Seen a dead person before?
Seen a dead person before?
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Legend83

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10,590 posts

253 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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Just reading Tamore's thread on a bad start to the day got me thinking - how would I deal with seeing a dead person?

Fortunately I have never had to, and it is certainly something I would want to avoid.

People like my Uncle (a forensic) must have seen hundreds / emergency services etc and are used to it, as the day job.

What about the ordinary Joe in the street though.

So have any ordinary Joe's on PH seen a dead person and did you react how you thought you would?

Genuine interest here, not trying to illicit gruesome tales.

y2blade

56,322 posts

246 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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yep, twice

it is not nice but you just deal with it

Justayellowbadge

37,057 posts

273 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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Eveywhere.

They don't even know they're dead.

Famous Graham

26,553 posts

256 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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1 open coffin

1 accident aftermath

1 accident happen (bloke hit by a bus and catapulted through the air).

In order of upset. Quite a range in fact - the first was surprisingly fine.

Legend83

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10,590 posts

253 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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Justayellowbadge said:
Eveywhere.

They don't even know they're dead.
I knew you would never make it as an adult actor.



FG - wrong time, wrong place for those last two. Guess sometimes seeing these things are out of our hands.

Shaw Tarse

31,903 posts

234 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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Yep, my Granny, chose not to see grandma after death, as I wanted to remember her as alive.
Was with a terminally ill person when they "went to sleep" for the last time, which was quite reassuring.

trickywoo

14,273 posts

261 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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Famous Graham said:
1 open coffin

1 accident aftermath

1 accident happen (bloke hit by a bus and catapulted through the air).

In order of upset. Quite a range in fact - the first was surprisingly fine.
It was the mother in law wasn't it?

patmahe

5,924 posts

235 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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My Grandmother in an open coffin, it didn't really add to my already considerable upset, in fact I found it kind of comforting to be able to see her, it also made the burial feel more real and I'd imagine it helped with the grieving process.

Emsman

7,395 posts

221 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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An elderly auntie not long ago.

A chap who was in his car after a crash despite his head being 40 yards away

a chap who jumped in front of a train a few years ago, although didn't see much to be honest

JonRB

80,169 posts

303 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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Yes.

I've also seen this thread before. A number of times.

Roop

6,018 posts

315 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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Yes. Several times, unfortunately. A young girl hitting pavement a few meters in front of me after falling 9 storeys is something I won't forget in a hurry...

Legend83

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10,590 posts

253 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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JonRB said:
Yes.

I've also seen this thread before. A number of times.
When was the last time?

Four Cofffee

11,838 posts

266 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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Lots. Some in bits, some in wheelie bins, some on the tops of moutains, some in hedges, some hanging, some with no heads, but mostly old dears passing quietly.

When my dad died the undertakers did a fantastic job of making him look peaceful and stress/pain free which I know was a great comfort to my old Mum who had seen him slide downwards from the man he had been and left her with a final of him in a much happier place. God bless.

Cara van Man

29,977 posts

282 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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I have.

But then I climbed off of her.

Shaw Tarse

31,903 posts

234 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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Legend83 said:
JonRB said:
Yes.

I've also seen this thread before. A number of times.
When was the last time?
Not sure, but it has been discussed before on PH (hasn't everything?)

y2blade

56,322 posts

246 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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Legend83 said:
JonRB said:
Yes.

I've also seen this thread before. A number of times.
When was the last time?
www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?h=0&f=21...

Edited by y2blade on Thursday 26th August 15:46

Justayellowbadge

37,057 posts

273 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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Cara van Man said:
I have.

But then I climbed off of her.
That is vile, repulsive, depraved and beneath contempt.

It's just 'off'. 'Off of' is spazspeak.

Cara van Man

29,977 posts

282 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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Justayellowbadge said:
Cara van Man said:
I have.

But then I climbed off of her.
That is vile, repulsive, depraved and beneath contempt.

It's just 'off'. 'Off of' is spazspeak.
Soz. Innit.

isee

3,713 posts

214 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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Can I tell you a secret?

I see dead people

TuxRacer

13,966 posts

222 months

Thursday 26th August 2010
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Once. Too busy trying to hear the 999 operator over the sound of a stuck car horn to worry about it though, another person on the scene was a midwife and she seemed fine dealing with the mess of the person who wasn't quite dead.

Not sure the particular police officers there would've seen that many dead bodies; they were there some time before the fire engines and ambulances but just set about directing traffic without checking on the scene.