Why is the c word so offensive ?
Why is the c word so offensive ?
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lazyitus

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295 months

Thursday 1st October 2009
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Chatting about this at lunch with a bunch of other s with inconclusive reasoning.

Why is the c word so offensive to men and moreso to women? There are a whole host of other offensive words but this one really takes the biscuit for out and out insults. Why is it so bad ?

Edited by Matt172 on Thursday 1st October 17:52

Los Palmas 7

29,908 posts

259 months

Thursday 1st October 2009
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lazyitus said:
and moreso to women?
Not to an ex of mine, she loves the word. But she insists it's spelled with a K, which makes it acceptable, apparently.

Don

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313 months

Thursday 1st October 2009
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No idea. But I do know "You Can't Say in Canada".

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Art_Vandelay

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Thursday 1st October 2009
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Mobile Chicane

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241 months

Thursday 1st October 2009
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In medieval London there was a street called 'Gropee Lane'.

I haven't been able to find out whether the area was subsequently redeveloped or the street just had its name changed.

Either way I'll bet the word was used very differently in the past, and did not have the negative associations that it has today.

Hugo a Gogo

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262 months

Thursday 1st October 2009
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didn't Trevor McDonald once do a piece about the Kunt centryside?

Los Palmas 7

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Thursday 1st October 2009
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It can be very effective when used in "dirty talk". Allegedly.

patmahe

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Thursday 1st October 2009
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I think it is generally used to describe someone who is utterly without any redeeming features, mosts swearwords leave a little room for redemption. Therefore to have your entire vocabulary open to you, but to choose that word, really means you must genuinely dislike the person.

In the case of women finding it more offensive than men, I'm not so sure, maybe its to do with the fact that you have referred to their private parts and intensley insulted them at the same time. Then again I don't 'go off on one' if someone calls me a penis.

shoggoth1

816 posts

294 months

Thursday 1st October 2009
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A bit O/T but I always remember Radio 4, I'm sorry I haven't a clue and that 'alternative dictionary' definitions round they have (unfortunately cannot remember who actually said it):

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emicen

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247 months

Thursday 1st October 2009
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I was always under the impression it was specifically a raped vagina. Hence why women found it so offensive.

Los Palmas 7

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Thursday 1st October 2009
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emicen said:
I was always under the impression it was specifically a raped vagina. Hence why women found it so offensive.
Christ, which dictionary do you subscribe to?

esselte

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Thursday 1st October 2009
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Mobile Chicane said:
In medieval London there was a street called 'Gropee Lane'.

I haven't been able to find out whether the area was subsequently redeveloped or the street just had its name changed.

Either way I'll bet the word was used very differently in the past, and did not have the negative associations that it has today.
No,the word was used as it is now...there were Gropee Lanes in the "red light" districts of lots of towns..I think the one in London is now Threadneedle street or that area..

collateral

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247 months

Thursday 1st October 2009
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I like it when womenfolk say it, simply because I assume they are thus DTF and are probable filth

Ayahuasca

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308 months

Thursday 1st October 2009
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IIRC Shakespeare used the c word (the tudor version thereof) in one of his plays, and Chaucer definiteley used it. Not doing a search as at work!


Penny-lope

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222 months

Thursday 1st October 2009
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Los Palmas 7 said:
lazyitus said:
and moreso to women?
Not to an ex of mine, she loves the word. But she insists it's spelled with a K, which makes it acceptable, apparently.
Same here, one of my favourite words...but if using in a text I tend to use a 'k' too...Feck knows why

The Prophet

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207 months

Thursday 1st October 2009
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Mobile Chicane said:
In medieval London there was a street called 'Gropee Lane'.

I haven't been able to find out whether the area was subsequently redeveloped or the street just had its name changed.

Either way I'll bet the word was used very differently in the past, and did not have the negative associations that it has today.
It was because they used to name streets after the 'economic activity' carried out there. So it would have been called 'Grope(e) Lane' because people paid to grope (e)s there. I'm pretty sure that a number of English cities had a street named Grope(e) Lane, but I think London may have had more than one.

The Black Flash

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227 months

Thursday 1st October 2009
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emicen said:
I was always under the impression it was specifically a raped vagina. Hence why women found it so offensive.
No, it's a very old word, just for vagina.
And apparently originally without the offensiveness. The river Kennet in wiltshire was originally the River [unt, referring to age old fertility rites and all of that.

I am, however, a fan of the modern use, shown in great effect in Kevin Bloody Wilson's song "Caring Understanding Nineties Type" biggrin

phumy

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266 months

Thursday 1st October 2009
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Shorpe!!!!!!

Cant even say that now FFS

Dr_Gonzo

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254 months

Thursday 1st October 2009
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esselte said:
Mobile Chicane said:
In medieval London there was a street called 'Gropee Lane'.

I haven't been able to find out whether the area was subsequently redeveloped or the street just had its name changed.

Either way I'll bet the word was used very differently in the past, and did not have the negative associations that it has today.
No,the word was used as it is now...there were Gropee Lanes in the "red light" districts of lots of towns..I think the one in London is now Threadneedle street or that area..
A lot of the Grope Lanes have no been renamed; some are now just know as Grope Lane.

Edited by Dr_Gonzo on Thursday 1st October 15:01

Weaver

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215 months

Thursday 1st October 2009
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My O/H maintains that if you can't call someone a in the first 10 minutes of meeting them without them getting all pissy and offended then they are not worth knowing... and I have to agree.