Karma returned!! Ex is stuck in a bad situation....
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Was on the dreaded facebook last night when I notice that my Ex (bad break up and owed me lots of money) has emailed me to say hello... She is back on talking terms and quite pleasant... very strange me thinks!! she then collars me on that chat thing...
Then I find out that she has lost her job, got nothing to do, run out of money in London (buying 2 pairs of shoes at £600 each wasnt the great idea she thought it was), no prospects as to getting a new job as she had only done the job she lost as a new person (like a graduate but older) and was doing management consulting at one of the big firms and had only done it for 18 months so noone wants to hire her.
To cap it all off, she is having to move back to France to try and get a low paid job over there, doing something but she doesnt know what.
I hate to admit it that I was kind of sniggering inside, mainly due to the bad break up we had.
Should I feel any guilt?
Has anyone else got and nice Karma tales to tell?
Then I find out that she has lost her job, got nothing to do, run out of money in London (buying 2 pairs of shoes at £600 each wasnt the great idea she thought it was), no prospects as to getting a new job as she had only done the job she lost as a new person (like a graduate but older) and was doing management consulting at one of the big firms and had only done it for 18 months so noone wants to hire her.
To cap it all off, she is having to move back to France to try and get a low paid job over there, doing something but she doesnt know what.
I hate to admit it that I was kind of sniggering inside, mainly due to the bad break up we had.
Should I feel any guilt?
Has anyone else got and nice Karma tales to tell?
Jasandjules said:
Guilt? Nope.
Enjoy.. Make sure you tell her all about that nice house, new car and lovely holiday too....
Err.... she now knows that I bought in London, might have let slip that if she wants a cool holiday then try Asia like I did... and she know knows I have been with the OH for 2 years now... did I miss anything out????Enjoy.. Make sure you tell her all about that nice house, new car and lovely holiday too....
Oh and she knows that I have interviews for Geneva and Singapore for jobs (that was how we got onto the cool holiday bit)....
Dupont666 said:
Jasandjules said:
Guilt? Nope.
Enjoy.. Make sure you tell her all about that nice house, new car and lovely holiday too....
Err.... she now knows that I bought in London, might have let slip that if she wants a cool holiday then try Asia like I did... and she know knows I have been with the OH for 2 years now... did I miss anything out????Enjoy.. Make sure you tell her all about that nice house, new car and lovely holiday too....
Oh and she knows that I have interviews for Geneva and Singapore for jobs (that was how we got onto the cool holiday bit)....
Dupont666 said:
Was on the dreaded facebook last night when I notice that my Ex (bad break up and owed me lots of money) has emailed me to say hello... She is back on talking terms and quite pleasant... very strange me thinks!! she then collars me on that chat thing...
Then I find out that she has lost her job, got nothing to do, run out of money in London (buying 2 pairs of shoes at £600 each wasnt the great idea she thought it was), no prospects as to getting a new job as she had only done the job she lost as a new person (like a graduate but older) and was doing management consulting at one of the big firms and had only done it for 18 months so noone wants to hire her.
To cap it all off, she is having to move back to France to try and get a low paid job over there, doing something but she doesnt know what.
I hate to admit it that I was kind of sniggering inside, mainly due to the bad break up we had.
Should I feel any guilt?
Has anyone else got and nice Karma tales to tell?
Guilt !? NoThen I find out that she has lost her job, got nothing to do, run out of money in London (buying 2 pairs of shoes at £600 each wasnt the great idea she thought it was), no prospects as to getting a new job as she had only done the job she lost as a new person (like a graduate but older) and was doing management consulting at one of the big firms and had only done it for 18 months so noone wants to hire her.
To cap it all off, she is having to move back to France to try and get a low paid job over there, doing something but she doesnt know what.
I hate to admit it that I was kind of sniggering inside, mainly due to the bad break up we had.
Should I feel any guilt?
Has anyone else got and nice Karma tales to tell?
Concern !? Yes
Concern at the lack of character you have shown. sniggering at anothers misfortune, how graceful and bold of you !!
Swilly said:
Dupont666 said:
Was on the dreaded facebook last night when I notice that my Ex (bad break up and owed me lots of money) has emailed me to say hello... She is back on talking terms and quite pleasant... very strange me thinks!! she then collars me on that chat thing...
Then I find out that she has lost her job, got nothing to do, run out of money in London (buying 2 pairs of shoes at £600 each wasnt the great idea she thought it was), no prospects as to getting a new job as she had only done the job she lost as a new person (like a graduate but older) and was doing management consulting at one of the big firms and had only done it for 18 months so noone wants to hire her.
To cap it all off, she is having to move back to France to try and get a low paid job over there, doing something but she doesnt know what.
I hate to admit it that I was kind of sniggering inside, mainly due to the bad break up we had.
Should I feel any guilt?
Has anyone else got and nice Karma tales to tell?
Guilt !? NoThen I find out that she has lost her job, got nothing to do, run out of money in London (buying 2 pairs of shoes at £600 each wasnt the great idea she thought it was), no prospects as to getting a new job as she had only done the job she lost as a new person (like a graduate but older) and was doing management consulting at one of the big firms and had only done it for 18 months so noone wants to hire her.
To cap it all off, she is having to move back to France to try and get a low paid job over there, doing something but she doesnt know what.
I hate to admit it that I was kind of sniggering inside, mainly due to the bad break up we had.
Should I feel any guilt?
Has anyone else got and nice Karma tales to tell?
Concern !? Yes
Concern at the lack of character you have shown. sniggering at anothers misfortune, how graceful and bold of you !!
probably had something to do with being a little tipsy too as had spent all day in the pub whilst leaving the roast to cook at home... loverly roast, great company, too much drink and then this caps it all off... I had a lovely sunday
Mobile Chicane said:
Smile wryly and put her out of your thoughts. The desire to torment the girl suggests that a. you haven't really moved on; or b. you're as immature as she is.
HTH
I moved on ages ago... she just was a little heartless at how we broke up... me pay for everything to come to a new city (think few k to move and do everything), not knowing anyone, new job, blah, blah, blah... 1 week into it, she decides to break up and shacks up with a new guy within 2 weeks.HTH
Not immature, just its not everyday that the person who is shat upon from a great height finds out the person who dumped you has not gone on to better things and instead its you that has....
Jasandjules said:
Dupont666 said:
Jasandjules said:
Guilt? Nope.
Enjoy.. Make sure you tell her all about that nice house, new car and lovely holiday too....
Err.... she now knows that I bought in London, might have let slip that if she wants a cool holiday then try Asia like I did... and she know knows I have been with the OH for 2 years now... did I miss anything out????Enjoy.. Make sure you tell her all about that nice house, new car and lovely holiday too....
Oh and she knows that I have interviews for Geneva and Singapore for jobs (that was how we got onto the cool holiday bit)....
Dupont666 said:
Mobile Chicane said:
Smile wryly and put her out of your thoughts. The desire to torment the girl suggests that a. you haven't really moved on; or b. you're as immature as she is.
HTH
I moved on ages ago... she just was a little heartless at how we broke up... me pay for everything to come to a new city (think few k to move and do everything), not knowing anyone, new job, blah, blah, blah... 1 week into it, she decides to break up and shacks up with a new guy within 2 weeks.HTH
Not immature, just its not everyday that the person who is shat upon from a great height finds out the person who dumped you has not gone on to better things and instead its you that has....
However I'd move on, break off all contact. Now that she knows you've sorted your life out, de-facebook her.
SoapyShowerBoy said:
Jasandjules said:
Dupont666 said:
Jasandjules said:
Guilt? Nope.
Enjoy.. Make sure you tell her all about that nice house, new car and lovely holiday too....
Err.... she now knows that I bought in London, might have let slip that if she wants a cool holiday then try Asia like I did... and she know knows I have been with the OH for 2 years now... did I miss anything out????Enjoy.. Make sure you tell her all about that nice house, new car and lovely holiday too....
Oh and she knows that I have interviews for Geneva and Singapore for jobs (that was how we got onto the cool holiday bit)....
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