Wedding attire - Uniform?
Wedding attire - Uniform?
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Popeyed

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566 posts

239 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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I'm getting married next year and my Fiancee and I are talking about wedding attire. I used to be a Captain in the Merchant Navy and we've discussed getting married with me in my Uniform. However, I no longer work at sea and I was wondering if this is a) legal, b) corny, c) just an all around bad idea? Any thoughts?

vincenz

691 posts

252 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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With a name like popeye im sure you can pull it off.

Shaw Tarse

31,817 posts

223 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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vincenz said:
With a name like popeye im sure you can pull it off.
In public?

Tiggsy

10,261 posts

272 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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If you dont work at sea and arent about to start in the next few weeks...its the cringiest thing i've ever heard!

Killer2005

20,360 posts

248 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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Top hat and tails is the way to go

Jasandjules

71,619 posts

249 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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Killer2005 said:
Top hat and tails is the way to go
Yep. "Used to" doesn't quite cut it for a uniform on your wedding day IMHO.

Stu R

21,411 posts

235 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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I can hear the collective cringes of marine engineers around the world. Bloody rope pullers wink

But seriously, just hire a suit or something.

ellroy

7,668 posts

245 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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From Debretts:

Only active members of the armed forces may wear military uniform; permission to do so should be sought from a commanding officer. In all circumstances, the traditions and rules of the particular armed service and unit should be researched and adhered to.

Each regiment has its own traditions and protocol for weddings: for instance, in some regiments it is not customary to wear uniform at all, and swords may or may not be worn.
The groom and best man should be dressed in the same style, so a member of the forces who wishes to wear uniform may reconsider if his best man is a civilian. In this case, the groom may wear a regimental tie instead.

A 'guard of honour' may be formed outside the church. If the guard are carrying swords or lances, these will be raised to form an arch, under which the bride and groom will walk upon leaving the church.

Finbarr saunders

206 posts

192 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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Jasandjules said:
Killer2005 said:
Top hat and tails is the way to go
Yep. "Used to" doesn't quite cut it for a uniform on your wedding day IMHO.
I "used to" wear a school uniform. Can't see it going down well if I had wore that on my wedding day.biggrin

Stu R

21,411 posts

235 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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ellroy said:
From Debretts:

Only active members of the armed forces may wear military uniform; permission to do so should be sought from a commanding officer. In all circumstances, the traditions and rules of the particular armed service and unit should be researched and adhered to.

Each regiment has its own traditions and protocol for weddings: for instance, in some regiments it is not customary to wear uniform at all, and swords may or may not be worn.
The groom and best man should be dressed in the same style, so a member of the forces who wishes to wear uniform may reconsider if his best man is a civilian. In this case, the groom may wear a regimental tie instead.

A 'guard of honour' may be formed outside the church. If the guard are carrying swords or lances, these will be raised to form an arch, under which the bride and groom will walk upon leaving the church.
That's great. What does it say about the merchant navy?

ellroy

7,668 posts

245 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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Stu R said:
ellroy said:
From Debretts:

Only active members of the armed forces may wear military uniform; permission to do so should be sought from a commanding officer. In all circumstances, the traditions and rules of the particular armed service and unit should be researched and adhered to.

Each regiment has its own traditions and protocol for weddings: for instance, in some regiments it is not customary to wear uniform at all, and swords may or may not be worn.
The groom and best man should be dressed in the same style, so a member of the forces who wishes to wear uniform may reconsider if his best man is a civilian. In this case, the groom may wear a regimental tie instead.

A 'guard of honour' may be formed outside the church. If the guard are carrying swords or lances, these will be raised to form an arch, under which the bride and groom will walk upon leaving the church.
That's great. What does it say about the merchant navy?
No specific mention, but I would suggest that the key element of the first line would still apply ''Only active members..''.


anonymous-user

74 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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So it's nothing at all to do with the merchant navy then? hehe

fadeaway

1,463 posts

246 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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Finbarr saunders said:
Jasandjules said:
Killer2005 said:
Top hat and tails is the way to go
Yep. "Used to" doesn't quite cut it for a uniform on your wedding day IMHO.
I "used to" wear a school uniform. Can't see it going down well if I had wore that on my wedding day.biggrin
It would go down even worse if you still regularly had to wear your school uniform!

Jasandjules

71,619 posts

249 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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Finbarr saunders said:
I "used to" wear a school uniform. Can't see it going down well if I had wore that on my wedding day.biggrin
But if the wife wore the St Trinian's Uniform............... You'd be getting married in Essex......

Finbarr saunders

206 posts

192 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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fadeaway said:
Finbarr saunders said:
Jasandjules said:
Killer2005 said:
Top hat and tails is the way to go
Yep. "Used to" doesn't quite cut it for a uniform on your wedding day IMHO.
I "used to" wear a school uniform. Can't see it going down well if I had wore that on my wedding day.biggrin
It would go down even worse if you still regularly had to wear your school uniform!
What I do in the privacy of my own home when everyone's out and the curtains are closed is nobody's business.;)

HOGEPH

5,249 posts

206 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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Well Angus Young still wears his school uniform.


Simpo Two

90,384 posts

285 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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The correct procedure would be laid down by the Merchant Navy - see what they say. My hunch is 'no'.

sherman

14,727 posts

235 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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If you are Scottish a full dress kilt and prince charlie jacket and a proper hand tied bow tie not a stupid cravat.

E31Shrew

5,956 posts

212 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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God forbid! No

NDA

23,984 posts

245 months

Sunday 14th February 2010
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Morning suit.