Secret Valentines - Yes or No???

[qwerty123]

Is it ok, or very creepy and sleezy to send a secret (anonymous) valentine(flowers) to someones work place.

If I do send them, the other girls in the store will probably guess their from me which can work to my benefit or make me look like an absolute freeky weird stalker.

I've only ever said a few words to her when I helped set things up in the shop and never really seen her out in any other circumstance to chat to her. Plus its a bit weird for me to pop into the shop with no reason since i'm not directly involved in running it and also because it sells girly products.

thanx

[OJ]

The main question is, do you look or behave like a creepy stalker?

If you're a good looking, confident chap then she'll probably be quite flattered. If you're a scrawny, spotty computer nerd who breathes heavily from time to time and constantly hangs around her shop for no reason, then yes, you would be considered a creepy stalker...

I'd have a guess the answer is yes

[Neil_H]

If you've hardly spoken to her I'd say it falls into the creepy/ stalker category.

[nonplussed]

I have no comment apart from thinking this has the making of a fantastic thread

[Obi Wan]

nonplussed said:

I have no comment apart from thinking this has the making of a fantastic thread

Oh yes.

[dougc]

Call me old fashioned but you could just go and ask her if she wants to go out for a drink after work one night?

[qwerty123]

Its creepy.

I'll leave it there, lol.

[shirt]

do it, then report back. will pencil a rofl in for the morning of the 15th.

[Road2Ruin]

qwerty123 said:

Is it ok, or very creepy and sleezy to send a secret (anonymous) valentine(flowers) to someones work place.

If I do send them, the other girls in the store will probably guess their from me which can work to my benefit or make me look like an absolute freeky weird stalker.

I've only ever said a few words to her when I helped set things up in the shop and never really seen her out in any other circumstance to chat to her. Plus its a bit weird for me to pop into the shop with no reason since i'm not directly involved in running it and also because it sells girly products.

thanx

Send em. Get her out, drunk to the gils, then take her home and kick her back doors in.

[OJ]

Road2Ruin said:

kick her back doors in.

10 Posts in... I had it pegged at 15

[Ozone]

Rag + chloroform.

HTH

[FWDRacer]

qwerty123 said:

Plus its a bit weird for me to pop into the shop with no reason since i'm not directly involved in running it and also because it sells girly products.

thanx

Is it underwear? Go in and treat yourself.

[Dave200]

qwerty123 said:

Is it ok, or very creepy and sleezy to send a secret (anonymous) valentine(flowers) to someones work place
...
I've only ever said a few words to her when I helped set things up in the shop and never really seen her out in any other circumstance to chat to her.

That's creepy and weird.

Why do people who are unable to communicate with women under normal circumstances seem to think that a huge overblown gesture on Valentine's Day is the answer?
There are barriers to you bedding her which cannot be overcome by a dozen overpriced roses and some Milk Tray.

Have you considered the entirely radical approach of just talking to her?

Edited by Dave200 on Wednesday 4th February 15:46

[Goochie]

Dave200 said:

There are barriers to you bedding her which cannot be overcome by a dozen overpriced roses and some Milk Tray.

Thats not true in all parts of the country!

[Dave200]

Goochie said:

Dave200 said:

There are barriers to you bedding her which cannot be overcome by a dozen overpriced roses and some Milk Tray.

Thats not true in all parts of the country!

I presume that you are referring to the Fenns - I concede, that being siblings may just work in your favour in this instance...

[arryb]

How about forgetting the anonamous angle and picking up some flowers, going in there, handing over the flowers and asking her out there and then Good luck

[fathomfive]

arryb said:

How about forgetting the anonamous angle and picking up some flowers, going in there, handing over the flowers and asking her out there and then Good luck

Not Dandelions!

[SleeperCell]

arryb said:

How about forgetting the anonamous angle and picking up some flowers, going in there, handing over the flowers and asking her out there and then Good luck

That way you get to experience the full blown humiliation in person when you find out she already has a boyfriend.

[Eddh]

Send them to her but let her know they are from you.

She might not know who you are so enclose a picture of you as well.







Strung from a rafter in a dungen wearing a gimp suit with an orange in your mouth mid wk.

Should get her attention.

[ad551]

Well you could try Facebook-stalking her before you start flower-stalking her.