Am I wasting my time?

[mobi]

Thought I'd throw this out to all you guys on here, yes I know I'm going to get the normal PH response but hopefully somewhere in there, there'll be some advice!!!

There's a guy who I've been chatting to and he's now suggested that we meet up, the problem being he has a girlfriend and has told me that nothing will come of this. So am I wasting my time or is there a chance that once we've met, things might change. He has no ties with his girlfriend and not been together that long!

I await the onslaught of normal PH replies .....

[Ozone]

It's good of you to let him try you out to see which he likes best.

[Penny-lope]

HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND!

Move on.....

Edited by Penny-lope on Wednesday 31st March 22:15

[Penny-lope]

Ozone said:

It's good of you to let him try you out to see which he likes best.

I know I shouldn't but

[BrabusMog]

mobi said:

Thought I'd throw this out to all you guys on here, yes I know I'm going to get the normal PH response but hopefully somewhere in there, there'll be some advice!!!

There's a guy who I've been chatting to and he's now suggested that we meet up, the problem being he has a girlfriend and has told me that nothing will come of this. So am I wasting my time or is there a chance that once we've met, things might change. He has no ties with his girlfriend and not been together that long!

I await the onslaught of normal PH replies .....

Words cannot describe how much of a monumental you would be if you did something like this.

ETA - the OH has just said "what a weird thing to post on the internet" and she is bang on the money. Does what people say here really sway your opinion on things like this? I'm almost morally bankrupt but even I know this is out of order.

Edited by BrabusMog on Wednesday 31st March 22:17

[GilbertGrape]

If you're looking for a boyfriend, I think a guy who doesn't already have a girlfriend would be a better candidate.

[ali_kat]

Would someone please pass the popcorn?

[Poledriver]

Try http://www.teenangst.com/halfterm/troll

HTH

[Limey 666]

Ozone said:

It's good of you to let him try you out to see which he likes best.

if you do the oxo thing your going to be a winner.

[Penny-lope]

ali_kat said:

Would someone please pass the popcorn?

Only if you tell how the job hunting is going

[BrabusMog]

Poledriver said:

Try http://www.teenangst.com/halfterm/troll

HTH

Is it the Easter Hols already? Must be private school!

[Penny-lope]

BrabusMog said:

Poledriver said:

Try http://www.teenangst.com/halfterm/troll

HTH

Is it the Easter Hols already? Must be private school!

No, we come off tomorrow at 3.15

[mobi]

Right, ok. I now realise what a fundamental mistake I've just made posting this on here. I know I'm bh for considering it but just wanted some male perspective on it. Guess I was naive and stupid to post it on here!!

[Poledriver]

Penny-lope said:

BrabusMog said:

Poledriver said:

Try http://www.teenangst.com/halfterm/troll

HTH

Is it the Easter Hols already? Must be private school!

No, we come off tomorrow at 3.15

Shouldn't you be admitting that in the match.com thread Penny?

[ali_kat]

Penny-lope said:

ali_kat said:

Would someone please pass the popcorn?

Only if you tell how the job hunting is going

If I wanted to work in Scotland, London or Switzerland for less than I was earning 5 minutes down the road last year - great

But I don't

I'm almost considering signing on

[Penny-lope]

Poledriver said:

Penny-lope said:

BrabusMog said:

Poledriver said:

Try http://www.teenangst.com/halfterm/troll

HTH

Is it the Easter Hols already? Must be private school!

No, we come off tomorrow at 3.15

Shouldn't you be admitting that in the match.com thread Penny?

Eh?

[littlegreenfairy]

mobi said:

Right, ok. I now realise what a fundamental mistake I've just made posting this on here. I know I'm bh for considering it but just wanted some male perspective on it. Guess I was naive and stupid to post it on here!!

Or people are just telling you what is morally right.

[ali_kat]

Penny-lope said:

we come off tomorrow at 3.15

Lucky you

[BrabusMog]

mobi said:

Right, ok. I now realise what a fundamental mistake I've just made posting this on here. I know I'm bh for considering it but just wanted some male perspective on it. Guess I was naive and stupid to post it on here!!

You already have it - he has told you it won't go any further. HTH.

[Penny-lope]

ali_kat said:

Penny-lope said:

ali_kat said:

Would someone please pass the popcorn?

Only if you tell how the job hunting is going

If I wanted to work in Scotland, London or Switzerland for less than I was earning 5 minutes down the road last year - great

But I don't

I'm almost considering signing on

Well action man has just started doing exactly that.....paid his NI and taxes, so why not. Although like you, he's bored and needs a job (or so he keeps saying )