Christmas day proposals
Christmas day proposals
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Darth Paul

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1,654 posts

247 months

Friday 26th December 2008
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I had one friend of mine propose to his then Girlfriend a few years ago on Christmas day and thought nothing really of it. Then a few more did it and I thought it was all becoming a bit obvious. Then guess what, I was sitting on the sofa yesterday thinking "My best mate has been seeing his Mrs for year now. Oh oh". Well then almost instantly I got a text off my mate "Me and the Mrs are engaged"! Is it just me or is proposing on this once religious, now commercial holiday a bit boring and cliché. In my yearning to be different I'll probably propose at 13:15 on a Wednesday lunch time or something equally stupid. Apologies to any PHers who've done the Christmas day thing (congratulations really!) guess it's just not my style.

Jasandjules

72,584 posts

258 months

Friday 26th December 2008
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No, I prefer a day that is special to one or other of the couple.. That's what I did anyways.

darren9

986 posts

224 months

Friday 26th December 2008
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I did it yesterday! Best christmas pressie ever (to myself) it is a little cliched but it was still special to us. We don't really go into the whole christmas thing much and my partner has never enjoyed this time of year.

But we both really enjoyed this and its very special to us (obviously)

So, yes, cliched but don't really care! I'm still on cloud nine.

Edited by darren9 on Friday 26th December 15:51

EDLT

15,421 posts

235 months

Friday 26th December 2008
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Darth Paul said:
I had one friend of mine propose to his then Girlfriend a few years ago on Christmas day and thought nothing really of it. Then a few more did it and I thought it was all becoming a bit obvious. Then guess what, I was sitting on the sofa yesterday thinking "My best mate has been seeing his Mrs for year now. Oh oh". Well then almost instantly I got a text off my mate "Me and the Mrs are engaged"! Is it just me or is proposing on this once religious, now commercial holiday a bit boring and cliché. In my yearning to be different I'll probably propose at 13:15 on a Wednesday lunch time or something equally stupid. Apologies to any PHers who've done the Christmas day thing (congratulations really!) guess it's just not my style.
Its less cliche than New Year's Day and that other one where people get all soppy... Can't think what its called, its never ever mentioned on TV.

darren9

986 posts

224 months

Friday 26th December 2008
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EDLT said:
Darth Paul said:
I had one friend of mine propose to his then Girlfriend a few years ago on Christmas day and thought nothing really of it. Then a few more did it and I thought it was all becoming a bit obvious. Then guess what, I was sitting on the sofa yesterday thinking "My best mate has been seeing his Mrs for year now. Oh oh". Well then almost instantly I got a text off my mate "Me and the Mrs are engaged"! Is it just me or is proposing on this once religious, now commercial holiday a bit boring and cliché. In my yearning to be different I'll probably propose at 13:15 on a Wednesday lunch time or something equally stupid. Apologies to any PHers who've done the Christmas day thing (congratulations really!) guess it's just not my style.
Its less cliche than New Year's Day and that other one where people get all soppy... Can't think what its called, its never ever mentioned on TV.
Easter?

ShadownINja

80,023 posts

311 months

Friday 26th December 2008
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Jasandjules said:
No, I prefer a day that allows me to remember two days in one like the day we got together or her birthday.
EFA biggrin

V8mate

45,899 posts

218 months

Friday 26th December 2008
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darren9 said:
I did it yesterday! Best christmas pressie ever (to myself) it is a little cliched but it was still special to us. We don't really go into the whole christmas thing much and my partner has never enjoyed this time of year.

But we both really enjoyed this and its very special to us (obviously)

So, yes, cliched but don't really care! I'm still on cloud nine.
Because she said 'no' and you've now realised what a lucky escape you've had?

darren9

986 posts

224 months

Friday 26th December 2008
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erm, no.

JamesNotJim

755 posts

215 months

Friday 26th December 2008
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my brother the wet bugger, asked his now fiancée at 4.00am the day he had planned to ask her, he couldn't sleep while stressing about it, so rolled over and just popped the question.

elster

17,517 posts

239 months

Friday 26th December 2008
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I think it is due to the alcohol intake.

People have clouded judgement.

Mc Lovin

5,588 posts

250 months

Friday 26th December 2008
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V8mate said:
darren9 said:
I did it yesterday! Best christmas pressie ever (to myself) it is a little cliched but it was still special to us. We don't really go into the whole christmas thing much and my partner has never enjoyed this time of year.

But we both really enjoyed this and its very special to us (obviously)

So, yes, cliched but don't really care! I'm still on cloud nine.
Because she said 'no' and you've now realised what a lucky escape you've had?
hehe


darren9

986 posts

224 months

Friday 26th December 2008
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you bunch of un-romantic so and so's.

parapaul

2,828 posts

227 months

Friday 26th December 2008
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JamesNotJim said:
my brother the wet bugger, asked his now fiancée at 4.00am the day he had planned to ask her, he couldn't sleep while stressing about it, so rolled over and just popped the question.
Wow. The romance... Morning breath, sweaty bedsheets, her half-asleep stupor. Glorious cloud9

I know because I did almost the same thing with my ex-wife....

stigmundfreud

22,454 posts

239 months

Friday 26th December 2008
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Darth Paul said:
I had one friend of mine propose to his then Girlfriend a few years ago on Christmas day and thought nothing really of it. Then a few more did it and I thought it was all becoming a bit obvious. Then guess what, I was sitting on the sofa yesterday thinking "My best mate has been seeing his Mrs for year now. Oh oh". Well then almost instantly I got a text off my mate "Me and the Mrs are engaged"! Is it just me or is proposing on this once religious, now commercial holiday a bit boring and cliché. In my yearning to be different I'll probably propose at 13:15 on a Wednesday lunch time or something equally stupid. Apologies to any PHers who've done the Christmas day thing (congratulations really!) guess it's just not my style.
engagement proposals are made as a last ditch attempt to salvage a christmas where the bloke hasnt been able to buy a decent gift. I know, I done it to a few now

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

284 months

Friday 26th December 2008
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Darth Paul said:
"Me and the Mrs are engaged"! Is it just me or is proposing on this once religious, now commercial holiday a bit boring and cliché.
yes...and the text compounds the crime

Had he said The Mrs and I are engaged, he might have got away with it...smile

Chris_w666

22,655 posts

228 months

Friday 26th December 2008
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stigmundfreud said:
engagement proposals are made as a last ditch attempt to salvage a christmas where the bloke hasnt been able to buy a decent gift. I know, I done it to a few now
I don't feel half as bad about my screw up now, I hadn't thought of proposing.

A mate of mine proposed to his missus on Christmas day 2 years ago, when asked why he said 'Just to shut her up'.