Should I get a puppy?
Should I get a puppy?
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dazmm

Original Poster:

69 posts

257 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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The other half is nagging me into getting a Labrador puppy.
Me being sensible say ''we're both at work for over 9 hours a day, it wouldn't be fair on the dog''. Also our kids are at that age where we're their personal taxi company. So week days are pretty busy
but am i beng too sensible?
I do like the idea of a dog, but for weekends only which isn't possible. (No smutty replies on this last comment).

Are there many dog owners on here?
and do your dogs get left alone alot?



loafer123

16,078 posts

233 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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I'd just cut out the "puppy stage" and go straight to the "having a kid stage" if I were you.

paulmurr

4,203 posts

230 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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If you're both out for that long during the day, I'd say no. Your house will likely be destroyed and the pup will turn out mental.

Just my 2p worth

Justin_Tvr

574 posts

203 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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9 hours a day to leave a dog is a long time; a puppy is near enough impossible they need ALOT of attention most of the time. How nice is the area where you are going to keep it, as they love to chew/sh*t/puke in most places.

Have you got a garden that is self contained?? If I leave my dogs for any length of time they can get in and out a 'dog flap' yes that right big enough for a fully grown lab and she can wander in and out of the garden and she wishes.

john_p

7,073 posts

268 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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paulmurr said:
If you're both out for that long during the day, I'd say no. Your house will likely be destroyed and the pup will turn out mental.

Just my 2p worth
+1 dogs are social beasts and I don't think leaving them alone for 15+ hours of the day is that fair on them.

Get a cat biggrin

G'kar

3,728 posts

204 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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Get her a rabbit instead.

She'll do nothing but moan, mind you.

paulmurr

4,203 posts

230 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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G'kar said:
Get her a rabbit instead.

She'll do nothing but moan, mind you.
Very good wink

dazmm

Original Poster:

69 posts

257 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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Cheers Justin; We would either lock it in the kitchen or was considering a kennel in the garden.
We already have a cat flap. but i don't like the idea of a larger dog flap in the door.
Partner has 6 weeks off Uni in the summer as she's a student so could entertain the puppy initially

Edited by dazmm on Thursday 16th April 13:51

B3Svert

553 posts

210 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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If you both work full time and are not at home during the day then it's not a great idea to be honest. I am lucky enough to work from home so can keep an eye on our puppy most of the time. When I am away either my OH works from home on those days or we have family/dog sitter come in to feed/walk/play with him for a couple of hours.

Leaving him alone for a long amount of time during the first few weeks of him being at home can lead to a great deal of distress, both for the dog and for you when you get home to find your skirting boards chewed to pieces, brand new sofa chewed to pieces, TV cables chewed to pieces, Xbox controller chewed to pieces, remote control chewed to pieces, doormat (and replacement doormat) chewed to pieces... you get the picture biggrin

Would not change him at all, but do think long and hard about it before getting a dog.

PhantomHumper

2,202 posts

208 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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Get her to watch Marley and Me, can almost gurantee she will cry and change her mind.


p.s. If it makes her want one more, then i'm sorry.

dazmm

Original Poster:

69 posts

257 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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Cheers Phanton.
Yes she's already watched it and it only made her want a dog more

Stevenj214

4,941 posts

246 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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Have you considered an older rescue dog which could be matched to your lifestyle much more?

B3Svert

553 posts

210 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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Justin_Tvr said:
9 hours a day to leave a dog is a long time; a puppy is near enough impossible they need ALOT of attention most of the time. How nice is the area where you are going to keep it, as they love to chew/sh*t/puke in most places.

Have you got a garden that is self contained?? If I leave my dogs for any length of time they can get in and out a 'dog flap' yes that right big enough for a fully grown lab and she can wander in and out of the garden and she wishes.
Interesting - surely a dog flap large enough for an adult lab to go through is a security risk. I contemplated a dog flap myself but know that the average pikey could fit through it easily enough. Yes dogs are a deterrent, but my guess is your lab and my springer are probably equally as vicious and would become very friendly with anyone as long as it involved food wink

ehonda

1,483 posts

223 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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No.

marsred

1,042 posts

243 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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B3Svert said:
Justin_Tvr said:
9 hours a day to leave a dog is a long time; a puppy is near enough impossible they need ALOT of attention most of the time. How nice is the area where you are going to keep it, as they love to chew/sh*t/puke in most places.

Have you got a garden that is self contained?? If I leave my dogs for any length of time they can get in and out a 'dog flap' yes that right big enough for a fully grown lab and she can wander in and out of the garden and she wishes.
Interesting - surely a dog flap large enough for an adult lab to go through is a security risk. I contemplated a dog flap myself but know that the average pikey could fit through it easily enough. Yes dogs are a deterrent, but my guess is your lab and my springer are probably equally as vicious and would become very friendly with anyone as long as it involved food wink
Clearly the dog flap has a keypad entry system with an alphanumeric code known only to you and your dog. Or is your dog not as clever as mine?

Edited by marsred on Thursday 16th April 13:11

JMGS4

8,850 posts

288 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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B3Svert said:
Interesting - surely a dog flap large enough for an adult lab to go through is a security risk. I contemplated a dog flap myself but know that the average pikey could fit through it easily enough. Yes dogs are a deterrent, but my guess is your lab and my springer are probably equally as vicious and would become very friendly with anyone as long as it involved food wink
Dog flaps with electronic sensors matching your dogs collar are "standard issue" nowadays...

JMGS4

8,850 posts

288 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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dazmm said:
Me being sensible say ''we're both at work for over 9 hours a day, it wouldn't be fair on the dog''.
You said it fella!
DON'T let a young dog be alone, you'll only rear a psycho, as you would with a kid you let alone for that time...
If you can get a 2-3 year old which has been housetrained and is used to being alone then help the rescue dogs....
It needs as much if not more commitment than having kids (judging by the ferals one hears about!)

anonymous-user

72 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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I put my wife off a dog for years while we were both full time workers. Dogs are pack animals and need companionship.

Jasandjules

71,398 posts

247 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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You both work full time? Then a dog is not for you. Sorry.

Herman Toothrot

6,702 posts

216 months

Thursday 16th April 2009
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JMGS4 said:
dazmm said:
Me being sensible say ''we're both at work for over 9 hours a day, it wouldn't be fair on the dog''.
You said it fella!
DON'T let a young dog be alone, you'll only rear a psycho, as you would with a kid you let alone for that time...
Spot on.