Etiquette advice from any Muslim PHers please
Etiquette advice from any Muslim PHers please
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JakeR

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3,950 posts

299 months

Monday 21st December 2009
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Hi Folks,

I was after a bit of etiquette advice from any Muslims who frequent these halls...

Basically, I do most of my business in a Muslim country (Turkey) but I am not very clued up on how a non-Muslim should respect/mark the Muslim holidays.

As a for instance, my Muslim colleagues are great at sending us Christmas cards and Chocs, and I would like to respond in kind at the appropriate time/festival. Sadly, my ignorance means I dont know the form... any pointers would be greatly appreciated!

Many thanks for your help

JakeR

mat205125

17,790 posts

243 months

Monday 21st December 2009
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I'm looking forward to this one biggrin

DrTre

12,957 posts

262 months

Monday 21st December 2009
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Not remotely saying "Repost" but I'm sure this was done last year with Sikh neighbours.

DrTre

12,957 posts

262 months

Monday 21st December 2009
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AndyAudi

3,988 posts

252 months

Monday 21st December 2009
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DrTre said:
Not remotely saying "Repost" but I'm sure this was done last year with Sikh neighbours.
Do you not just bring them a bunch of grapes?

JakeR

Original Poster:

3,950 posts

299 months

Monday 21st December 2009
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My question was entirely serious guys, thanks for the Sikh thread link, I was looking for something a little more Islam specific?

cheers

JakeR

DrTre

12,957 posts

262 months

Monday 21st December 2009
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Sorry, must admit I thought the other thread was a little more serious than it transpired.
Tis a tricky one, I grant you.
Turkey is secular is it not? Am not saying that has any huge bearing but might they be more "understanding" than the situation suggests.
Sounds silly, but what about contacting the British Council or the Brit Embassy in Istanbul?!

ETA...what I suggested was a bit OTT really....

Edited by DrTre on Monday 21st December 16:12

T89 Callan

8,422 posts

223 months

Monday 21st December 2009
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DrTre said:
Sorry, must admit I thought the other thread was a little more serious than it transpired.
Tis a tricky one, I grant you.
Turkey is secular is it not? Am not saying that has any huge bearing but might they be more "understanding" than the situation suggests.
Sounds silly, but what about contacting the British Council or the Brit Embassy in Istanbul?!
I spent a year working closely with our plant in Turkey in my 1st job out of uni', it wasn't the minefeild you'd expect. I spent many weeks over their and they sent quality engineers here for extended periods that I worked with daily.

Just be nice, I made a few mistakes but they didn't care really and we just had a laugh about it.

Were abouts in Turkey are they? Turkey is a big place and location can affect the etiquette quite alot apparently, in the north they are alot more secular.

Jimbeaux

33,791 posts

261 months

Monday 21st December 2009
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JakeR said:
Hi Folks,

I was after a bit of etiquette advice from any Muslims who frequent these halls...

Basically, I do most of my business in a Muslim country (Turkey) but I am not very clued up on how a non-Muslim should respect/mark the Muslim holidays.

As a for instance, my Muslim colleagues are great at sending us Christmas cards and Chocs, and I would like to respond in kind at the appropriate time/festival. Sadly, my ignorance means I dont know the form... any pointers would be greatly appreciated!

Many thanks for your help

JakeR
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mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

285 months

Monday 21st December 2009
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Stones...?

munroman

1,907 posts

214 months

Monday 21st December 2009
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Always shake with your left hand, at meetings always put your feet on the table with soles facing the Turks, and always have pork scratching handy! Oh, and lots of booze!

(Or is it the other way round?.............)

Kind of like the thing I heard recently where the local Jewish community are going to a Halal butcher as its the closest thing to Kosher for miles around. (Like something out of The Apprentice!)

JakeR

Original Poster:

3,950 posts

299 months

Monday 21st December 2009
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The guys at the factory are all super tolerant and wouldnt give a stuff if I cocked up... I just want to show their customs the respect they show mine. I think it'd be good for our business relationship!

It's in the West of Turkey (which is more tolerant)...

cheers/Serefe

JakeR


HereBeMonsters

14,180 posts

212 months

Monday 21st December 2009
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Embassy would be happy to point you in the right direction. Part of the reason why they're there is improve trade relations.

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

285 months

Monday 21st December 2009
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Wear a burka...

They'd love that...