Bitch at work...
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Locke

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1,279 posts

207 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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So, for the past few months I've been having a sexual relationship (nothing more) with this girl from work. It started with me just giving her a lift home a few times a week, then one night she invited me in for a "cup of tea" and one thing lead to another.

The past couple of weeks I’ve had the gut feeling that something isn't right as she’s a total nympho but keeps making up these stty excuses as to why I can't come round ect.

It turns out she’s got a new flat mate that she’s been "entertaining" so he’s obviously the reason she didn't want me round there.

Now things are just fked up because I have to work with this lying bh and just don't know how to go about this whole situation. I found out about this just over a week ago and haven’t spoken to her since. I just can’t find it in myself to forgive her.

We weren’t in a relationship so it's not as if she’s actually cheated on me but that’s just what it feels like.

I’ve also no idea why I’m posting this in the lounge… but what the hell!

Jag-D

19,633 posts

242 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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This seems like one of those times where fookbuddies didn't work rofl

Sorry, nothing further to add boxedin

speed_monkey

3,503 posts

212 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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simple answer:

She thought of it as "just sex" you fell for her and want more....

Simples, now go cry in the corner with some razor blades smile


StevieBee

14,862 posts

278 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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Locke said:
We weren’t in a relationship!
There you go then. Couple of weeks of fun. End of. Move on.



AndyKH

1,456 posts

219 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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What, your upset that the Girl you were sleeping with "nothing more" is sleeping with someone else????

Jesus, grow a set.


Matt_N

8,997 posts

225 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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EddH, is that you?

Did you start nailing that fatty at work who had swine flu?

voyds9

8,490 posts

306 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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Just seen your profile
"I enjoy two wheels more than I do four."
I think you need to alter this to "I enjoy a bike"

C8PPO

20,505 posts

226 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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Yep, I'm also missing the problem here. You weren't in a relationship. You had sex. You don't have sex any more.

So, your only issue is: you're not getting any and she is, and you know she's doing all the same tricks for her latest FB?

toohuge

3,469 posts

239 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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StevieBee said:
Locke said:
We weren’t in a relationship!
There you go then. Couple of weeks of fun. End of. Move on.
True, if you went in with the attitude of nothing more than just fun. Then there is nothing wrong. She had no commitment to you and technically you had no commitment to her either.

It is gutting though.

Jag-D

19,633 posts

242 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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speed_monkey said:
simple answer:

She thought of it as "just sex" you fell for her and want more....

Simples, now go cry in the corner with some razor blades smile
Certainly sounds that way

Neil_H

15,407 posts

274 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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Don't worry about it, he's probably just got a bigger cock than you.

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2,732 posts

259 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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This thread makes you sound like a needy little gheyer.

If you were expecting sympathy I suspect you are going to be left even more needy.

Go and knock one out, that will make it all better, or at least take you mind of it for a few mins. Then again perhaps not.

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2,732 posts

259 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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Matt_N said:
EddH, is that you?

Did you start nailing that fatty at work who had swine flu?
rofl

Jag-D

19,633 posts

242 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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This thread makes you sound like a needy little gheyer.

If you were expecting sympathy I suspect you are going to be left even more needy.

Go and knock one out, that will make it all better, or at least take you mind of it for a few mins. Then again perhaps not.
Hahahaha two handed anger wks rule!

speed_monkey

3,503 posts

212 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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Is it me or is PH getting a bit metro sexual nowadays.

If you were too much of a pussy to to try and develop a relationship with her (which you obviously wanted or you wouldnt be crying to us) then more fool you. She got a new flat mate and has been bagged by someone with balls.

Get over it

C8PPO

20,505 posts

226 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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Salted or sweet, anyone?

biggrin

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2,732 posts

259 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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speed_monkey said:
Is it me or is PH getting a bit metro sexual nowadays.
Sign of the times.

TonyHetherington

32,091 posts

273 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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So you were in "just a sexual relationship, nothing more", but now she's found someone else you're upset about it, she's "a bh" and you don't know what to do?

I think Jeremy Kyle would see right through this.

IanMorewood

4,309 posts

271 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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Simplez, you where crap in bed.

tongue out

Dan_1981

17,970 posts

222 months

Thursday 20th August 2009
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C8PPO said:
Salted or sweet, anyone?

biggrin
I'll have a bit of both please.

Just like her.