Does black tie always mean a tuxedo?
Does black tie always mean a tuxedo?
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anonymous-user

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85 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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Going to a wedding tonight, really nice location. Dress code is given as black tie and evening wear. Would you deem this to mean a tux?

I have one but feel like a monkey in it. Much rather wear a nice suit.

What say ph?

DocJock

8,722 posts

271 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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Sounds like DJ to me chap.

RDMcG

20,903 posts

238 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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always

rudecherub

1,997 posts

197 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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Black tie means a dinner jacket and evening dress for the ladies, hence it's quite normal just to see 'black tie' although the ladies have more liberty to go with a cocktail dress rather than full length ball gown, you may try and pull off a James Bond with a white dinner jacket, but hard to do.

White tie means full evening dress of top hat and tails, Black tie was invented by Edward VII if I recall correctly as a less formal version of full evening dress.

Shaw Tarse

31,901 posts

234 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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Though these days, some "celebs" think black tie means a black tie & lounge suit.

anonymous-user

Original Poster:

85 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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Paddy_N_Murphy said:
You must be American ?

Tuxedo?
Ha, far from it. I was using that to describe a dj with trousers to match. I.e. With the line of mAterial down the side. What would you callthat?

Engineer1

10,486 posts

240 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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Black tie or Dinner Suit or at a push DJ wink

I believe a full kilt rig is also Black tie.

Edited by Engineer1 on Saturday 17th July 18:43

Saddle bum

4,211 posts

250 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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Shaw Tarse said:
Though these days, some "celebs" think black tie means a black tie & lounge suit.
....... and non-celebs like Gordon Brown.

MPowerMark

712 posts

237 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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Yup.

JonRB

80,125 posts

303 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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I really shudder when I see "tuxedo" written by Brits.

Also, anyone who tries to get away with a suit at a Black Tie event is either a chav, pikey, pleb or cheapskate.

Hope that helps. smile

Edited by JonRB on Saturday 17th July 18:54

OzzyR1

6,391 posts

263 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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Just wear a DJ and a proper (ie. one that you tie rather than put on) bow tie.

Then you can undo it and leave it carelessly dangling around your neck later in the evening like a renegade James Bond.

This may or may not work with the ladies, dependant on whether they're the type who dress up to go to Aintree or not...


NiceCupOfTea

25,607 posts

282 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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Black tie = dinner suit (jacket & trousers), white dress shirt with normal collar (can wear a wing collar if desired although the PH sartorial police will not approve!), black bow tie, black cummerbund, black socks, black shoes (not patent).

Edinburger

10,414 posts

199 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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OzzyR1 said:
Just wear a DJ and a proper (ie. one that you tie rather than put on) bow tie.

Then you can undo it and leave it carelessly dangling around your neck later in the evening like a renegade James Bond.

This may or may not work with the ladies, dependant on whether they're the type who dress up to go to Aintree or not...

Or, you could take an untied one and swap half-way through (I've seen that done).

I wear my kilt to black tie dos in Bonnie Prince Charlie, with either bow tie or a cravat.

anonymous-user

Original Poster:

85 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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NiceCupOfTea said:
Black tie = dinner suit (jacket & trousers), white dress shirt with normal collar (can wear a wing collar if desired although the PH sartorial police will not approve!), black bow tie, black cummerbund, black socks, black shoes (not patent).
Thanks all decision made. As above bar the cummerbund.

whoami

13,201 posts

271 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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NiceCupOfTea said:
Black tie = dinner suit (jacket & trousers), white dress shirt with normal collar (can wear a wing collar if desired although the PH sartorial police will not approve!), black bow tie, black cummerbund, black socks, black shoes (not patent).
Shoes should be patent.

rudecherub

1,997 posts

197 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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Shaw Tarse said:
Though these days, some "celebs" think black tie means a black tie & lounge suit.
I've noticed a lot wearing a tie in black ( funeral basic ) as opposed to a black bow tie with a Dinner jacket ie satin lapels

JonRB

80,125 posts

303 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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rudecherub said:
Shaw Tarse said:
Though these days, some "celebs" think black tie means a black tie & lounge suit.
I've noticed a lot wearing a tie in black ( funeral basic ) as opposed to a black bow tie with a Dinner jacket ie satin lapels
Yes, well celebrity doesn't automatically confer class or breeding. biggrin

grumbledoak

32,571 posts

264 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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whoami said:
Shoes should be patent.
Very "tries hard", these days. I'd avoid. In fact, a prior OH informed me in no uncertain terms that I was dumped if I wore them.

ShadownINja

80,148 posts

313 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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You could always wear a nice dress.

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

286 months

Saturday 17th July 2010
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MRSNEAK said:
tuxedo
DINNER JACKET...

You 'tard...