we're on a break.

[silverwater]

my boyfriend and i started having some problems recently. we just don't get along like before, we constantly snap at each other. he even seems uninterested in sex and i seem to be the one initiating it all the time. i love him very much but he is always tired as he works very hard. this is starting to become a major problem. i've moved in with him about a month ago and have moved out again, i told him i want a break in the hopes that he would start appreciating me more and all the things i do for him. i want it to be like how it was when we first got together, we couldn't keep our hands off each other. he says he loves me and he wants us to be together but i don't know. is this break a good idea? or am i making things worse?

[Colonial]

I just typed a good response to this but it didn't work so I'll sum it up
1) Make a decision
2) he works hard because everyone needs to work hard at the moment
3) Don't string him along

[JulianHJ]

Interesting first post. What car(s) do you have?

[Titan Simba]

Agree with Julian, strange first post but expect to see it moved to P&P soon. And perhaps if there were a few pics of yourself the PH massive could better help

[Shaw Tarse]

JulianHJ said:

Interesting first post. What car(s) do you have?

What do cars have to do with PH?

[Furyous]

Welcome to Pistonheads

The internets biggest and best MOTORING forum




I believe you meant to post Here

[silverwater]

well, i'm not going to put personal pics up on here, but i am attractive. my friends and the people around me don't understand why i'm with him. they all say i can do a lot better. but i really love him and feel that looks are unimportant. its all in the eye of the beholder. he is very attractive to me, eventhough other people don't think we are a match. i buy all this sexy lingerie, we try all these kinky things in bed, but i'm still the one initiating. this has NEVER happened to me before. to the blokes out there, whats going on? need advice..

[stuart-b]

[silverwater]

Furyous said:

Welcome to Pistonheads

The internets biggest and best MOTORING forum




I believe you meant to post Here

just because my first post isnt about cars.....

[JulianHJ]

Shaw Tarse said:

JulianHJ said:

Interesting first post. What car(s) do you have?

What do cars have to do with PH?

Did you know Pistonheads originated when Petrolted decided his work as a Relate councillor just wasn't reaching a large enough audience? If you Google 'marriage crisis' Pistonheads is number three in the list after the Stella Artois home page and a dubious specialist lingerie and 'accessories' website.

[JulianHJ]

silverwater said:

well, i'm not going to put personal pics up on here, but i am attractive. my friends and the people around me don't understand why i'm with him. they all say i can do a lot better. but i really love him and feel that looks are unimportant. its all in the eye of the beholder. he is very attractive to me, eventhough other people don't think we are a match. i buy all this sexy lingerie, we try all these kinky things in bed, but i'm still the one initiating. this has NEVER happened to me before. to the blokes out there, whats going on? need advice..

I'm going to pre-empt my fellow PH-ers and state that you clearly need to post a lot more detail.

Do you have a car each or do you share? Is there a mutual interest in motorsports?

[stuart-b]

silverwater said:

Furyous said:

Welcome to Pistonheads

The internets biggest and best MOTORING forum




I believe you meant to post Here

just because my first post isnt about cars.....

Hey, I've moved your thread over to here, where you have lots of responses, check it out.

[Lord Pikey]

Where did that damn popcorn smiley get to... This thread is still young.

ah, here it is



LP

[JulianHJ]

silverwater said:

Furyous said:

Welcome to Pistonheads

The internets biggest and best MOTORING forum




I believe you meant to post Here

just because my first post isnt about cars.....

It's not that your first post isn't about cars, it's that you've posted in the cars section. Anyway, back to your important relationship question:

Have you considered a sporty 2-seater? Elises are great, if very focused. Many PH-ers would immediately recommend the MX-5...

[silverwater]

stuart-b said:

silverwater said:

Furyous said:

Welcome to Pistonheads

The internets biggest and best MOTORING forum




I believe you meant to post Here

just because my first post isnt about cars.....

Hey, I've moved your thread over to here, where you have lots of responses, check it out.

aren't you a right ray of sunshine?

Edited by silverwater on Tuesday 3rd February 07:09

[_Batty_]

first things first.

Pics of yourself please

[Grand Fromage]

Well played stuart. Could I suggest a date at a certain stock cube - related tower would get you back on track.

[Driller]

silverwater said:

well, i'm not going to put personal pics up on here,

Ok, then could we do a deal on just the body without the face?

[minimatt1967]

When do the heavy guns I mean helpful PHers arrive?
Bedford Rascal, Cara Van Man, Poledriver et al your thread is here!

RIP RR!

[_Batty_]

Driller said:

silverwater said:

well, i'm not going to put personal pics up on here,

Ok, then could we do a deal on just the body without the face?

i expect thats what the b/f's been thinking for the last few months