F***ing Fantastic. Now F***ing What????
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Great.
She's gone and left me now.
Now I have nothing to live for.
s
t Life. s
t Job. s
t s
t s
t.
What a f
king fantastic year 2009 has been.
I leave 2009 the same as I started it..just with less £££ and no business of my own......except that I have had the love of a good woman up until today.
f
king great.
Seriously, what do I do??
She's gone and left me now.
Now I have nothing to live for.
s
t Life. s
t Job. s
t s
t s
t.What a f
king fantastic year 2009 has been.I leave 2009 the same as I started it..just with less £££ and no business of my own......except that I have had the love of a good woman up until today.
f
king great.Seriously, what do I do??
depressed chap said:
Great.
She's gone and left me now.
Now I have nothing to live for.
s
t Life. s
t Job. s
t s
t s
t.
What a f
king fantastic year 2009 has been.
I leave 2009 the same as I started it..just with less £££ and no business of my own......except that I have had the love of a good woman up until today.
f
king great.
Seriously, what do I do??
Try not to get depressed?She's gone and left me now.
Now I have nothing to live for.
s
t Life. s
t Job. s
t s
t s
t.What a f
king fantastic year 2009 has been.I leave 2009 the same as I started it..just with less £££ and no business of my own......except that I have had the love of a good woman up until today.
f
king great.Seriously, what do I do??
What can you do? Mate - if you're at the bottom (which you seem to be) then pretty much anything.
Chuck it all in move somewhere else and start again? Get government help if you need to, financially. Take a path you've always wanted to/never dared to/never even thought about and see where life takes you. Roll them dice, as it were.
Chuck it all in move somewhere else and start again? Get government help if you need to, financially. Take a path you've always wanted to/never dared to/never even thought about and see where life takes you. Roll them dice, as it were.
Cara Van Man said:
Mate, nothing to live for? Rubbish.
Sit and make a list of all the good stuff in your life, family, friends etc.
Family? wSit and make a list of all the good stuff in your life, family, friends etc.
kers?Friends? A handful...but most are too busy with their own s
t right now.I would try a new business but no seed capital and need some regular income.
f
kity f
k f
kCactussed said:
Calm down, then go talk to her and sort it out.
I'm gunna try. I know she still loves me (she told me no more than a couple of hours ago - she left me late last night), and I still love her. Loads.I dont know what to do to get her back. We've talked today. I guess I'll just have to give her some time and space and hope for the best.
I don't want to admit it, but I've spent the whole day sitting by the fire/in the bath crying and I can't do anything.
f
k knows.I've gone and f
ked up good and proper.No idea what I'm gunna do if she doesn't take me back. She was the only thing I really looked forward to in my life
It could be worse. Believe me.
A workmate of mine just had his 2 1/2 year old daughter die in her bed during the night for no reason.
You wanna see distraught? Come see this poor f
ker.
I know it's cliche, but there is always someone worse off than you who manages to survive.
I hope this is of some help to you
A workmate of mine just had his 2 1/2 year old daughter die in her bed during the night for no reason.
You wanna see distraught? Come see this poor f
ker.I know it's cliche, but there is always someone worse off than you who manages to survive.
I hope this is of some help to you

get over it
you seriously think you have problems because you got dumped?
try speaking to the many many people on here with loved ones suffering ill health, that should put things into perspective for you
and yes i know, im heartless, i really dont have time for men crying on the net cause they got dumped,hardly shocking news if your that much of a whinger
you seriously think you have problems because you got dumped?
try speaking to the many many people on here with loved ones suffering ill health, that should put things into perspective for you
and yes i know, im heartless, i really dont have time for men crying on the net cause they got dumped,hardly shocking news if your that much of a whinger
Cara Van Man said:
It could be worse. Believe me.
A workmate of mine just had his 2 1/2 year old daughter die in her bed during the night for no reason.
You wanna see distraught? Come see this poor f
ker.
I know it's cliche, but there is always someone worse off than you who manages to survive.
I hope this is of some help to you
I know what that looks like. My brother died at 6 weeks old. In bed. For no reason.A workmate of mine just had his 2 1/2 year old daughter die in her bed during the night for no reason.
You wanna see distraught? Come see this poor f
ker.I know it's cliche, but there is always someone worse off than you who manages to survive.
I hope this is of some help to you

I know there are always people worse off than me, but frankly I don't care (when it comes to my feelings). I feel s
t.I had a very priviledged (sp?!) upbringing (loads of money around, latest electronics, new kit etc)...but that doesn't mean I'm happy and I know there are many people worse off than me.
Seriously, growing up, I would have traded everything I had to be happy. Now, I would trade everything I have for her...the only issue is I don't have anything...
T_Pot said:
get over it
you seriously think you have problems because you got dumped?
try speaking to the many many people on here with loved ones suffering ill health, that should put things into perspective for you
and yes i know, im heartless, i really dont have time for men crying on the net cause they got dumped,hardly shocking news if your that much of a whinger
Yes, I also know what that looks like. She was diabetic and regularly suffered medical problems because of it too.you seriously think you have problems because you got dumped?
try speaking to the many many people on here with loved ones suffering ill health, that should put things into perspective for you
and yes i know, im heartless, i really dont have time for men crying on the net cause they got dumped,hardly shocking news if your that much of a whinger
depressed chap said:
T_Pot said:
get over it
you seriously think you have problems because you got dumped?
try speaking to the many many people on here with loved ones suffering ill health, that should put things into perspective for you
and yes i know, im heartless, i really dont have time for men crying on the net cause they got dumped,hardly shocking news if your that much of a whinger
Yes, I also know what that looks like. She was diabetic and regularly suffered medical problems because of it too.you seriously think you have problems because you got dumped?
try speaking to the many many people on here with loved ones suffering ill health, that should put things into perspective for you
and yes i know, im heartless, i really dont have time for men crying on the net cause they got dumped,hardly shocking news if your that much of a whinger

Cara Van Man said:
what have you done to precipitate her leaving?
Is it your depression that has driven her away?
I think that has played a part in it...even though I was trying my hardest not to let it.Is it your depression that has driven her away?
I think it all revolves around her relationship with her family (they are very close) and my jealousy of that.
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