How do i stop my daughter getting up in the night?
How do i stop my daughter getting up in the night?
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Mc Lovin

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5,588 posts

250 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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For the last month or so, my 3 year old daughter wakes up in the night gets out of her bed and into our bed.

She was a nightmare to get to bed from the word go, but i've sorted this and she goes to bed fine, but now does this in the night.

It wouldn't be so bad, but she snores like a bulldog, it's keeping me awake all night and if i try and move her she throws a total st fit.

Its starting to take its toll on me now and yet again today i'm fking wrecked.

Anyone had this problem with their kids in the past? Any CONSTRUCTIVE methods of stopping her getting up in the night?

dwilkie

2,222 posts

215 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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Handcuffs? Duck Tape? Choloroform? Rohypnol?

dwilkie

2,222 posts

215 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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Seriously though, a lock on the door?

Cookie172

856 posts

240 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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Stairgate over the door seems to work fine for my friends kids

largerandrock

652 posts

233 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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I had the same problem, In the end you have to be cruel to be kind.. just keep taking her back to her room after a week she shouldnt be coming into your room anymore

Aubrey

1,157 posts

225 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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If she throws a hissy fit, tough st, she's 3, she can't have it all her own way. I was once told that if your child gets up in the night, don't talk to them, don't engage in conversation with them. Just silently take them back to bed and eventully they'll get the message.

Failing that, sleep on the sofa.

G_T

16,163 posts

219 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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Mc Lovin said:
Any CONSTRUCTIVE methods of stopping her getting up in the night?
None.

But I believe nailing her room door shut would work. Or you could lock her up under the stairs. I'm sure that wouldn't do her too much psychological damage.

dougc

8,241 posts

294 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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I'm no parent but surely telling her off would be appropriate?

If not, put her back in her room and let her throw a st fit?

Mc Lovin

Original Poster:

5,588 posts

250 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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dwilkie said:
Handcuffs? Duck Tape? Choloroform? Rohypnol?
i knew i didn't make the word "constructive" big enough

G'kar

3,728 posts

215 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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Cookie172 said:
Stairgate over the door seems to work fine for my friends kids
He wants her to sleep, not be transported to a different galaxy.


Oops, misread that.

Penny-lope

13,645 posts

222 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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You just have to keep putting her back into her own bed, and explain she is a big girl now, and she can't sleep with mum and dad.

It will take a while, but they do finally stop coming through.

And it means when they do sneak into the bed in the morning for a cuddle, you really don't mind cloud9

Papoo

3,974 posts

227 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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Mc Lovin said:
CONSTRUCTIVE
Good luck with that, Sir.

Feel for you, though. It was bad enough for me with a dog...


Heskey

4,048 posts

222 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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dwilkie said:
Seriously though, a lock on the door?
<BANG BANG BANG BANG BANG>

DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAADDYYYYYYYYY

A - W

1,724 posts

244 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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Same here with with my two year old. Started she started in between Christmas and New Year.
Always been a reasonable sleeper but has changed over night.
She can be up from midnight till 5am, either getting up every few minutes or every twenty or so and standing shouting for one of us at her gated door.

We have shifted her bed time from 7pm(ish) to 9pm(ish) in a bid to make sure she is tired enough, sadly this isnt working.

The best way we have found is to put her back in bed a few times and then gradually increase the timing in between putting her back in bed. Trouble is then she disturbs my son and good lady so they tend to get woken up in the process.


dwilkie

2,222 posts

215 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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Exactly.

You should have done it like this. CONSTRUCTIVE

I'd have still ignored it mind tongue out

Edited by dwilkie on Thursday 15th January 16:40

Papoo

3,974 posts

227 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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G'kar said:
Cookie172 said:
Stairgate over the door seems to work fine for my friends kids
He wants her to sleep, not be transported to a different galaxy.


Oops, misread that.
rofl don't know why I found that one so funny!

Austin.J

888 posts

221 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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When i was a kid if i did something wrong... i got a smack, she'll never do it again.

captainzep

13,306 posts

221 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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Similar problem here with my 3 yr old. Although unfortunately urine is involved. Buying a plastic mattress cover sur le weekend.

Just hoping its a phase.

And that I don't drive into anything during my journey home... zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

HighOctane91

7,211 posts

233 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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I didn't think you were that old, blimey confused

Edited by HighOctane91 on Thursday 15th January 16:44

Mc Lovin

Original Poster:

5,588 posts

250 months

Thursday 15th January 2009
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Guys you cant just look your children in, it doesnt work like that laugh

I dont realise she's there untill the snoring starts, i'll try putting her back in her bed i just cant be doing with being kept up all night with her screaming.

Guess its my fault for not sorting it out when it started frown