A long shot for this place?
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Could really do with suggestions, dunno if there's any Casanovas on here?
Ok so I have a thing with one of my friend's best mates, only thing is I stay in Dundee, she stays in Falkirk, call it 70 miles apart.
Basically, she's stunning, so I'm willing to give it a go. Could do with ideas for things to do though and how to go about it.
I haven't slept with her so 'getting it out of the way' so to speak would help, my friend suggested going through to Edinburgh, book a hotel, have drinks, meal etc, see a show (or something like that) the next day. Obviously with having not slept with her I'd have to deliver this the right way cause I don't want to put any awkwardness or pressure on it with staying the night in a hotel.
Just with it being so far to travel I'm not sure what else would be worth a shot, any ideas?
Ok so I have a thing with one of my friend's best mates, only thing is I stay in Dundee, she stays in Falkirk, call it 70 miles apart.
Basically, she's stunning, so I'm willing to give it a go. Could do with ideas for things to do though and how to go about it.
I haven't slept with her so 'getting it out of the way' so to speak would help, my friend suggested going through to Edinburgh, book a hotel, have drinks, meal etc, see a show (or something like that) the next day. Obviously with having not slept with her I'd have to deliver this the right way cause I don't want to put any awkwardness or pressure on it with staying the night in a hotel.
Just with it being so far to travel I'm not sure what else would be worth a shot, any ideas?
M400 NBL said:
The answer to your title is yes 
Do you and her live alone? If so, why the need for a hotel?
I stay with my dad, I dunno if she has her own place but I doubt it.Do you and her live alone? If so, why the need for a hotel?
If she did I wouldn't want it to seem like I was expecting sex or being needy by suggesting I stay at hers if you know what I mean.
Well get your own hotel room so you don't HAVE to stop hers and just in case the date goes bad. If it feels right, invite her up...anything that happens after that will be what both of you decide as adults.
Not really sure what you could do whilst there as I don't know the area or even what the girl likes/dislikes. Generally don't ask them what they want to do but do ask them what they enjoy on a different subject then take note and see what you can dream up.
Not really sure what you could do whilst there as I don't know the area or even what the girl likes/dislikes. Generally don't ask them what they want to do but do ask them what they enjoy on a different subject then take note and see what you can dream up.
Your OP only states that you have a 'thing' for this girl, just checking that she too has a 'thing' for you? 
FWIW, you going to Falkirk and booking a hotel while she sleeps at home sounds like the plan, but still try to nail it on the night out. It's exactly what I did with my ex, she studied 100 miles from me and 'put out' on first date
FWIW, you going to Falkirk and booking a hotel while she sleeps at home sounds like the plan, but still try to nail it on the night out. It's exactly what I did with my ex, she studied 100 miles from me and 'put out' on first date
I'm in Edinburgh so understand the geography and your predicament.
Why don't you suggest a night out in Stirling? Lots to do there, and you can book a decent hotel for yourself much cheaper than Edinburgh prices (especially at this time of the year). That way, she can easily get the train back to Falkirk (it's only a few stops so easier than from Edinburgh) or get a taxi cheaply, or if she wants to she can stay with you and you can get "baw deep" (I think that's what you Dundonian's say).
Why don't you suggest a night out in Stirling? Lots to do there, and you can book a decent hotel for yourself much cheaper than Edinburgh prices (especially at this time of the year). That way, she can easily get the train back to Falkirk (it's only a few stops so easier than from Edinburgh) or get a taxi cheaply, or if she wants to she can stay with you and you can get "baw deep" (I think that's what you Dundonian's say).
deevlash said:
Im just trying to work out whether you live in the worst town or her...
OI 
To the OP, depends if you think you can trust her, and her you?....long distance (Dundee to Falkirk really isn't that far) puts pressure on any relationship, and can make the mind imagine things that are just not happening.
I was seeing someone from Falkirk also, but he couldn't handle the distance so we ended it before getting too involved. Well what's the point in creating more heartache in the world.
Oh and are you sure she does like you? Just case you fancy the pants off her, it doesn't mean it's mutual
Edited by Penny-lope on Tuesday 8th December 07:52
Penny-lope said:
I was seeing someone from Falkirk also, but he couldn't handle the distance so we ended it before getting too involved. Well what's the point in creating more heartache in the world.
Duh, people can move, otherwise you'ld live in an area of inbreds....no, wait a minute....Why the deception?
"hotel room= bad, lest she might think you wanting to sleep with her" Fracking ell! Is the OP and the girl both thirteen?
What else would she think, he wants to take cooking lessons together?
Why not be a little more forward and honest about your intentions, not in a disrespectful way, but she is a human being too and hopefully likes/wants sex.
"hotel room= bad, lest she might think you wanting to sleep with her" Fracking ell! Is the OP and the girl both thirteen?
What else would she think, he wants to take cooking lessons together?
Why not be a little more forward and honest about your intentions, not in a disrespectful way, but she is a human being too and hopefully likes/wants sex.
sday12 said:
Penny-lope said:
I was seeing someone from Falkirk also, but he couldn't handle the distance so we ended it before getting too involved. Well what's the point in creating more heartache in the world.
Duh, people can move, otherwise you'ld live in an area of inbreds....no, wait a minute....And in Dundee, there's no problem with inbreeding.....not with all the new Polish we get on a weekly basis
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