How to say thanks
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GuinnessMK

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1,608 posts

252 months

Thursday 28th January 2010
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We were in town yesterday, doing a bit of shopping. Usual places, and we used the same car park we always do.

Mrs has a look around the house this morning and can't find her purse. No sign of it at all.

Bugger.

So she sets off into town to start at the car park, then the shops we visited to see if it had been handed in. If she couldn't find it, a trip round to the nick to report it lost, then all the banks to cancel the cards.

On her way into town, she got a call from my Dad's PA. Someone had found the purse in the car park and handed it in to the attendant. The attendant had looked through the purse and found one of my Dad's business cards on it. So he'd phoned the office. Dad's PA then went down to the Car Park and picked up the purse, and my Mrs diverted to the office to pick up said purse.

So we now have 3 people to thank. Question is, what sort of thing is appropriate?

A thank you card, a small gift? Any ideas?


SystemParanoia

14,343 posts

228 months

Thursday 28th January 2010
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anonymous-user

84 months

Thursday 28th January 2010
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If it was me, then i would go see the people in question and personally thank them

ErnestM

11,621 posts

297 months

Thursday 28th January 2010
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A small cash reward?

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Don1

16,828 posts

238 months

Thursday 28th January 2010
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I did this, and got a very nice bottle of red wine as a thank you. Quite a shock - didn't expect anything - just a good deed.

Gaspode

4,167 posts

226 months

Thursday 28th January 2010
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A personally hand-written thank-you card is entirely appropriate. If you were to offer anything of value (especially cash it could easily be seen as insulting.

bridgdav

4,805 posts

278 months

Thursday 28th January 2010
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Tesco 3 for £10
A simple 'Thank You' note


Job done..!

grumbledoak

32,571 posts

263 months

Thursday 28th January 2010
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A trip to thank them in person is probably a bit much, TBH. And cash is pretty crass unless you had got to the stage of offering a reward.

A bottle of decent red wine, I'd say.

Jasandjules

72,611 posts

259 months

Thursday 28th January 2010
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Or a nice box of chocolates for her?

Gretchen

19,791 posts

246 months

Thursday 28th January 2010
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bridgdav said:
Tesco 3 for £10
A simple 'Thank You' note


Job done..!
Yep. Flowers or wine and a card.



Disco_Dale

1,893 posts

240 months

Thursday 28th January 2010
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Gaspode said:
A personally hand-written thank-you card is entirely appropriate. If you were to offer anything of value (especially cash it could easily be seen as insulting.
How so?

When I was 16 doing my apprenticeship I found a wallet outside college with 100-odd quid in it, along with various credit/debit cards etc.

There was a proper moral dilemma, I considered trousering the cash and handing in the wallet and remaining contents. I was on 30 quid a week at the time and had a moped to run!

Did the right thing and handed in at the local cop shop where they recorded the contents and took my name/address as the finder. Never heard a word.

Insulted? I was insulted he didn't chuck me a fecking tenner at least. Tight c***.

grumbledoak

32,571 posts

263 months

Thursday 28th January 2010
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Disco_Dale said:
When I was 16 doing my apprenticeship I found a wallet outside college with 100-odd quid in it, along with various credit/debit cards etc.

There was a proper moral dilemma, I considered trousering the cash and handing in the wallet and remaining contents. I was on 30 quid a week at the time and had a moped to run!

Did the right thing and handed in at the local cop shop where they recorded the contents and took my name/address as the finder. Never heard a word.

Insulted? I was insulted he didn't chuck me a fecking tenner at least. Tight c***.
Preserved.

Somewhatfoolish

5,084 posts

216 months

Thursday 28th January 2010
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Disco_Dale said:
Gaspode said:
A personally hand-written thank-you card is entirely appropriate. If you were to offer anything of value (especially cash it could easily be seen as insulting.
How so?

When I was 16 doing my apprenticeship I found a wallet outside college with 100-odd quid in it, along with various credit/debit cards etc.

There was a proper moral dilemma, I considered trousering the cash and handing in the wallet and remaining contents. I was on 30 quid a week at the time and had a moped to run!

Did the right thing and handed in at the local cop shop where they recorded the contents and took my name/address as the finder. Never heard a word.

Insulted? I was insulted he didn't chuck me a fecking tenner at least. Tight c***.
WTF!?!?!?!? He might be tight, but you're a .

poo at Paul's

14,616 posts

205 months

Thursday 28th January 2010
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I suspect the owner never got it back, or if he did, it was less the £100!! :-)

nipperS2K

84 posts

212 months

Thursday 28th January 2010
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A long time ago when I earnt very little I lost £20 in a shop, retraced my steps and a shopgirl had picked it up and when I asked if anything had been found, she gave the money back to me. I bought her a bunch of flowers to say thanks, she could easily have pocketed the money & no-one would have been any the wiser.

Disco_Dale

1,893 posts

240 months

Thursday 28th January 2010
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grumbledoak said:
Disco_Dale said:
When I was 16 doing my apprenticeship I found a wallet outside college with 100-odd quid in it, along with various credit/debit cards etc.

There was a proper moral dilemma, I considered trousering the cash and handing in the wallet and remaining contents. I was on 30 quid a week at the time and had a moped to run!

Did the right thing and handed in at the local cop shop where they recorded the contents and took my name/address as the finder. Never heard a word.

Insulted? I was insulted he didn't chuck me a fecking tenner at least. Tight c***.
Preserved.
Any particular reason?
I've never deleted anything I post, even occasional misguided drunken rants.
Whatever makes you happy though fella. look I "preserved" it for you again....are you excited?

I lost my wallet in Morrisons a year or so back, pretty sure it was pickpocketed, but nevertheless reported it as lost/stolen to plod. Only had about 30 quid in cash in it but the hassle of cancelling cards/replacing season ticket etc etc meant I decided that any finder would get the cash within should they accept.


grumbledoak

32,571 posts

263 months

Thursday 28th January 2010
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poo at Paul's said:
I suspect the owner never got it back...

oilandwater

1,427 posts

220 months

Thursday 28th January 2010
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snowy slopes said:
If it was me, then i would go see the people in question and personally thank them
I would definitely go for this one. If I found the purse, I would appreciate the thanks. I would be smiling all day.smile