should i trust this ebayer??
should i trust this ebayer??
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Working class

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8,995 posts

216 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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so this is what im planning on bidding on. His feedback is low, took him 2 days to answer a couple of questions i had, also i only live 5 mins away from him but he said i cannot collect it.

Im probably being over cautious, but under those new paypal rules if i pay with paypal i am protected if it turns out ot be a rip off right?

750turbo

6,164 posts

253 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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Say you will collect and pay 50% or whatever his profit is on the postage.

Yes = OK

No = he is a

EDLT

15,421 posts

235 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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I wouldn't, there must be a reason why he doesn't want you to collect it.

ezi

1,734 posts

215 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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Working class said:
Im probably being over cautious, but under those new paypal rules if i pay with paypal i am protected if it turns out ot be a rip off right?
Yes.

I bought a CPU a year or so back and the person never posted the CPU, then left eBay. PayPal managed to refund my money after about 4-5 weeks.

eldar

25,265 posts

225 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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EDLT said:
I wouldn't, there must be a reason why he doesn't want you to collect it.
Seconded. The reason for no pick up is usually because it is suspect in some way. Avoid.

lost in espace

6,586 posts

236 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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Sounds OK to me however I would prefer to collect if it was local to me, sounds a little fishy maybe but somepeople don't like people coming to their houses. Or its nicked!

craste

1,227 posts

236 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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I live in Sutton too - ask to meet him in a pub car park or something if he doesn't want you around his house.


jackregan

287 posts

240 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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EDLT said:
I wouldn't, there must be a reason why he doesn't want you to collect it.
thats right, why would he not want you to collect?

ipwn

2,920 posts

220 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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Ask him can can do cash on collection.

If he denies that then go through paypal whatever you do, as he may be scared.

Ikemi

8,610 posts

234 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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You could get a decent pre-owned Xbox Elite from Gamestation for £179.99 ... New Elites are not that much either! http://www.gamestation.co.uk/Xbox360/Hardware/Cons...

I'd be a bit cautious considering the Xbox is not the most reliable console - Mine is back at Microsoft for repair for the second time!

Working class

Original Poster:

8,995 posts

216 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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Ive just asked him why collection is not possible and ill pay half the profit on his postage. He claims to also have receipts for the purchase

ipwn

2,920 posts

220 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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craste said:
I live in Sutton too - ask to meet him in a pub car park or something if he doesn't want you around his house.
You can't really test the xbox then can you ......

He has walked of with the cash and op is left with a dead xbox.

No protection from paypal either.

craste

1,227 posts

236 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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ipwn said:
craste said:
I live in Sutton too - ask to meet him in a pub car park or something if he doesn't want you around his house.
You can't really test the xbox then can you ......

He has walked of with the cash and op is left with a dead xbox.

No protection from paypal either.
I Should of also said that your mate should wait around the corner and follow the ebayer home.

Then if the xbox don't work they can pay him a visit and give is face a red ring of death.

Which is nice.

Edited by craste on Sunday 6th September 19:27


Edited by craste on Sunday 6th September 19:29

Beyond Rational

3,544 posts

244 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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jackregan said:
EDLT said:
I wouldn't, there must be a reason why he doesn't want you to collect it.
thats right, why would he not want you to collect?
Devil's advocate - He has had people say "I'll be there to collect at 5" then not show up for days/at all. If a buyer pays via paypal and then collects, how do you prove they have possession if that buyer then files a claim for non delivery?

sparkythecat

8,097 posts

284 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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From another angle

This is the type of product that will have greatest appeal to the typical 16 to 25year old male.
Sadly, this is the same demograph statistically most likely to commit a knife point robbery, or a burglary.
This may perhaps explain the sellers reluctance to entertain personal callers

Simpo Two

92,708 posts

294 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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Mistrust works both ways. For all he knows, if he gives you his address to collect it, you'll turn up with two heavies, bash him over the head and steal it.

TheEnd

15,370 posts

217 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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Yea, I think he might be protecting himself, ebay only regard a courier receipt as proof the buyer has the item. Without that, they can pay by paypal, collect, and get a refund.

Collect and pay cash would counter that, and also save him the fees etc


edited to add, his username translates as "a question of honour"!


Edited by TheEnd on Sunday 6th September 20:26

toxgobbler

2,903 posts

220 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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Smells like a scam.

Nickyboy

6,824 posts

263 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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Not a scam, more and more people dont entertain collection on expensive items due to the amount of false claims going on with eBay.

Working class

Original Poster:

8,995 posts

216 months

Sunday 6th September 2009
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Just emailed me and said he had someone threaten him once, hence why he doesnt want collection. With 10 mins left im unsure what to do!