Why she is better than he or visa versa.
Why she is better than he or visa versa.
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cal72

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7,839 posts

201 months

Thursday 9th September 2010
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There seems to be a lot of sticking up for the OH be them male or female ones but for those who OH does not frequent PH who would you say out of the 2 of you is the natural strong one?

This is not a sexist type thread. This is a I am better than her thread.

For me and my OH it is me.
I have always been fully independent since 16 and have been able to manage all aspects of the home but my Oh had lived at her parents for up until we got together and yes her mum did nearly everything for her.

Twincharged

1,851 posts

236 months

Thursday 9th September 2010
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You probably think that because it's what she wants you to think. wink

Eddh

4,656 posts

223 months

Thursday 9th September 2010
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I do as I am told. If I don't I get hit frown

Cock Womble 7

29,908 posts

261 months

Thursday 9th September 2010
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Vice-versa.

Hugo a Gogo

23,438 posts

264 months

Thursday 9th September 2010
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I'm the natural strong one

her punches are largely ineffectual whereas I can knock her spark out with a left hand jab

cal72

Original Poster:

7,839 posts

201 months

Thursday 9th September 2010
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Hugo a Gogo said:
I'm the natural strong one

her punches are largely ineffectual whereas I can knock her spark out with a left hand jab
Love the way you come across as diplomatic as well as ambidextrous. smile

JCB123

2,265 posts

227 months

Thursday 9th September 2010
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Me o'er the OH.

She doesn't really do anything. She has a limited number of friends and struggles to make new ones, they're usually made as a result of being my friends OH's.

I've set up and run two businesses and she sits under a blanket (in the summer) and watches re-runs of re-runs of 'Friends'....

When we chat about what she wants to do and used to want to do, she says she'd like to have been a dancer (which she'd have been good at) - but just didn't do it. She has no career ambitions and is quite happy just plodding along.

I blame it ALL on her parents; they're lazy and have no concept of money...wierdos!

JBM78

383 posts

211 months

Thursday 9th September 2010
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JCB123 said:
Me o'er the OH.

She doesn't really do anything. She has a limited number of friends and struggles to make new ones, they're usually made as a result of being my friends OH's.

I've set up and run two businesses and she sits under a blanket (in the summer) and watches re-runs of re-runs of 'Friends'....

When we chat about what she wants to do and used to want to do, she says she'd like to have been a dancer (which she'd have been good at) - but just didn't do it. She has no career ambitions and is quite happy just plodding along.

I blame it ALL on her parents; they're lazy and have no concept of money...wierdos!
She sounds like quite a catch.

cal72

Original Poster:

7,839 posts

201 months

Thursday 9th September 2010
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JCB123 said:
She has a limited number of friends

I blame it ALL on her parents
I am with you on that. I would not say my other half was smothered but she did have a lot done for her.

alfa pint

3,856 posts

242 months

Thursday 9th September 2010
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My father in law is pretty well off through his own hard work and intelligence. Her mum was also a smart cookie with a sound work ethic.

So where did all of the offspring get their laziness, greed, financial instability and sheer expectation that someone / daddy / and now me bail them out from?

My other half is financially reckless and has to be vetoed steadily by myself. And another reason why the joint bank account (I thought the idea of a joint bank account is one where you both put money in and use it for joint expenses, rather than ours where I'm the only contributor) is very separate from my main bank account.

Grrrr....

UncleRic

937 posts

199 months

Thursday 9th September 2010
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I'm single so don't have an OH at the moment. I do have another me in here though, not an OH, just the other me. We both get on fine, most of the time. Do we? Yep. We like our own company but of the two, I'd say it was me. I'd disagree and say I'm the stronger of the two though. I'm the better driver. Are not. Am too. Whatever, weirdo. Shut it. Oi, I've told you both about that sort of behaviour before., don't make me get the belt out! It's agreed then. I'm the better of the two, three.. whatever.

nuts

WIBBLE

skoff

1,387 posts

265 months

Thursday 9th September 2010
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Hold on, let me go and ask the wife what I think...

james_tigerwoods

16,347 posts

228 months

Thursday 9th September 2010
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JBM78 said:
JCB123 said:
Me o'er the OH.

She doesn't really do anything. She has a limited number of friends and struggles to make new ones, they're usually made as a result of being my friends OH's.

I've set up and run two businesses and she sits under a blanket (in the summer) and watches re-runs of re-runs of 'Friends'....

When we chat about what she wants to do and used to want to do, she says she'd like to have been a dancer (which she'd have been good at) - but just didn't do it. She has no career ambitions and is quite happy just plodding along.

I blame it ALL on her parents; they're lazy and have no concept of money...wierdos!
She sounds like quite a catch.
I think that's the problem - she is a catch - in the cellar. Under a "Blanket" hehe

JCB123

2,265 posts

227 months

Thursday 9th September 2010
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james_tigerwoods said:
JBM78 said:
JCB123 said:
Me o'er the OH.

She doesn't really do anything. She has a limited number of friends and struggles to make new ones, they're usually made as a result of being my friends OH's.

I've set up and run two businesses and she sits under a blanket (in the summer) and watches re-runs of re-runs of 'Friends'....

When we chat about what she wants to do and used to want to do, she says she'd like to have been a dancer (which she'd have been good at) - but just didn't do it. She has no career ambitions and is quite happy just plodding along.

I blame it ALL on her parents; they're lazy and have no concept of money...wierdos!
She sounds like quite a catch.
I think that's the problem - she is a catch - in the cellar. Under a "Blanket" hehe
She's a sexy peice of ass - personality is neither here nor there.

Stooky

184 posts

295 months

Thursday 9th September 2010
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I'd say my OH and I are fairly equal. It tends to be that when I have a crisis, he sticks on his level head and vice versa.

Having said that we both work and run our own homes at present so are equally independent (and stubborn).

Talking about moving into one house next year - then we will see how this stubborn thing goes - one of us has to give (and it wont be me biggrin )

10 Pence Short

32,880 posts

248 months

Thursday 9th September 2010
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JCB123 said:
She's a sexy peice of ass - personality is neither here nor there.
And people act surprised when they have sex and conjure up another wasteful retard into the human economy.

Dick_Phallus

1,155 posts

215 months

Thursday 9th September 2010
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10 Pence Short said:
JCB123 said:
She's a sexy peice of ass - personality is neither here nor there.
And people act surprised when they have sex and conjure up another wasteful retard into the human economy.
He'll probably pull a shocked face when she takes half his money and starts fking someone even richer than him too...

Some really bizzare comments in this thread, not too sure I could feel the same way about someone I was with, and if I did I'm not sure I would become so resigned, and it would become so ingrained into me, that I could moan about them on the internet.

Original Poster

5,429 posts

207 months

Thursday 9th September 2010
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10 Pence Short said:
JCB123 said:
She's a sexy peice of ass - personality is neither here nor there.
And people act surprised when they have sex and conjure up another wasteful retard into the human economy.
Tea spitting post right there!

10/10

RichUK

1,334 posts

278 months

Friday 10th September 2010
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Stooky said:
Talking about moving into one house next year - then we will see how this stubborn thing goes - one of us has to give (and it wont be me biggrin )
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Stooky

184 posts

295 months

Friday 10th September 2010
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RichUK said:
Stooky said:
Talking about moving into one house next year - then we will see how this stubborn thing goes - one of us has to give (and it wont be me biggrin )
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