A question about graves.
A question about graves.
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The_Burg

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4,853 posts

243 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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My other halfs boss after going to a funeral asked her about burials.
(Now bear in mind he is a Hindu so the idea of burying bodies he found most odd in the first place), never having been to a burial i had no idea.

So question is, how long does a grave remain? Is it owned for ever? Or is it a lease for x number of years where it can then be re-used.
Now if the plot is owned for ever surely most the land would be graves by now, so what does happen?

hugoagogo

23,437 posts

262 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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Do you dig graves?

yeah, they're all right

esselte

14,626 posts

296 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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The_Burg said:
My other halfs boss after going to a funeral asked her about burials.
(Now bear in mind he is a Hindu so the idea of burying bodies he found most odd in the first place), never having been to a burial i had no idea.

So question is, how long does a grave remain? Is it owned for ever? Or is it a lease for x number of years where it can then be re-used.
Now if the plot is owned for ever surely most the land would be graves by now, so what does happen?
I think it varies from council to council......

Sciroccology

29,908 posts

259 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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hugoagogo said:
Do you dig graves?

yeah, they're all right

crofty1984

17,064 posts

233 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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I guess if something falls into disrepair after x many years they might re-use it on the sly. But I think to all intents and purposes you do buy that plot of land.

SimonV8ster

12,993 posts

257 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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No, they do get re-used, 2-3 times is not uncommon, stack 'em up.

I could actually find out some accurate information but it requires me to contact my mother. Shes into graves.

Do you really need this info ?


HUW JONES

2,005 posts

232 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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Sciroccology said:
hugoagogo said:
Do you dig graves?

yeah, they're all right
laugh...Hey man can you turn the radio on? Yeah, sure...hey radio you're really groovy.hippy

The_Burg

Original Poster:

4,853 posts

243 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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SimonV8ster said:
No, they do get re-used, 2-3 times is not uncommon, stack 'em up.

I could actually find out some accurate information but it requires me to contact my mother. Shes into graves.

Do you really need this info ?

Certainly not essential, was just an idle question but just made me think, having never been to a burial or knowing anyone who has.
(TBH always thought it was a bit of an odd thing to do anyway).

King Herald

23,501 posts

245 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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hugoagogo said:
Do you dig graves?

yeah, they're all right
You drunk again?

ETA. Damn I hit the submit button a nano second after I got the joke. hehe

Edited by King Herald on Monday 12th January 13:54

bull996

1,442 posts

238 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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SimonV8ster said:
No, they do get re-used, 2-3 times is not uncommon, stack 'em up.

I could actually find out some accurate information but it requires me to contact my mother. Shes into graves.

Do you really need this info ?

Yes thats right-but only with the same family members. I think.

philthy

4,697 posts

269 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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My father was doing some work on the boundary of a church some years ago, and discovered some remains.
All the usual authorities were contacted, but it was nothing more than an old grave/s he had managed to dig into (he was a machine driver, putting in a new gas pipe).
From memory, I seem to recall that in that particular church, the graves were leased for 50 years. After that time, they returned to the church, who then leased/rented them for others to bury their relatives. My father posed the question "won't the graveyard fill up"? He was told that after 50 years, there isn't much left to worry about, and that further burials simply go in the same ground. Apparently, it is not unusual for the grave digger to come across old remains as he digs the grave (small bones etc)

It's common practice apparently ?

Piersman2

6,676 posts

228 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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philthy said:
My father was doing some work on the boundary of a church some years ago, and discovered some remains.
All the usual authorities were contacted, but it was nothing more than an old grave/s he had managed to dig into (he was a machine driver, putting in a new gas pipe).
From memory, I seem to recall that in that particular church, the graves were leased for 50 years. After that time, they returned to the church, who then leased/rented them for others to bury their relatives. My father posed the question "won't the graveyard fill up"? He was told that after 50 years, there isn't much left to worry about, and that further burials simply go in the same ground. Apparently, it is not unusual for the grave digger to come across old remains as he digs the grave (small bones etc)

It's common practice apparently ?
scratchchin Mmm... so if I wanted to get rid of a body, the best place to bury it would be in a graveyard?


I do hope no one comes along with the Irish airplane crash joke. smile

Edited by Piersman2 on Monday 12th January 14:04

philthy

4,697 posts

269 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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Piersman2 said:
scratchchin Mmm... so if I wanted to get rid of a body, the best place to bury it would be in a graveyard?


I do hope no one comes along with the Irish airplane crash joke. smile
Billy Connolly said:
What if Fred West's house was built on roman ruins?

Gloucester CID:
We've found 532 bodies so far, 6 of them on horseback! The man's a fking maniac !
hehe


Edited by philthy on Monday 12th January 14:14

Arese

21,341 posts

216 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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The_Burg said:
Now bear in mind he is a Hindu so the idea of burying bodies he found most odd in the first place
[Aussie accent] What's a Hindu? [/Aussie accent]

Tycho

12,272 posts

302 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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Arese said:
The_Burg said:
Now bear in mind he is a Hindu so the idea of burying bodies he found most odd in the first place
[Aussie accent] What's a Hindu? [/Aussie accent]
It lays eggs.... hehe

Edited by Tycho on Monday 12th January 14:15

amglover

1,033 posts

214 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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Tycho said:
Arese said:
The_Burg said:
Now bear in mind he is a Hindu so the idea of burying bodies he found most odd in the first place
[Aussie accent] What's a Hindu? [/Aussie accent]
It lays eggs.... hehe

Edited by Tycho on Monday 12th January 14:15
They live in india

Arese

21,341 posts

216 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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Tycho said:
Arese said:
The_Burg said:
Now bear in mind he is a Hindu so the idea of burying bodies he found most odd in the first place
[Aussie accent] What's a Hindu? [/Aussie accent]
It lays eggs.... hehe

Edited by Tycho on Monday 12th January 14:15
hehe

crankedup

25,764 posts

272 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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Most councils offer an 'Exclusive Right of Burial' within an cemetery. Once purchased you have the Right for that Exclusive grave to be used for the obvious. However, the 'Exclusive Right of Burial' only lasts for an predeterminde lengh of time which is set by the council and known to the purchaser at the time of purchase. As mentioned earlier councils vary these times according to their own policy. When the 'Exclusive Right of Burial' expires you are offered to renew that Right for a further lentgh of time, at an price of course. Should you decline to renew the Council has the authority to reuse that ground space (grave) for sale as an 'Exclusive Right Of Burial'.

P.S you are entitled to bury an human body in your own private garden provided you have death certificate and any other legal papers the Authorities may require. The grave must be marked on the deeds of the property and should you move and leave the grave 'as is' then any new owner of the property has legal right to remove that body for burial elsewhere, subject to usual legalities.

Edited by crankedup on Monday 12th January 14:26

Brown and Boris

11,838 posts

264 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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My local graveyard has graves dating back to the 18th century with headstones which are not being reused. The local cemetery has graves from the 1950's (including my great grandmothers).

But I think the rule is way more than 50 years.

We do occassionally see notices on the gravestones asking any relatives to contact the church as the headstone is unstable and if not fixed will be removed, so I am guessing once the become untended and dangerous they may get reused.

diesel head

391 posts

238 months

Monday 12th January 2009
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50 years doesn't seem long enough, I would have thought that it would need to be long enough for immediate reletives to have died, so 100 years at least, what if you had a brother or a sister, or even a parent who died when you were young, you would still be around to visit the grave in 50 years and would I'm sure be very upset at the thought of it being taken away