girly topic, but guys welcome to comment

[s24ng]

The initial message was deleted from this topic on 17 April 2010 at 19:06

[Blue Meanie]

No-one can answer these questions.. Only you can. You know him, no-one else does.

[Nolar Dog]

If you've not had him back after almost a week you can manage without him.

He sounds like a bellend anyway.

[Sheets Tabuer]

Apart from the fact he sounds like a chav if some temp shag called my kid a I'd punch her in the tits.

[Finlandia]

Think seriously before answering?

Where's the popcorn smiley?

[sidaorb]

Unfortunately this could be where the cycle begins.

He says sorry, you forgive him and you do love him.....

Next time its worse, he says sorry, you forgive him and you do love him.....

Then he starts knocking you around, but says he's sorry, you forgive him and you do love him.........

Need I go on?

[R60EST]

Drink can really make you say and do things you would not normally do. If he is genuinely sorry I would give him the benefit of the doubt this time

[Kit80]

That is pretty bad thing to say tbh, don't think I would accept it but you said you love him and he has apologised. It really is down to you whether you want it to work or not. If not you have a clear 'out' now, if yes then am sure you can work past it.

[wiffmaster]

He's called a young child a cu*t in front of its mother. That should tell you all you need to know about the bloke - he's a tossser. I also don't buy the whole "he was pissed and would never have normally said it" line. This is an excuse which bellends use to try and justify to themselves (and others) why they behave like bellends. Not being tactful when drunk is understandable; downright abuse is not. It's easy to blame the drink rather than taking a long, hard look at yourself.

Edited by wiffmaster on Friday 16th April 23:01

[s24ng]

i wouldnt accept it if he raised his hand to me, thats why my daughters dad hasnt been on the scene, he did it to me while i was pregnant, and he proved he didnt care by not even acknowleging her exsistance anymore! so i know where the line is!
As i say we have been talking like normal again, but only through text. ive been thinking about seeing if he can prove to me hes not going to do it again before considering trying again.

[Sheets Tabuer]

R60EST said:

Drink can really make you say and do things you would not normally do.

These are Scotish people.

[GTIR]

Yer but, no but, yer but, no.

[Penny-lope]

Sheets Tabuer said:

R60EST said:

Drink can really make you say and do things you would not normally do.

These are Scotish people.

Oi there's a few of us about tonight....

[grumbledoak]

Stay apart. Though in truth I'm not sure who is better off without who.

[mybrainhurts]

s24ng said:

so me and my boyfriend have broke up.

s24ng said:

girly topic, but guys welcome to comment

Ok, here goes...

My boyfriend and I have broken up...

[SteveNorthEast]

This is disgusting.


Really.


Do what you feel is the right thing. Do it!

[Stevenj214]

s24ng said:

I know it was because he had that bit more than the rest of us tipple wise, but is this an excuse?

Never, in my opinion.

s24ng said:

...what would you do??

PM your number to the first person who replies from Glasgow...

ETA: scratch that

Edited by Stevenj214 on Friday 16th April 23:25

[perdu]

he sounds like a walking cess-pit

you only need one toilet in your life

ditch the prat

really

he isn't worth staying with, given what is implicit in the words he used for your daughter

trust the others in your family

if he'd been like this with one of my family

(we're Scots too, THIS IS PH I can be irrelevant too)

he'd be in pieces

in several places

Edited by perdu on Friday 16th April 23:07

[s24ng]

just to add to this so u get a clearer pic, we have been together for over a year and this is the 1st big argument we've had. hes brought my daughter up as his own sins she was 5months old.

[FraserLFA]

I'd say you did well to acknoledge there's a problem. A lot of girls now-a-days seem scared to admit when a parter goes too far.