Possibly the weakest excuse to be ****ed off with someone?
Possibly the weakest excuse to be ****ed off with someone?
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The Hitman

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2,592 posts

241 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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I love my girl-friend, but last night she managed to completely confuse and infuriate me all at the sametime. Now she isn't replying to my texts and i dont know what to do tbh.

This all stems from the fact that I had a half hour in the back of the car with a girl she knows...10 years ago!

This girl was apparently was a good friend of her's until she caused a previous relationship to go down the drain, but when it happened I didn't even know her (g/f) so why should it effect our relationship now?

So, what do I do?

dougc

8,241 posts

296 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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Sack her off. She sounds mental.


Famous Graham

26,553 posts

256 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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Ignore the daft bint until she grows up.

You might be waiting a while, though...

Dunclane

1,465 posts

200 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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Stop texting her and tell her to pull herself together, if you give in to her tantrums now she will dance a jig on you with her stilettos forever!

XJSJohn

16,152 posts

250 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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wimmin ... there is no logic!

Mad as a sack full of badgers the lot of them!

Emsman

7,393 posts

221 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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Phone her old mate up, smash in the back doors for old times sake?
Or a threesome, or coke and hookers

(just to save anyone else from having to type it)

oh, and certainly OXO tower calls


RoadRat99

321 posts

207 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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where is the popcorn?? whistle

kazste

6,128 posts

229 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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I see three choices

Try to reason with her (good luck with that and be sure to tell is how it goes).

Apologise like you've never apologise before, practice beforehand so you sound convincing and forget about the fact that to apologise is ridiculous.

Or last option, depending on depth of your wallet by her a Gucci or radley handbag and say hello to make up sex!

Dunclane

1,465 posts

200 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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Emsman said:
Phone her old mate up, smash in the back doors for old times sake?
Or a threesome, or coke and hookers

(just to save anyone else from having to type it)

oh, and certainly OXO tower calls
and buy her a Bentley!

Maxf

8,444 posts

272 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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Let her have a day of being quiet. I imagine you'd be a little quiet if she dropped into a conversation about one of your friends that she'd let him get up to his nuts in her guts in the back of his Ford Probe a few years ago.

After a days grace tell her she is being mental.

Smashed

1,886 posts

232 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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Man up! She's got no right to bh at you for something like that! Although women tend to bring up stuff like that when they've done something wrong or if you've done something minor recently and they feel like blowing it out of proportion. scratchchin

Smiler.

11,752 posts

261 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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The Hitman said:
....This all stems from the fact that I had a half hour in the back of the car with a girl she knows...10 years ago!....
PH response:
No stains on the seats are there? hehe


Other:
If she has got an issue with this, both sides will need airtime in a calm & controlled manner. This is not always possible (her, you, both).

Does she have a valid point, even if it's old news? If so, you need to demonstrate that you have heard what she says about it & take it seriously.

If you can do that, and she isn't a total nut-job, you can begin to move on.

2 sides and all that.



Good luck smile


ShadownINja

80,154 posts

313 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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She sounds like a keeper, you should keep texting her that you love her and apologise plus send her lots of chocolates and flowers. You should also try to propose to her today. evil

Summertime

1,292 posts

203 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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Hedders

24,460 posts

278 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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kazste said:
I see three choices

Try to reason with her (good luck with that and be sure to tell is how it goes).

Apologise like you've never apologise before, practice beforehand so you sound convincing and forget about the fact that to apologise is ridiculous.

Or last option, depending on depth of your wallet by her a Gucci or radley handbag and say hello to make up sex!
No option to dump the crazy one??


TheCarpetCleaner

7,294 posts

233 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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Whoops, I seem to have stumbled into a poorly written episode of EastCoronation Road Farm.

As you were...

(Grow some balls)

TonyHetherington

32,091 posts

281 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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A lesson; women don't like the thought of you with other women. Past relationships, ex one night stands, it doesn't matter.

First mistake was telling her (amateur).

Second mistake was going into detail (amateur).

I bet you even told her you really enjoyed it?

Yes it's a bit mental, and yes she shouldn't get all moody on you, and yes you should ensure NOW that this doesn't become a habit. Don't do anything. Literally, nothing. Don't text/call/mail. Just wait for her.

Steamer

14,198 posts

244 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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Shag her mate!...

...oh..

Dunclane

1,465 posts

200 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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TonyHetherington said:
A lesson; women don't like the thought of you with other women. Past relationships, ex one night stands, it doesn't matter.

First mistake was telling her (amateur).

Second mistake was going into detail (amateur).

I bet you even told her you really enjoyed it?

Yes it's a bit mental, and yes she shouldn't get all moody on you, and yes you should ensure NOW that this doesn't become a habit. Don't do anything. Literally, nothing. Don't text/call/mail. Just wait for her.
+1

10 Pence Short

32,880 posts

248 months

Thursday 1st July 2010
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She won't forget it now you've told her. In woman's logic, despite you having done nothing wrong, it changes how she views you.

You're going to have to wait at least a few weeks before she'll even let you finger her again.