Whoop whoop guess who getting married !!
Whoop whoop guess who getting married !!
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toggs

Original Poster:

179 posts

216 months

Monday 19th April 2010
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As many of you know going back last year I was down on me luck and things looked very bleak and I was close to ending it all.
But with the help of the phers I got by and im back on track again.

Well for a quick up date on whats going on as I dont get much time to spend on here now as before.
Little one is settled and happy and doing really well in school and as for me im pleased to announce that ive met a fab lady and ive settled down again had a few brief flings but finally met the one and now we've set a date to get married pending my divorce smile
so all is well and I cound't be happier

Mobile Chicane

22,015 posts

242 months

Monday 19th April 2010
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Blimey. That was quick.

toggs

Original Poster:

179 posts

216 months

Monday 19th April 2010
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Mobile Chicane said:
Blimey. That was quick.
no point in hanging around mate when your happy

Mobile Chicane

22,015 posts

242 months

Monday 19th April 2010
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toggs said:
Mobile Chicane said:
Blimey. That was quick.
no point in hanging around mate when your happy
Not wanting to piss on your chips, but how well do you really know this person?

ellroy

7,846 posts

255 months

Tuesday 20th April 2010
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Hope it all works out for you. Congratulations and good luck for you all.

WEHGuy

1,347 posts

203 months

Tuesday 20th April 2010
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Picture?

TotalControl

8,307 posts

228 months

Tuesday 20th April 2010
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After the amount of crap you went through, you fully deserve it. Just make sure the little one doesn't feel left out.

Good going though Toggs, life is indeed too short. But as MC said, how well do you actually know her? Just take it at a decent pace.

Famous Graham

26,553 posts

255 months

Tuesday 20th April 2010
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Mobile Chicane said:
toggs said:
Mobile Chicane said:
Blimey. That was quick.
no point in hanging around mate when your happy
Not wanting to piss on your chips, but how well do you really know this person?
What she said.

I wish I was allowed to post a facepalm picture without attracting "The Ire of the Rat".

Puggit

49,820 posts

278 months

Tuesday 20th April 2010
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thumbup

Luke.

12,036 posts

280 months

Tuesday 20th April 2010
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Famous Graham said:
Mobile Chicane said:
toggs said:
Mobile Chicane said:
Blimey. That was quick.
no point in hanging around mate when your happy
Not wanting to piss on your chips, but how well do you really know this person?
What she said.

I wish I was allowed to post a facepalm picture without attracting "The Ire of the Rat".
Go on, you know you want to. smile

GTIR

24,741 posts

296 months

Tuesday 20th April 2010
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Glad things are better. thumbup

Look forward to seeing you run down Bristol town in a mankini.

y2blade

56,321 posts

245 months

Tuesday 20th April 2010
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all the best

V8mate

45,899 posts

219 months

Tuesday 20th April 2010
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You're planning a wedding whilst still not divorced?

So with baggage still firmly attached, you think you're in the 'right place' to be falling in love again?

Oh well. I guess it keeps lawyers off the dole queue.

I'm not sure BSR has banned this PH gem yet: this is only going to end badly for the OP

bonsai

2,015 posts

210 months

Tuesday 20th April 2010
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At least she won't be a gold digger.

boobles

15,251 posts

245 months

Tuesday 20th April 2010
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All the best with it all. Isn't 1 year to soon to know if she is the one or not? You must have thought that about your current wife otherwise you wouldn't have married her. Just a thought but good luck with it & i hope you have found the "right" person this time.

kazste

6,127 posts

228 months

Tuesday 20th April 2010
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I understand why you may be being urged to be cautious. But you will know if it is the right thing to do, I know people who have been together for a long time before they got married and had doubts before the big day and it hasn't worked out. I also know of me who would of married my wife within 6 months ha I of had the funds as it just felt right and I had absolutely no doubts. We have been together for 11 years now and I'm only 29. Assuming you feel like this and have absolutely no doubts then go for it, you will never fully know how the other half feels but this is where you faith and trust in her comes in.

Here's to many a happy year for you both. smile

monthefish

20,467 posts

261 months

Tuesday 20th April 2010
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Nice one Toggs. Hope you all (including mini-Toggs) have a excellent life together.

toggs

Original Poster:

179 posts

216 months

Tuesday 20th April 2010
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Mobile Chicane said:
toggs said:
Mobile Chicane said:
Blimey. That was quick.
no point in hanging around mate when your happy
Not wanting to piss on your chips, but how well do you really know this person?
we've been friends for a while so no worries there

toggs

Original Poster:

179 posts

216 months

Tuesday 20th April 2010
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V8mate said:
You're planning a wedding whilst still not divorced?

So with baggage still firmly attached, you think you're in the 'right place' to be falling in love again?

Oh well. I guess it keeps lawyers off the dole queue.

I'm not sure BSR has banned this PH gem yet: this is only going to end badly for the OP
ive been seperated from the wife for 5 years just never got round to divorcing her hence why it caused a strain on my relationship last year so it should be straight forward
I havent heard a thing from the wife or the ex girlfriend so its time to sort things out once and for all and move on.
I did have divorce papers through which I signed but ive not heard anything back so all im doing is chasing the lose ends up

Taita

8,005 posts

233 months

Tuesday 20th April 2010
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