Rewarding GCSE results ?
Rewarding GCSE results ?
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Mr POD

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5,153 posts

221 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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My son Joe will tomorrow get some GCSE's.

Possibly 4 A*'s, 5 A's and a C

Or possibly not.

He's worked VERY VERY hard over 5 years at High School and I want to mark the hardwork with some reward. Also I don't want to reward the actual results, so none of this £X for a A £Y for a B etc.

I'd rather not give him cash (he's got more than me anyway), but some token item.

He has most things that a 16 year old lad wants.

I'm working away so whilst the result come out tomorrow, It will be Friday before I see him.

Any suggestions apart from a subscription to a porn channel.

evenflow

8,875 posts

311 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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How about something like a watch - expensive enough to know that it means something as a gift, and unlikely to go out of fashion as quickly as if you buy him a pair of trainers or something?

TooLateForAName

4,924 posts

213 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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Mr POD said:
Any suggestions apart from a subscription to a porn channel.
He already has a porn subscription?

hookers and coke then?

Famous Graham

26,553 posts

254 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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Has he had any driving training? I know it wouldn't be on public roads. Might be fun to get something airfieldy (dunno what the age limits are, but I'm assuming as it's private land etc etc)

Mr POD

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5,153 posts

221 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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Famous Graham said:
Has he had any driving training? I know it wouldn't be on public roads. Might be fun to get something airfieldy (dunno what the age limits are, but I'm assuming as it's private land etc etc)
Links ? He'd love a taster

shirt

25,394 posts

230 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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how about a mk2 cavalier?

Kermit power

29,622 posts

242 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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Famous Graham said:
Has he had any driving training? I know it wouldn't be on public roads. Might be fun to get something airfieldy (dunno what the age limits are, but I'm assuming as it's private land etc etc)
The one at Dunsfold starts at 15, I believe. Having said that, the kid driving one way on a Pug 106 as 2 M5s and 2 ZT V8s thundered the other way towards him at 90ish looked a damned sight younger than that! hehe

Mr POD

Original Poster:

5,153 posts

221 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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TooLateForAName said:
Mr POD said:
Any suggestions apart from a subscription to a porn channel.
He already has a porn subscription?

hookers and coke then?
His girlfriend has the look of a hooker TBH, but he prefers beer to coke. Could buy him a brewing kit I suppose.

navier_stokes

948 posts

228 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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Why don't you want to reward the results? I'd say it's a great motivation for his A-levels (I presume that's what he's doing with those grades?).

I'd say a watch may be a bit too sentimental for someone that age - maybe more appropriate for someone 18 or 21?

Has he got a hobby, such as biking or computing that you could buy him an upgrade for?

Jonny671

29,897 posts

218 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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Mr POD said:
TooLateForAName said:
Mr POD said:
Any suggestions apart from a subscription to a porn channel.
He already has a porn subscription?

hookers and coke then?
His girlfriend has the look of a hooker TBH, but he prefers beer to coke. Could buy him a brewing kit I suppose.
Do the driver thing.. He'd love it. I'd have loved that if I got more than a C for my GCSEs laugh

Edit:

http://www.trackdays.co.uk/driving_experience/juni...



Edited by Jonny671 on Wednesday 26th August 19:42

Plotloss

67,280 posts

299 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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Mr POD said:
Could buy him a brewing kit I suppose.
Christ, why not get him some sandals and a stick on comedy beard at the same time.

A decent watch seems a nice gift.

OnTheOverrun

3,965 posts

206 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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Mr POD said:
He has most things that a 16 year old lad wants.
What? Fearne Cotton sat on his face?

You're one hell of a dad! thumbup

tegwin

1,682 posts

235 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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Nice meal somewhere "smart" with the close family to celebrate and reward.... Those things are much more memorable than anything else IMHO

Alex97

1,121 posts

217 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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tegwin said:
Nice meal somewhere "smart" with the close family to celebrate and reward.... Those things are much more memorable than anything else IMHO
Not exactly a reward for a 16 year old.

Mr Trophy

6,811 posts

232 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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How about "nice one son" and that's it like the old days? What's all this bks about rewarding our kids with money for doing well in something?

Poledriver

29,585 posts

223 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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When it was coming up to my GCE's (It was a long time ago) I wasn't too conscientious about classwork/homework so my father decided to bribe reward me for every one I got. Turns out that the lessons had sunk in and I did rather better than he expected. I got enough to buy my first car! driving

Zod

35,295 posts

287 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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I was never rewarded. My parents when I complained, comparing myself with those who were rewarded, asked why I should be rewarded for doing something they expected me to be able to do. I didn't agree, but I haven't decided what to do with my kids. I have time.

bigfoot7

351 posts

273 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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Mr Trophy said:
How about "nice one son" and that's it like the old days? What's all this bks about rewarding our kids with money for doing well in something?
In my day we got a clip round the ear, if we were lucky! biggrin

AlpineWhite

2,164 posts

224 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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OnTheOverrun said:
Mr POD said:
He has most things that a 16 year old lad wants.
What? Fearne Cotton sat on his face?

You're one hell of a dad! thumbup
lick

bobthemonkey

4,206 posts

245 months

Wednesday 26th August 2009
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Flights/holiday somewhere without the parents.