House mates - surviving the interview!
House mates - surviving the interview!
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-crookedtail-

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1,587 posts

213 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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I'm needed to rent a room in London so tonight saw a couple of places I thought looked ok.

The place was nice even if the area wasnt and the people seemed a good bunch, but christ they made me feel awkward.

Obviously they asked me what I did, my hobbies which is to be expected but it was the way they stared at me that freaked me out, for 20 odd minutes it was unsettling like a bad interview!

So anyone else survive the London flat mate game (I've done it in Dublin no worries) or has any experience of the nutters they've lived with?


Mobile Chicane

21,800 posts

235 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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You're interviewing them as much as they're interviewing you. Just be yourself and don't worry about it.

You'll know when it feels right.

Famous Graham

26,553 posts

248 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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Watch Shallow Grave

Google [bot]

6,828 posts

204 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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Famous Graham said:
Watch Shallow Grave
Beat me to it!

-crookedtail-

Original Poster:

1,587 posts

213 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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Famous Graham said:
Watch Shallow Grave
hehe This is exactly what I'm worried about!

Not on anyway the same scale but a guy I lived with in Dublin flooded the main bathroom because the water was to hot to pull the plug out!

He wasn't clear on why he didn't just turn off the tap!

Anyway I've arranged some more viewings so I'll see how it goes smile

shirt

25,034 posts

224 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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worst ever was when i lived in manchester. my then OH and I were sharing with a mate in a swanky warehouse flat but when he moved to Hong kong we had to look elsewhere.

we found a nice place sharing with the owner - leabanese guy who was camp as Xmas but harmless. the real problems started when we moved in.

you could do nothing right by this guys standards. he'd lecture you on the correct way to fill the dishwasher, de-lint the dryer, or the proper arrangement for the cutlery drawer. he owned an interior design company specialising in wky 'Zen' spaces and even expected the furniture to be aligned in a certain manner and the curtains opened in a particular way. ocd had nothin on this wally.

he did provide adequate comic entertainment though. parents were minted and his sister was in the public eye, I reckoned he was the secret family shame as his business was a failure and he was clearly repressed - his dating disasters would fill the match.com thread. he also managed to misfill his landrover twice in a month, the berk.

quite how I managed 6mths there is anyone's guess.

bogwoppit

705 posts

204 months

Thursday 12th August 2010
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Never really found it to be a problem, if you're a normal sociable person and not a nervous weirdo you should "pass". Of course if you happen to be Irish, they probably assume you're a crazy pisshead and/or terrorist, so you might have problems wink

harry010

4,423 posts

210 months

Thursday 12th August 2010
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what areas are you looking at? I usually have a few friends looking for flatmates in London at any one time, they're all normal(ish) and lawyers so they're hardly in, ever.

-crookedtail-

Original Poster:

1,587 posts

213 months

Thursday 12th August 2010
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harry010 said:
what areas are you looking at? I usually have a few friends looking for flatmates in London at any one time, they're all normal(ish) and lawyers so they're hardly in, ever.
I'm looking to find a place relatively central, maybe zone 1 & 2.

The room was near aldgate tonight which was okish but as a newbie I'm not sure what areas are nice and which are to be avoided so any suggestions would be great!

Simpo Two

91,207 posts

288 months

Thursday 12th August 2010
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-crookedtail said:
the people seemed a good bunch... it was the way they stared at me that freaked me out, for 20 odd minutes it was unsettling like a bad interview!
Christians I'll bet. Very nice but incomplete in some way. Telltale signs are posters showing hands reaching down, fish stickers on cars etc.

Edited by Simpo Two on Thursday 12th August 09:12

Mr GrimNasty

8,172 posts

193 months

Thursday 12th August 2010
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"...it was the way they stared at me that freaked me out..."

Did you ask what happened to the last lodger?

zac510

5,546 posts

229 months

Thursday 12th August 2010
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It is hard when you're in that position. If the flat's half decent or in half decent area there'll be 20-30 applicants for one room so they have the pick of who they'd like to live with. Anyone slightly weird gets rejected practically before they step through the door. If you have the money to make a deposit to get a lease then you'll be on the good side - the interviewer!