How would you approach this situation

[vz-r_dave]

fk the ex or play it cool and sleep on the couch

Split 4 months ago, together for 2.5 years, long distance relationship, she cheated on me. Going to stay at her place for the weekend.

What would you do?

[littlegreenfairy]

Not stay for the weekend?

[mike325112]

I wouldn't stay there - removes the problem...

[andyjo1982]

Assuming your single now, how longs it been since you got some? If more than a few weeks then prepare for the usual oxo tower banter, otherwise sofa...

[killsta]

Indeed. I'd not be staying at her place.




OR, as this is PH and you have to live up to it, kick her back doors in. On the couch.

[vz-r_dave]

Issue is I feel like I need to see her one more time. We where together for so long and it was st when we last saw one another. I'd like a more happy good bye (ok deep down i'd probably take her back for it not to work)

I have been getting plenty so sex isnt a big issue, single life is better than I expected tbh.

Edited by vz-r_dave on Friday 23 July 12:01

[Reload]

I concur. Don't bother going. Make her think you are, then just don't turn up. If she's willing to cheat on you then she's not worth the visit, in my opinion.

[LaserTam]

http://www.travelodge.co.uk

HTH

[killsta]

vz-r_dave said:

Issue is I feel like I need to see her one more time. We where together for so long and it was st when we last saw one another. I'd like a more happy good bye (ok deep down i'd probably take her back for it not to work)

Man up, don't see her. Once a cheat.....

[Mr Trophy]

It will fk you up even more if you go down that route.

[littlegreenfairy]

vz-r_dave said:

Issue is I feel like I need to see her one more time. We where together for so long and it was st when we last saw one another. I'd like a more happy good bye (ok deep down i'd probably take her back for it not to work)

I have been getting plenty so sex isnt a big issue, single life is better than I expected tbh.

Edited by vz-r_dave on Friday 23 July 12:01

You really DON'T need to see her.

It's not like you were married for 40 years and have 5 kids and 20 grandchildren.

You owe her nothing, you owe yourself some dignity. Don't go.

[Neil H]

Approach from the south, under cover of darkness with surpressors and NVGs, hit hard and hit fast, then make for the LZ immediately and be home in time for breakfast and debriefing.

[Dick_Phallus]

littlegreenfairy said:

vz-r_dave said:

Issue is I feel like I need to see her one more time. We where together for so long and it was st when we last saw one another. I'd like a more happy good bye (ok deep down i'd probably take her back for it not to work)

I have been getting plenty so sex isnt a big issue, single life is better than I expected tbh.

Edited by vz-r_dave on Friday 23 July 12:01

You really DON'T need to see her.

It's not like you were married for 40 years and have 5 kids and 20 grandchildren.

You owe her nothing, you owe yourself some dignity. Don't go.

Agreed. If you sleep with her she will fk you up. She knows exactly what she's doing letting you stay there.

[Grey Ghost]

Imagine the phone call in 3 months time:

"Hello, guess what..........."

Go out on the piss with your mates this weekend. Once a cheat, always a cheat.

[Arese]

Go and see her. Go to a bar with her. Pick another bird up and wallop her on your ex's sofa.

[silverMX]

littlegreenfairy said:

Not stay for the weekend?

My thoughts too!

[Reload]

Grey Ghost said:

Go out on the piss with your mates this weekend. Once a cheat, always a cheat.

Exactly.

But as I said before, make her think you're still going. Text her later in the evening to tell her you're stuck in traffic but should be there soon. Then at 2am send her a picture of you and the fresh young piece of meat you're going to be nailing when you get home.

[andyjo1982]

pictures?

[pugwash4x4]

go and see her

shag her senseless

then get over her

[Eddh]

Shag her and stop halfway through, say you can't do it anymore and curl up on the sofa sobbing.