Ex Girlfriend. When do you become friends again?

[Makko1]

I split up with my girlfriend about seven months ago, after a 2 year relationship.
We split up on good terms, but did not keep in touch, as it was quite painful at the time.
I have been single since, but have had a few flings, and ONSs.
When I was out in my car yesterday, she was driving in the opposite direction and flashed her lights and waved at me.
Do I make contact again, or stay well away?

[Vixpy1]

she wants it

[camgear]

After sitting down, logging onto PH, and posting, I think she'll be quite far away now.

[largerandrock]

Put her back doors in!!!

[10 Pence Short]

You can't really be friends until that feeling of wanting to ram one up her goes away. If that's gone, you're OK.

[Vixpy1]

10 Pence Short said:

You can't really be friends until that feeling of wanting to ram one up her goes away. If that's gone, you're OK.

if not, do it anyway

[10 Pence Short]

Vixpy1 said:

10 Pence Short said:

You can't really be friends until that feeling of wanting to ram one up her goes away. If that's gone, you're OK.

if not, do it anyway

Well, yes. There's always that option.

[mat205125]

Ensure that you are considerably more successful financially, have a new younger and better looking girlfriend, and have "experienced" at least 2 or 3 of her closest friends since you broke up.

No problems making contact and being friends then.

[Vixpy1]

10 Pence Short said:

Vixpy1 said:

10 Pence Short said:

You can't really be friends until that feeling of wanting to ram one up her goes away. If that's gone, you're OK.

if not, do it anyway

Well, yes. There's always that option.

I'd say a good one

[anonymous-user]

Some class advice posted here

[Harry Flashman]

Dunno. I'll ask her.

I'll have to defrost her and put her back together first, mind.

• heads for the freezer.

[maxrider]

10 Pence Short said:

You can't really be friends until that feeling of wanting to ram one up her goes away. If that's gone, you're OK.

Not necessarily, still friends with most of my exes and still get 'the urge' with some of them.
makes me kick myself for 'letting them go' though

[Penny-lope]

Of course you can still be mates...it's called adulthood

[DamoLLb]

If you're ready to listen to her twitter on about new boyfriends and troubles be friends, if not, then yes you guessed it

smash

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back

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doors

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in

[C8PPO]

maxrider said:

Not necessarily, still friends with most of my exes and still get 'the urge' with some of them.
makes me kick myself for 'letting them go' though

Can't think of any of mine that I would actually want to revisit - although a vengeance shag wouldn't go amiss in one or two cases.

[S1MMA]

Penny-lope said:

Of course you can still be mates...it's called adulthood

There should be an option of posting a thread where you can block women from posting on it. Quote above shows why...

[jatinder]

DamoLLb said:

If you're ready to listen to her twitter on about new boyfriends and troubles be friends, if not, then yes you guessed it

smash

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back

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doors

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in

Always make sure it's in that order.

[Cara Van Man]

Vixpy1 said:

she wants it

No, she was telling him his boot was on fire.

[Ikemi]

Yeah, 'smash doors in back' doesn't seem so appealing!

I'd say once you have both fully moved on and see each other as only 'good friends', bearing in mind there was a reason why you split in the first place, then yes. I think 6 months is usually enough to clear the air, although for me (Last relationship was 3.5years) it was less ...

However if you become friends it might be interesting to see how your new OH reacts?

[172ff]

Pics?