Is there any hope.....

Is there any hope.....

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wullie_t25

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117 posts

181 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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FFS all I see on PH is folk posting about OH's cheating on them or some disasterous relationship problems!!

Even if its just a simple 'the OH text to say she is ill and wont round tonight' (even when the OP trusts them) all the replys are simply, yeh shes banging someone else, dump her!!

I dont even buy the sun anymore, dear deidre has nothing on PH!!!

Now Im really trying to stay positive that there is honest trustworthy women out there but from past exs (2 serious, both nutters, both cheated), and from current friends Im really starting to doubt that such a women exists!!

Is anyone happy out there, or is it just us single folk?

ewenm

28,506 posts

246 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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Just like news (papers, TV, websites), happy stories aren't interesting. No one cares if your relationship is going fine, only if there are problems.

physprof

996 posts

188 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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well happy!

but take a look at the various interest threads in P&P - boats, trains, models, gadgets.... sort of suggests this is a singleton car oriented dweeb site.... (? why am I here? ...whatcar vs pistonheads...OK)

The Prophet

129 posts

179 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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Happily married for 10 years now.

I only come on here to read about other people's misery. It gives me a nice warm feeling of smugness.

Ladyhayles

1,113 posts

190 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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In defence to some of the answers on here most women are mind-game playing irrational psychos!!

A lot of my female friends come crying to me about arguments they have had or the fact that they have been dumped and then they start to explain a situation which has basically been manufactured by them through trying to play some stupid mind game.

I try to live by the fact that relationships are easy if you approach them in an adult fashion. There's nothing to be gained from trying to scheme or get one over on your OH because it just causes trouble.

Can honestly say that me and the OH have never had any form of significant argument in 2 years and both very happy. Mainly comes from a shared love of cars and the fact that I'm not a pathetic manipulative b*tch!

maxrider

2,481 posts

237 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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wullie_t25 said:
doubt that such a women exists!!
'A' women doesn't

HTH

Anya

48 posts

186 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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Course there is.
It's not all doom and gloom, just a case of meeting the right person, the one you want to spend the rest of your life with smile
These tales of woe do make me laugh

metro lover

553 posts

188 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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maxrider said:
wullie_t25 said:
doubt that such a women exists!!
'A' women doesn't

HTH
Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha, normally annoys me when the grammer police come out, but that one tickled me!

Nolar Dog

8,786 posts

196 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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Oh wullie, it's not all doom and gloom on the relationship front.
Some women can be trusted...




Just in case we ever get to the sex bit I'll tell you now:
I used to be a geezer.


There, fellow PH'ers I've been honest from the outset. wink

Steamer

13,871 posts

214 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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Being between X's is brilliant!

Being single and moaning about it is only for the weak - being in a relationship and moaning about it is only for the pitiful.

Enjoy the time you have in whatever situation you find yourself in.



when I say 'between X's don't confuse that with 'between sexes' there is a surprisingly high number of posts about the 3rd gender since this place became 'the lounge'!

M400 NBL

3,529 posts

213 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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metro lover said:
maxrider said:
wullie_t25 said:
doubt that such a women exists!!
'A' women doesn't

HTH
Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha, normally annoys me when the grammear police come out, but that one tickled me!

Road Pest

3,123 posts

199 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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Steamer said:
Being between X's is brilliant!
Sounds like a rock and a hard place laugh

Lets hope the X's get on it could get bloody!

ETA unless they're gunning for you in a different way of course.

Edited by Road Pest on Friday 7th August 17:56

kit80

4,764 posts

188 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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Male dominated site ..of course all the women are SWTs!!

But they are not really are they, and men can be just as bad...admit it, you know you want to.

Road Pest

3,123 posts

199 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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One by one we're changing though.

davido140

9,614 posts

227 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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I think it's a bit like cars, nobody posts on the Internet to say how reliable and non-broken they are.

All we get to hear about is the broken gearboxes and dodgy electronics.

My missus is fine thanks!


wullie_t25

Original Poster:

117 posts

181 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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kit80 said:
men can be just as bad...admit it, you know you want to.
Infact I have more female friends that 'play around' than male, though maybe that says more about me than them paperbag

Justayellowbadge

37,057 posts

243 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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Road Pest said:
One by one we're changing though.
hehe