What to do on a second date?

[The Ben]

Basicaly met this girl on Saturdy night when I was out with the lads, We got on really well and we drunkenly decided to meet up on sunday(valentines day) for a drink. Anyway, next day we met up in the eve and things went well... Now the second date is happening tomorrow and she told me to supprise her on what we can do, all she wnts to know is that she should dress casually jeans etc or wear a dress (she is a proper girly girl) if we go bowling, we cant go for a nice restaurant as we will be in casual clothes... If she goes in a dress we cant go bwling...

My problem, I have had a few days to think about this and not sure what to do... Do I go original, do I do the usual cinema drink and meal etc...

We are both 27, we are meeting up in Swansea, and she will be down from about lunch time until when ever... I know she wants to buy a new mobile phone so there will have to be some amout of shopping in the date...

My ideas so far...
Sack Swansea off, Pick her up(from Cardiff) and go to Bristol Shopping and maybe go to the Zoo( is that wierd)

Stay in Swansea and go bowling, meal, shopping maybe a walk around Swansea bay/mumbles...

I appreciate most are not from near me but some generic ideas would be most helpful...

Why is this such a minefield????

[Justayellowbadge]

What's with the bowling obsession?

[Mr Gearchange]

[Vixpy1]

Take her to the pub, get her stfaced, make sure she has trouble walking for a few days.

Is there anything else people do on a second date?

[al1991]

Justayellowbadge said:

What's with the bowling obsession?

+1, surely she won't go for bowling if she's a 'girly girl'?

Think the zoo's quite a cool one, but you never know she might think they're cruel.

[JimNotJon]

The zoo sounds like a nice option, but only if the weather is fair! Its somewhere you can have a bit of fun whilst chatting and getting to know each other. On the other token, with her asking what she should ideally be wearing, sounds to me shes hoping for something a little out the ordinary. So I can't be of much help.

[touching cloth]

Justayellowbadge said:

What's with the bowling obsession?

I'm going with the funky shoes, I love those funny little fkers.

[Mr Gearchange]

What do most people do in Swansea of an evening? Is burning down cottages and having fights still as popular as it once was? If so do that. Then shag her.

[The Ben]

Justayellowbadge said:

What's with the bowling obsession?

Haha, sorry there is no bowling obsession, didnt re read what I wrote, was just using a an example....

[MitchT]

2nd date you say... Nob her. We live in modern times

[80quattro]

Pick her up

Go to the closest Travelodge via a petrol station to collect booze, johnnies and Birds Custard.

Post pics on PH next day

[branflakes]

Iceskating. Plenty of opportunity for acceptable physical contact, plus even funkier shoes than if you went bowling.

[The Ben]

Vixpy1 said:

Take her to the pub, get her stfaced, make sure she has trouble walking for a few days.

Is there anything else people do on a second date?

Normally

but, I want to see this one again...

[Cooky]

can understand grabbing her like a bowling ball....but do you really have to wear the shoes to take her up the alley?

zoo is a cool idea followed by a nosh gnosh

[Mobile Chicane]

The 'ghey' is strong in this one.

Promise the earth, drive to get there, run out of petrol.

How hard can it be?

[g3org3y]

The Ben said:

What to do on a second date

Second base. Or maybe third.

[R60EST]

May I be the first to suggest the 'Bash her Back Doors in' option.

[ellroy]

R60EST said:

May I be the first to suggest the 'Bash her Back Doors in' option.

Seeing as that's taken can i claim the up the OXO tower option?

[Otter Smacker]

Tell her 'all' the facts you know about how your Mercedes C220 cdi estate compares to the BMW 320 - I can guarantee she'll be moist by the time you've finished.
However... If all else fails, just continue your facts but make them up as you go along


Best second date any girl could wish for




On a serious note, I have no idea. But good luck anyway and have a good time at what ever you do

[vz-r_dave]

It is sad times when someone has to ask on a forum for advice on a second date or any date for that matter. Think it up yourself, your imagination can not be that small dude.