Preserving a head stone.
Preserving a head stone.
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humpbackmaniac

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1,899 posts

272 months

Monday 6th September 2010
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Odd one this I know, but I need to preserve my parents head stone, its only a small one from a cremated plot say one and a half foot square, but my dad carved the original bit and has now had his name added and I am concerned its wasting away.

I did take it up a couple of years back and put maybe ten coats of water sealing paving slab preserver on it but would ultimately like to have it dipped or coated. Really would like it set in to a large block of clear acrylic if thats possible.

Any ideas?



Petemate

1,674 posts

222 months

Monday 6th September 2010
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Difficult one this, hope some answers come up. Our daughter's headstone has defied all efforts to clean it. It isn't crumbling away or anything like, but is very discoloured and we can't clean it - tried household cleaners etc. Been there for 16 years. Any tips anyone?

GTIR

24,741 posts

297 months

Monday 6th September 2010
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My uncle had his made of Corian, a DuPont product for kitchen worktops.
It look like new even after a few years and never gets washed.

Doesn't help you but it's interesting all the same. smile

Risotto

3,934 posts

243 months

Monday 6th September 2010
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humpbackmaniac said:
Really would like it set in to a large block of clear acrylic if thats possible.
You'd have to be certain the acrylic would offer decent durability because it probably wouldn't be easy to remove it again if it began to go opaque, etc. It might look a bit strange too.

Perhaps you might be able to get a mould made from the original and have a replica cast in something more long-lasting. True, it wouldn't be your dad's handiwork in the strictest sense, but the stone he carved would be the starting point.

Wouldn't you say there's an argument for letting it weather and erode naturally? Unless the stone used is particularly susceptible to the elements, I'm sure it will outlast you and remain perfectly legible for many years to come.

Personally, I think they look nicer as they gain a bit of character with age.


Edited by Risotto on Monday 6th September 14:37

humpbackmaniac

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272 months

Monday 6th September 2010
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Thanks Risotto, some good ideas there.

rhinochopig

17,932 posts

229 months

Monday 6th September 2010
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Call a stone mason who specialises in restoration - they'll tell you your options.

WorAl

10,877 posts

219 months

Monday 6th September 2010
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Unfortunately OP and Petemate, there isn't a lot you can do to stop stones from eroding due to weathering, it's what they do.

What type of stone are they from?

Sorry I forgot to add, what you are doing is probably the best for it.
We coated the exterior walls of our house with watered down waterproof glue, just sprayed it on and it seems to have worked but it's not been tested over time.

Edited by WorAl on Monday 6th September 15:03

humpbackmaniac

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1,899 posts

272 months

Monday 6th September 2010
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Waterproof glue good thinking!

WorAl

10,877 posts

219 months

Monday 6th September 2010
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If you're going to try, I think it was PVA Glue of some sort, water it down so it can be sprayed from one of those pump up weed killer sprayer things and give it a good few coatings, with it being watered down it absorbs into the stone so has quite a deep protection.. The house we done it to has been up for about 15 years now and the stone works is still as good as new.

If you want, I'll find out what it was we used?

ShadownINja

80,163 posts

313 months

Monday 6th September 2010
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Be careful the glue doesn't contain anything corrosive! Could speed up the problem. irked

wombat172a

1,458 posts

214 months

Monday 6th September 2010
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This is meant for concrete, but I'd give these guys a call and see if they can suggest anything:

http://bridgeguard.co.uk/

WorAl

10,877 posts

219 months

Monday 6th September 2010
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Be aware OP that whatever you try, it won't last forever.

humpbackmaniac

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1,899 posts

272 months

Monday 6th September 2010
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Thanks Wombat et al!


Four Cofffee

11,838 posts

266 months

Monday 6th September 2010
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You probably need somethingh UV stable as the standard brick and stone sealant isn't and washes away. I had my house coated in a UV stable fluid which was absorbed and dried within a day or so and now just looks like the stone but has stopped the weather erosion problem in its tracks.

My grans headstone went very green and we have used brick cleaner to get rid of the green mould after bleach failed but even that didnt get it all off or stop it returning.

rb5230

11,657 posts

203 months

Monday 6th September 2010
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could you not clean the stone and perhaps paint it with a masonary paint? not sure what the original colour of the headstone is buy many masonary paints come in a variety of colours, sandstone, grey, black, white etc? a couple of coats of that and i would expect it would last a long time. i suppose it depends on the type of stone, obviously wouldnt be a lot of good if it is granite or similar.

WhoseGeneration

4,090 posts

238 months

Monday 6th September 2010
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Monumental Mason would be able to give advice.
My Mother and I recently had my late Father's grave and monument completely renovated and the 60 year old marble came up like new.
A possible idea is to get a signmaking firm to construct a glued together clear acrylic plastic "cover", designed to be reasonably secure and sealed but could be replaced when necessary.

humpbackmaniac

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272 months

Monday 6th September 2010
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Thanks again all.

GreenDog

2,261 posts

223 months

Monday 6th September 2010
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Best to ask the church/council or whoever is responsible for the graveyard as adding perspex covers etc might not be acceptable to them.