No good deed goes unpunished
No good deed goes unpunished
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tinman0

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18,231 posts

269 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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Minor rant to get it off my chest.

I did someone a favour earlier today. Took twice the amount of time that I thought it would, I was just the courier and there was a problem with the item. At the end of the day, not my problem, but the problem wasn't the end of the world, and its not like they wasted their time. Only my time was wasted in the whole episode.

But what did I get when I returned. My friend raising their voice at me, and 'jokingly' said that I deserve bad treatment from the same company. Yeah great.

When I retreated with good humour I was then thanked for my time. Cheers.

If you are reading this, because I know you are a PHer, yeah, I am a bit pissed off.

Nobody You Know

8,422 posts

222 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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Homer Simpson put it best when he said:

"And the lesson is.... Never help anyone"

Seriously though, I will always help a friend even strangers in need but don't get involved in helping other peoples businesses and jobs, it always seems to end badly.

stigmundfreud

22,454 posts

239 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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I am no good at all the detective work required to even start to understand your rant. A weak rant at that. What is your complaint here and which member is it aimed at?

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

284 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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Burn him...

Jasandjules

72,560 posts

258 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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I don't mind helping people out as long as they are nice about it. I do have family who seem to expect that I put myself out to help them and get upset and annoyed if I don't......... Strange how people can be.


chris watton

22,547 posts

289 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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Helping friends and relatives with their PC problems is the most thankless job, I have found...

wildoliver

9,297 posts

245 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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chris watton said:
Helping friends and relatives with their PC problems is the most thankless job, I have found...
Just don't do it, it always goes wrong, when it does go wrong it will be your fault, every time even the tiniest problem occurs they will be on the phone to you.

Nowadays I no nothing about computers or cars if anyone asks, it is far far easier that way.

bigTee

5,546 posts

250 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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Stone him.

barney123

495 posts

240 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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chris watton said:
Helping friends and relatives with their PC problems is the most thankless job, I have found...
Ha AND WORK COLLEAGUES - currently got a PC on my desk.

Last week, Woman (at work) calls my extension and says her PC does not work.

OK I thought I will have a look.

Dead : So I said must be power supply - go and get another one.

She did and brought it back to work, so I fitted it, and now it boots but HD is dead [must have caused the PSU to blow].

OK I thought, I had a spare hanging about so I installed it, put Win XP on it, sorted.

Took it back down to her and now she tells me all her family photos are on the dead drive.

So now, I'm currently trying to find an identical drive in order to swap the controller board.

WTF ?

hornetrider

63,161 posts

234 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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Anyone else hoping the twunt of a PHer involved turns up in this thread?

arguepunchshoot

G'kar

3,728 posts

215 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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hornetrider said:
Anyone else hoping the twunt of a PHer involved turns up in this thread?

arguepunchshoot
I'm hoping someone will explain what happened.

You know, in words. English words. Formed into sentences. In a manner that makes sense.


Jambon

309 posts

269 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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My hard drive is on the blink again. The monitor is fuzzy and the modem is unreliable.

Please help.

Don't expect any payment or notification of gratitude if you contact me offering help. Just don't be upset, I am just managing your expectations.

Galileo

3,147 posts

247 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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G'kar said:
hornetrider said:
Anyone else hoping the twunt of a PHer involved turns up in this thread?

arguepunchshoot
I'm hoping someone will explain what happened.

You know, in words. English words. Formed into sentences. In a manner that makes sense.
Its Ok I got this, I understand 'gibberish'.
He helped someone. They didn't say thank you.

Don't mention it.

NiceCupOfTea

25,586 posts

280 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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barney123 said:
chris watton said:
Helping friends and relatives with their PC problems is the most thankless job, I have found...
Ha AND WORK COLLEAGUES - currently got a PC on my desk.

Last week, Woman (at work) calls my extension and says her PC does not work.

OK I thought I will have a look.

Dead : So I said must be power supply - go and get another one.

She did and brought it back to work, so I fitted it, and now it boots but HD is dead [must have caused the PSU to blow].

OK I thought, I had a spare hanging about so I installed it, put Win XP on it, sorted.

Took it back down to her and now she tells me all her family photos are on the dead drive.

So now, I'm currently trying to find an identical drive in order to swap the controller board.

WTF ?
Why is she keeping personal photos on her work PC? confused

My dad once sold a PC to a guy down the road. For the next couple of months this guy (who knew less than nothing about PCs and was as thick as two short planks) was ringing up EVERY NIGHT for tech support - "I can't find this file" "such and such isn't working".

My dad being the nice guy he is used to "pop over" for 4 hours at a time to sort out the mess this guy had made and try to explain to this half wit what he was doing wrong.

banghead

tinman0

Original Poster:

18,231 posts

269 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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chris watton said:
Helping friends and relatives with their PC problems is the most thankless job, I have found...
ah yes, unpaid lifetime pc support. we've all been there and got pissed off with it.

Chim Chim

739 posts

234 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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I had some neighbours knock on the door once to ask for help changing a wheel on their car as they were having problems. First time they ever spoke to me. Me being the nice bloke I am went to help, they went in the house and left me to it! And I burnt my dinner! Barely got a thanks and rarely spoke to me again.

Eventually they moved and a nice lady moved in who I've got friendly with (she's retired so not totty!) - I noticed she had a flat in December so knocked on the door and told her, ended up changing it for her - she got me a bottle of wine.

sleep envy

62,260 posts

278 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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tinman0 said:
When I retreated with good humour I was then thanked for my time. Cheers.

If you are reading this, because I know you are a PHer, yeah, I am a bit pissed off.
why not tell your 'friend' rather than starting a thread?

mechsympathy

58,533 posts

284 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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G'kar said:
hornetrider said:
Anyone else hoping the twunt of a PHer involved turns up in this thread?

arguepunchshoot
I'm hoping someone will explain what happened.

You know, in words. English words. Formed into sentences. In a manner that makes sense.
More to the point why does the OP, who I assume is male, give a st?

Jasandjules

72,560 posts

258 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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tinman0 said:
chris watton said:
Helping friends and relatives with their PC problems is the most thankless job, I have found...
ah yes, unpaid lifetime pc support. we've all been there and got pissed off with it.
Indeed. I know when my parents have a PC problem, because they call me up to see when I am next coming to visit. Then when I arrive there is a little list of things to solve.........

SpydieNut

5,956 posts

252 months

Friday 20th February 2009
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sleep envy said:
tinman0 said:
When I retreated with good humour I was then thanked for my time. Cheers.

If you are reading this, because I know you are a PHer, yeah, I am a bit pissed off.
why not tell your 'friend' rather than starting a thread?
t'was my thought too.