I have stopped smoking........now, what can i smash up
I have stopped smoking........now, what can i smash up
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Emsman

Original Poster:

7,318 posts

219 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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Jesus.

Stopped 3 days ago, already want to smash the granny out of something.

Can anyone give me any idea how long it is before i calm down a bit?


This is rough on the relationship-she stopped at the same time.

Anyone been through this, and can give me some happy, light at the end of the tunnel stories, or shall i just got and get 20 Marly Lights


MK4 Slowride

10,028 posts

237 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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I quit smoking after 11 years outright no gum or patches playing COD4 & took two weeks off work.

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

284 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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May I introduce you to Gordon Brown and Darling...?

ultegra

525 posts

235 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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Smash up all your ashtrays.

V8mate

45,899 posts

218 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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You know you want to....



jackal

11,251 posts

311 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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when i gave up teh first 2 weeks were suprisingly easy

then it got a lot harder


keep it up though... kudos to you for quiting

Sciroccology

29,908 posts

259 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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Why have you given up now? You were doing really well.

ultegra

525 posts

235 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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V8mate

45,899 posts

218 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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ultegra said:
Gheyer hehe

mically

1,204 posts

216 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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I wanted to quit, but I was told to never, ever be a quitter!


on the other hand, I have some patches from last summer which I still need to use... well, should. no, I ought too. no, I must...

although smoking has now made me fitter!
no smoking flat - I live on the top floor - and the lift never works!!

you could always look into getting a powerball? (NSD Powerball.)
it'll keep you occupied, allow you to release any frustration/ anger - and, build you wrists up without making a mess hehe



Cheeky Jim

1,276 posts

309 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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Get down the docs and ask for a prescription of patches.

2 things to overcome - 1) Craving and 2) Habit

Hence the overwhelming feeling of needing to smash everything up...

Keep at it - just remember, a craving is about 1 minute - as soon as you feel it, try and do something else. If you can, move to a different room, walk round the block, washup (you can't smoke whilst washing up!).

The habit is the hardest, so keep the cravings at bay and you can do it.

I stopped in March last year and for whatever consolation, it does get easier.

Edited by Cheeky Jim on Tuesday 13th January 20:05

leeb

1,074 posts

272 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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thegavster said:
About 3-7 days were the worst, I think my other half at the time nearly moved out as I became such a .
I hope you reminded her that this is what us men have to put up with for a week in every month!!! smile

V8A*ndy

3,697 posts

220 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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You must remember that you MUST NEVER HAVE ANOTHER CIGY EVER!!!!! Not even a sly puff.

Usually the first two weeks are tough, then after the first month you might have a wobble. Stay of the booze for a while to.

Get a plastic straw or pen to chew on. It really helps. Them inhalator things are rather good to.

It does leave you though and after a while you will wonder why you ever bothered.

It's a great feeling to be free of the craving of smoking after being controled by it for so long.

Off them 6 years now, after 2 months not a bother at all and all done cold turkey as well.

Famous Graham

26,553 posts

254 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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Cheeky Jim said:
Keep at it - just remember, a craving is about 1 minute
This is key. It sounds blindingly obvious, but don't keep any cigs in the house. When you get a craving, by all means, pick up your wallet and keys and head to the front door. By the time you get outside, the craving will have gone.

I stopped after 13 years or so, about 4 years ago (actually, I say "about", it would be 4 years exactly in a week), cold turkey, no real problems past the first week.

However. However...

You are always going to be an ex-smoker. Not a non-smoker, an ex-smoker.

I started again about 6 months ago. Only had one, one evening while out at a bar. Then 2 the next night. Next thing I knew, I'd bought 200 duty free about 3 weeks later.

Contemplating giving them up again thanks to resultant health issues.

Keep at it thumbup

Edited by Famous Graham on Tuesday 13th January 20:13

camgear

6,941 posts

223 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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Wouldn't of given up without it.

G'kar

3,728 posts

215 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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Marlboro Lights?

You weren't smoking.

Ungarsee

374 posts

248 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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Fill your time by becoming a sanctimonious tt biggrin. Now that you are an ex smoker you are obliged to remind all current smokers of what a wonderful person you are and that they are the lowest of the low. You must also regale them with stories of the hardships you have suffered but that it was all worth it because you no longer let the evil weed control you.

Either that or smash things up. Or get drunk

Sleekitman

234 posts

215 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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Gave up in April after 25 years of smoking using the "pure will power technique". The only thing I miss about smoking now is the "smoking convention" outside my local pub. You will get through this stage. I got through it by keeping busy and going for walks when I got a craving. I used to take my camera with me and snapped away whilst walking. Now I'm into photography in a big way. Oh yeah! I managed to put two and a half stone since then as well.

And I managed to give up despite my OH who is still smoking.

Or you could just rage against the machine.

Les.ley

12 posts

213 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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I've given up for 3 months now, with my second proper attempt.
Some of my own tips are
1 - Change your drink, I associate white wine with smoking so now I drink more red wine
2 - I think of myself as a smoker that decides not to smoke
3 - Watch people smoking in the rain and feel very smug that you dont have to do that any more

Sleekitman

234 posts

215 months

Tuesday 13th January 2009
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Les.ley said:
I've given up for 3 months now, with my second proper attempt.
Some of my own tips are
1 - Change your drink, I associate white wine with smoking so now I drink more red wine
2 - I think of myself as a smoker that decides not to smoke
3 - Watch people smoking in the rain and feel very smug that you dont have to do that any more
Just don't give up the wine!!