Interfereing Exes - How do you cope?
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My mate once was with a nutter girl (i say girl, she was early 30's when he and our lot were mid 20's) who wouldnt let him talk to his mates, or any girl.....if he did talk to a girl she woudl then find her on facebook and email her abuse. And to make it even worse, after i'd moved away fro 6 mths and not spoke to my mate in that time, out of the blue she emailed me and my then gf loads of abuse and s
t to try and split us up.....for no reason whatsoever! Needless to say me and gf had a giggle about it then blocked her!
t to try and split us up.....for no reason whatsoever! Needless to say me and gf had a giggle about it then blocked her!Erik Estrada said:
You are Jeremy Kyle AICMFP
There is no £5. Why the hell would someone offer a reward of £5 to liken the OP to a childish US Chat show host?THat would be an absolutely insane and absurd thing to do.
The only think that is more bizarrely lunatic than to make that offer, is to attempt to claim the reward that never existed in the first place.
That is irrelevance on an extraordinary fascinating new scale.
I am utterly bewildered.
Penny-lope said:
As long as my son is happy with them, then so am I.
Over the last 4 months I have more than enough cause to hate her, but I see no point. My son loves her, and that's all that matters.
I would like to think my ex will be the same when I meet someone.
DId you mean to type that?Over the last 4 months I have more than enough cause to hate her, but I see no point. My son loves her, and that's all that matters.
I would like to think my ex will be the same when I meet someone.
On this thread?
tonyvid said:
Come on Tina, you show us your tales of woe and we'll show you ours
how are you ?
here you go-
never married the ex but is the mother of his child.
rings up about all sorts of rubbish. heres a few i can remember....
1)What carpet do I buy hessian or foam backed?
2) why has little Billies got sweet wrappers in his new jacket?
3) Are you watching Terry Pratchett on TV ?
A) Yes - reply - oh thought you would be!!
4) Where did we buy the shed from?
5) Little Billies mobile phone bill is £100.00 who has he been calling? - 3hours later after 25 numbers are relayed over the phone and shouted up the stairs to little Billie by dad.
6) Can you help me move some boxes?
7) Can I have your shed if your moving?
8) Got any money off vouchers I need to buy diy stuff?
9) Am i having Billie this wknd?
10)Someone at works wants to know - can you recommend a hotel in Amsterdam? (this was 10.30 in the evening by the way!!!)
i hasten to say she is remarried - but her fella works away. so i guess she is a bit bored really. driving me insane but have to do the biting the lip bit.(but about to blow a gasket)
Penny-lope said:
As long as my son is happy with them, then so am I.
Over the last 4 months I have more than enough cause to hate her, but I see no point. My son loves her, and that's all that matters.
I would like to think my ex will be the same when I meet someone.
I'm in a similar position - got plenty of reasons to dislike the ex swmbo, but our son loves his mum, no sense in getting awkward over things, just enjoy the time I have with my lad.Over the last 4 months I have more than enough cause to hate her, but I see no point. My son loves her, and that's all that matters.
I would like to think my ex will be the same when I meet someone.
Whole situation was made a little more, er, entertaining by my current partner having a best friend who happens to be my ex sister in law. Was strange to find that the ex hadn't even bothered to tell her mum, dad, brother or sister that she'd met someone else and was (finally!) trying to move on with her life.
Nowt so strange as ex wives.
blindswelledrat said:
IT Tina
I think you might be overreacting a bit there.
You (or your OH) should just be grateful that he still has a good relationship with his ex if there are children involved.
It sounds to me like she still sees him as a friend and is interested in her child.
there is no relevance to why he has sweet wrappers in his jacket or why he rang up a £100 worth of phone calls. she could just wait till it was her weekend to have him and ask him in person, then not buy a 10yr old a contract phone maybe?I think you might be overreacting a bit there.
You (or your OH) should just be grateful that he still has a good relationship with his ex if there are children involved.
It sounds to me like she still sees him as a friend and is interested in her child.
blindswelledrat said:
Erik Estrada said:
You are Jeremy Kyle AICMFP
There is no £5. Why the hell would someone offer a reward of £5 to liken the OP to a childish US Chat show host?THat would be an absolutely insane and absurd thing to do.
The only think that is more bizarrely lunatic than to make that offer, is to attempt to claim the reward that never existed in the first place.
That is irrelevance on an extraordinary fascinating new scale.
I am utterly bewildered.
AICMFP
blindswelledrat said:
IT Tina
I think you might be overreacting a bit there.
You (or your OH) should just be grateful that he still has a good relationship with his ex if there are children involved.
It sounds to me like she still sees him as a friend and is interested in her child.
Sounds to me like she's not let go of her ex and wants to cause as much hassle as possible. Who's the child here, little 'Billie' or the mother?I think you might be overreacting a bit there.
You (or your OH) should just be grateful that he still has a good relationship with his ex if there are children involved.
It sounds to me like she still sees him as a friend and is interested in her child.
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