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bull996

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1,442 posts

240 months

Saturday 24th July 2010
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While we were in America a couple of weeks ago, one of our 2 dogs was ill and had to be put to sleep.

The other dog (10 years old and VERY mellow) was clearly sad and spent time looking for the dead dog, and Linda decided that she wanted a replacement sooner rather than later.

Anyway, we got a german shepherd cross puppy (the same as the remaing dog we have), 6 weeks old last Wednesday and the current dog seems to be scared of it!
He runs away from it and if cornered growls at it but dosent bite. He seems terrified of it, even though its tiny!

I know the growling is sometimes OK as its teaching whats what, but does anyone have any ideas how to get them to like each other, or will it just happen over time? (Its only day 3 I know)

Thanks

black sabbath2

154 posts

229 months

Saturday 24th July 2010
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Our older dog was very offhand when we introduced it to a 6 week old puppy,however after a couple of weeks they rushed around like lunatics.Now they are inseperable,miss each other like mad if one goes out on its own.Give them time they will be fine.

Space Invader

73 posts

197 months

Saturday 24th July 2010
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black sabbath2 said:
Our older dog was very offhand when we introduced it to a 6 week old puppy,however after a couple of weeks they rushed around like lunatics.Now they are inseperable,miss each other like mad if one goes out on its own.Give them time they will be fine.
Same here, but was quite a few months before they became really good pals (mostly because the pup terrorised the older dog by play fighting, chewing tails etc).


becksW

14,698 posts

242 months

Saturday 24th July 2010
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Don't let pup bombard the older one, allow older dog to approach puppy not other way round, this may mean holding pup for introduction.

If pup corners him remove pup asap from situation as this will stress you older dog out. Other than that I'm not sure except time, it maybe worth visiting dogs trust website they usually have some very good advice pages, chances are they will have something on this.

Good luck

bull996

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240 months

Saturday 24th July 2010
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Thanks for the advice all of you-he has always been very good with other dogs-but this one is in his house!


becksW

14,698 posts

242 months

Saturday 24th July 2010
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bull996 said:
Thanks for the advice all of you-he has always been very good with other dogs-but this one is in his house!
He's probably a bit confused and still affected by the loss of his pal, give him time, lots of reassurance and ensure the puppy does not give him too much grief, hopefully he'll settle and accept the new arrival soon enough.

Dogs react differently to these situations, some love to have a newbie around distracts them from the loss, others will never form the attachment as they did before, it could be that it's all been too much too soon and in hindsight would've been better to wait a bit longer before getting new pup but not something you are going to know in advance!

Sorry to hear about your other dog, bad enough anytme but worse when you are on your hols.

Edited by becksW on Saturday 24th July 15:55

Original Poster

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207 months

Saturday 24th July 2010
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As said you need to put the emphasis that the older dog is in control, also let the older dog have plenty of time without the pup around, bring them together slowly...

They will become great friends I guarantee it.

Sorry to hear about your other dog as well.

g3rrd

682 posts

219 months

Saturday 24th July 2010
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Six week old pups. mad
I thought that was a critical age for development and mum and siblings should be together?

bull996

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Saturday 24th July 2010
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g3rrd said:
Six week old pups. mad
I thought that was a critical age for development and mum and siblings should be together?
Yep you're right, he is a bit young, but it was best for him.

The Mum and pups were being abused (cigarette burns on the ears and body) and starved-they had stopped taking the mums milk.


working class

8,998 posts

218 months

Saturday 24th July 2010
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Op have you posted a pic of the puppy up yet?

JohnnyJones

1,778 posts

209 months

Saturday 24th July 2010
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bull996 said:
g3rrd said:
Six week old pups. mad
I thought that was a critical age for development and mum and siblings should be together?
Yep you're right, he is a bit young, but it was best for him.

The Mum and pups were being abused (cigarette burns on the ears and body) and starved-they had stopped taking the mums milk.
Some people need fking running over.

becksW

14,698 posts

242 months

Saturday 24th July 2010
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bull996 said:
g3rrd said:
Six week old pups. mad
I thought that was a critical age for development and mum and siblings should be together?
Yep you're right, he is a bit young, but it was best for him.

The Mum and pups were being abused (cigarette burns on the ears and body) and starved-they had stopped taking the mums milk.
It's a difficult one this, I've always maintained pups shouldn't leave Mum til 8 weeks unless good reason too leave earlier (as in this case!) but for socialisation purposes 6 weeks is a better age for a new home!! I tend to compromise and suggest 7 weeks!
Poor pups (and poor Mum, have the RSPCA been told), hope vet check gives him clean bill of health, by 6 weeks he shouldn't have needed Mums milk but only if they'd bothered to wean him properly.

bull996

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Saturday 24th July 2010
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working class said:
Op have you posted a pic of the puppy up yet?




becksW

14,698 posts

242 months

Saturday 24th July 2010
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That's a promising looking pic smile at least he's having a sniff at pup and showing an interest.

working class

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218 months

Saturday 24th July 2010
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Ah!

Jasandjules

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260 months

Saturday 24th July 2010
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Ensure that the older dog has time to get away from the younger dog. He will get used to it, but from his point of view he had a pack mate who he is now pining for and then another dog has come along......

It will take him a bit of time, but in a few months he will be playing with the puppy and having a great time and I am willing to bet it will help keep him young....

bull996

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Saturday 24th July 2010
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becksW said:
That's a promising looking pic smile at least he's having a sniff at pup and showing an interest.
That was in the first 5 mins though...not been that close to each other since!

becksW

14,698 posts

242 months

Saturday 24th July 2010
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bull996 said:
becksW said:
That's a promising looking pic smile at least he's having a sniff at pup and showing an interest.
That was in the first 5 mins though...not been that close to each other since!
Oh frown

Jasandjules

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260 months

Saturday 24th July 2010
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bull996 said:
That was in the first 5 mins though...not been that close to each other since!
That's ok, at least he wasn't aggressive right away. It means it will just take him a bit of time to get used to the puppy. The puppy will annoy him at first by being too gregarious BUT then he will get to the stage where he decides he wants to play as well.....


Toyless

25,769 posts

252 months

Saturday 24th July 2010
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Dont forget to always make a fuss of the older dog first, and feed him first too.

This helps the heirarchy establish.

I would also make sure you spend quality time with the older dog as its easy to forget him when there is a new puppy about.

Time will allow this to resolve itself as long as you send the right signals to each dog.