or 2 haircut ( am thin on top - not (yet) a complete slap head.

It bothered me a little in my 20's / early 30's - doesn't really now , and it doesnt seem to make any difference to whether women find you interesting /attractive or not.

something like 40% of men have thinning hair - whats the problem

the snowman

163 posts

219 months

Saturday 20th December 2008
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The worst for me is when you go to the bank or some such with the security cameras pointing down from the ceiling and you catch a glimpse of yourself on the TV behind the counter. I was obviously aware I am thinning on top but i'm starting to look Russ Abbott now. Still such is life.