It's only a car!
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Kentish

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263 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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Adam_W

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229 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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sounds like he was a bit of a jobsworth on a power trip

sa_20v

4,112 posts

260 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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Had this before - simply leave the car, lock it and walk away. smile

Pothole

34,367 posts

311 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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He was right, but should keep his opinions to himself.

W1 NER

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208 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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sa_20v said:
Had this before - simply leave the car, lock it and walk away. smile
+1

Or in your situation, after his cheeky comment I would've driven back over to your original space and parked up.

djt100

1,739 posts

214 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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I had this in an ikea car park, I didn't move the car, the jobsworth followed me into the store and called the manager on the radio telling me I would not be able to buy anything from the store until I moved the car. The manager turned up asked what all the fuss was about and effectively told the jobsworth to stop being a tw*t. Very funny.

Nuisance_Value

721 posts

282 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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My reply would have been.. "It's only a car park"

Pothole

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311 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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Kentish said:
Pothole said:
He was right, but should keep his opinions to himself.
You wouldn't mind someone denting your car, even if it was new and dent free?
Please don't make sweeping assumptions! Of course I would mind, but it's still only a car, I haven't been physically hurt, nobody has died, etc.

heebeegeetee

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277 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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W1 NER said:
sa_20v said:
Had this before - simply leave the car, lock it and walk away. smile
+1

Or in your situation, after his cheeky comment I would've driven back over to your original space and parked up.
Me too. It's none of his business what a car represents to the owner.

BCP007

32 posts

193 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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My retort would have been 'well yes it is only a car and you are ONLY a car park attendant ...i am a paying customer visiting a National Trust attraction...and am having a day out with my family...sarcastic, patronising, smart-arse comments are not welcome..enjoy the rest of your day directing cars to park, moron..!
Kentish said:
I went to a national trust place with Mrs K the other day and I pulled into the car park and there was a main parking area to the right and one to the left.

They were waving cars into spaces and filling the car park to the right 1st so I went and parked in the corner of the car park to the left (I wasn't gestured at to come and park so went to find my own place). I parked sensibly in the corner and in the same orientation people were parking in the other car park.

No sooner had I put the hand brake on, I noticed the car park attendant walking across the other car park and all the way across the car park we were in and to my car and he asked me to move it. I said I'd like to stay there as I like to park away from other cars if possible because people don't care and bang their doors into the car next to them, I also added that my car was only one week old and it'd be nice to keep it dent free for at least a few more days. He said this car park would be full shortly anyway (it was currently empty and the other car park was one third full).

Anyway, I had to drive behind him at 2mph across both car parks with him walking in front and he waved me into a space next to another car and then he parked someone next to me.

Then came the part that annoyed me, he stuck his head by my window and said "it's only a car"

That attitude is why you can't keep anything decent for any length of time.
Sure, it only cost me £12700 and it's nothing special but cars depreciate quickly enough without the carelessness of others and it's not just the issue of value, I like to keep my car looking smart.

The car park I originally parked in was still empty when we came out 4 hours later and the one we were in was not full either.

Was I unreasonable, was he right - "it's only a car"?

Pothole

34,367 posts

311 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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Kentish said:
Pothole said:
Kentish said:
Pothole said:
He was right, but should keep his opinions to himself.
You wouldn't mind someone denting your car, even if it was new and dent free?
Please don't make sweeping assumptions! Of course I would mind, but it's still only a car, I haven't been physically hurt, nobody has died, etc.
It wasn't an assumption, it was a question - hence the "?" at the end of the sentence wink

I understand you but peoples personal safety and injury are not in question here.

Respect for peoples property is a value that appear to be lost on many people these days, you included.
So now you're accusing me of denting your precious, are you? All I'm saying is that perhaps a little perspective is required.

cheadle hulme

2,502 posts

211 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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I think you misheard him and he said "Its only a Kia".

Spot on those National Trust chaps;)

Chris71

21,549 posts

271 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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I guess his job - his sole purpose for being there - is to control the position of cars in that car park, so you can't really blame him; it's like being a parking warden. Also you'd hope people parking at a National Trust place are going to be reasonably careful, it's not like you've parked in downtown Brixton on a Friday night. If your car isn't safe there it's probably not wise to leave it on the roadside or in a pay and display ever...

Deva Link

26,934 posts

274 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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DisneyWorld Orlando is funny for this - people who are unfortunate with their arrival time just as a row fills are directed to the end of the next row - and that be hundreds of yards away!

So they pull into spaces at the beginning of the row and the Disney staff hold everyone else up until they move, but they can's shout or wave their arms about because Disney staff don't do that sort of thing. smile

Laurel Green

31,123 posts

261 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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Only a car? Should have parked on his foot and thrown the quip back at him.

louismchuge

1,644 posts

213 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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cheadle hulme said:
I think you misheard him and he said "Its only a Kia".

Spot on those National Trust chaps;)
laugh

B3njamin

1,129 posts

216 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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There are more important things to worry about, sometimes these things happen. Excepting vandalism of course, it's a risk you take.

The car park inspector may have come across as a jobsworth but it does make a change to see someone grow a pair occasionaly - Nobody likes being ordered about but sometimes you just have to take it on the chin.

Pothole

34,367 posts

311 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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Kentish said:
Pothole said:
Kentish said:
Pothole said:
Kentish said:
Pothole said:
He was right, but should keep his opinions to himself.
You wouldn't mind someone denting your car, even if it was new and dent free?
Please don't make sweeping assumptions! Of course I would mind, but it's still only a car, I haven't been physically hurt, nobody has died, etc.
It wasn't an assumption, it was a question - hence the "?" at the end of the sentence wink

I understand you but peoples personal safety and injury are not in question here.

Respect for peoples property is a value that appear to be lost on many people these days, you included.
So now you're accusing me of denting your precious, are you?
Oh dear.... you sound like my 8 year old (when he was 5) rolleyes

Edited by Kentish on Tuesday 31st August 12:20
Unbelievable. I don't agree with you so I'm firstly accused of having no respect for other peoples' property and now I'm 5? I can't help thinking that if and when your car is damaged it might be karma.

BCP007

32 posts

193 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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Kentish said:
Chris71 said:
I guess his job - his sole purpose for being there - is to control the position of cars in that car park, so you can't really blame him; it's like being a parking warden. Also you'd hope people parking at a National Trust place are going to be reasonably careful, it's not like you've parked in downtown Brixton on a Friday night. If your car isn't safe there it's probably not wise to leave it on the roadside or in a pay and display ever...
I know what you mean, hardly downtown Baghdad but at a different NT place a few weeks ago I parked my Audi in a space next to a beautiful 944 complete with Porsche Owners Club stickers.

I forgot something and returned to my car and was at the boot when the owner of the 944 returned and swung her drivers door into the side of my Audi and she said nothing and left the door resting on my car whilst she fiddled about.

I walked around to her car and removed her door from my front wing saying "just move this shall we".

The owner was completely oblivious.
I assume she was not fit then....??otherwise you perhaps would have let her get away with it ?!!

Pothole

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311 months

Tuesday 31st August 2010
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...and there's more. You're amazing.