A perfect day out with jnr.
A perfect day out with jnr.
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Emsman

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7,395 posts

221 months

Saturday 2nd October 2010
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Not seen jnr for a fortnight, and now he has started at school, I only see him from 6pm on Friday till 3pm Sunday every other week.

So, can't do much on a Friday evening as he is tired from school, and bedtime is realistically 7.30.

That leaves me all day Saturday, and half of Sunday.
Today, the weather was good, so went up the road to a nearby village- stoke bruene- for the village at war day.

Loads of Bren and sten guns around to hold and look at. A great display of second world war vehicles- numerous jeeps and the like, a few armoured cars, a battle reinactment, loads of guns going off, camo face painting for the boy, and the chance-albeit at £35, and therefore not taken- to sit in a full sized replica spitfire, start the engine, and fire the gas guns!!

May sound as dull as hell to some, but Me and jnr have had a great day out.

Furthermore, nothing was too much trouble for anyone- everyone was more than happy to allow kids to sit in/on the various things, on the wings of the spitfire.

I'm a happy, happy bloke tonight

Ritchie335is

2,157 posts

233 months

Saturday 2nd October 2010
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Sounds ace! My young lad is 12wks old and I cant wait until we can have proper days out as you have.

Glad you had a good day. thumbup

Edited by Ritchie335is on Saturday 2nd October 20:52

Jasandjules

72,683 posts

260 months

Saturday 2nd October 2010
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It's nice to know you had a good day, that does sound like fun for me as well!!

Jem0911

4,415 posts

232 months

Saturday 2nd October 2010
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Sounds like a great day out.
I have my First dad/son alone day out tomorrow. Well with out mum and daughter.

The MSA classic at Rockingham in a 1913 Buick.
Hope it doesn't rain too much.

Mojocvh

16,837 posts

293 months

Saturday 2nd October 2010
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Jem0911 said:
Sounds like a great day out.
I have my First dad/son alone day out tomorrow. Well with out mum and daughter.

The MSA classic at Rockingham in a 1913 Buick.
Hope it doesn't rain too much.
Awesome!

Benzman

231 posts

231 months

Saturday 2nd October 2010
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Look after him well, he will be the best mate you'll ever have.

My lad is now 24 and we've had some really good times together,gone to Motor Shows in Geneva and Frankfurt and had great nights out in both cities as well, done football and rugby matches, had some great experiences driving Caterhams at Dunsford Park, Porsches at Silverstone and a single seater experience also at Silverstone.

Wouldn't swap him for the world.

4988cc

25,878 posts

237 months

Saturday 2nd October 2010
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I'm jealous...

..of your lad. My father left when I was 3-ish with nary a backward glance since.

Gives me pleasure to hear some dads love being that, even if their time is restricted thumbup

Mars

10,168 posts

245 months

Saturday 2nd October 2010
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Look in the family day-out-thread for other ideas. My parents always took my brothers and I out to great places, events and occasions all the time. I spent the first 3 years of my son's life not really thinking about taking him anywhere beyond the local park, and then my Dad died which, once I'd risen from the crushing depression, made me realise what a great childhood I'd had, and that I was determined to do the same for my son (and now daughter).

So, we've been to Pontcysyllte Aqueduct, a couple of (excellent) steam rallies, a WWII vehicle gathering, various sports car gatherings and race meetings (he's only 5 still but enjoys the racing, the pits, and the freedom of a spectator field to run around in), a marina, different places to eat (with playgrounds), camping (he loved it - he has a thing for torches so enjoyed the opportunity to shine them all evening), we cycle together, and he helps me in the garage (we make stuff out of wood - bird table for Nanny last). And I recently bought a Canadian canoe but other commitments kept from trying it out before the weather turned (although I haven't given up hope for this year yet).

It's great, and I really feel alive when we're together as a family like this, and I'm convinced that people who go out of their way to entertain their children are "good" people. So many don't.

AndrewTait

1,849 posts

225 months

Saturday 2nd October 2010
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Just don't let it stop. Ok, there may be a period in his life when he doesn't want to be seen with his old man.

I really look forward to when I can spend the day with my dad. This year, we've spent a couple of days at Oulton Park, and this last week, spent the day at Duxford.

Having read the sobering moments thread, I'm trying to make the most of whatever time I can spend with all of my family.

V8TVR1978

895 posts

221 months

Saturday 2nd October 2010
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Emsman said:
Not seen jnr for a fortnight, and now he has started at school, I only see him from 6pm on Friday till 3pm Sunday every other week.

So, can't do much on a Friday evening as he is tired from school, and bedtime is realistically 7.30.

That leaves me all day Saturday, and half of Sunday.
Today, the weather was good, so went up the road to a nearby village- stoke bruene- for the village at war day.

Loads of Bren and sten guns around to hold and look at. A great display of second world war vehicles- numerous jeeps and the like, a few armoured cars, a battle reinactment, loads of guns going off, camo face painting for the boy, and the chance-albeit at £35, and therefore not taken- to sit in a full sized replica spitfire, start the engine, and fire the gas guns!!

May sound as dull as hell to some, but Me and jnr have had a great day out.

Furthermore, nothing was too much trouble for anyone- everyone was more than happy to allow kids to sit in/on the various things, on the wings of the spitfire.

I'm a happy, happy bloke tonight





That is great that you could have that special time with junior..............
Memories like that will not be forgotten..













and no hospital time reported in your post

SBDJ

1,335 posts

235 months

Sunday 3rd October 2010
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I must admit I was expecting a post about the day ending in hospital wink

Edited by SBDJ on Sunday 3rd October 03:07

captainzep

13,306 posts

223 months

Sunday 3rd October 2010
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Had the perfect day-in with Jnr yesterday.

I went up in the loft and spotted my old forgotten Lego.

Cue 80's Lego all over the floor and neither of us leaving the lounge rug all afternoon.

Best. Saturday afternoon. Ever.

Mazda Baiter

37,069 posts

219 months

Sunday 3rd October 2010
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Yesterday was my daughter's second birthday party. Loads of family and friends came round and everyone got on well with each other. I even managed not to put my foot in it for once. My wife made an Upsy Daisy cake for my daughter as Daisy is her favourite thing in the world ever. The best bit of my day was getting to stab Upsy Daisy in the face with a big knife for being such an annoying c nt cutting the cake and teaching my daughter how to blow out the candles. It was the only real bit of time I got to spend with her yesterday and to see the satisfaction on her face when she had blown a candle out was brilliant.


nigelpugh7

6,525 posts

221 months

Sunday 3rd October 2010
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Sounds Like a fantastic day out with your lad, I look forwards to every day with my Little Lad!!

It wont be long before you are doing stuff like this:-

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r5m_eVsk5A8

Enjoy the time you spend together!!

Emsman

Original Poster:

7,395 posts

221 months

Sunday 3rd October 2010
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Alas, today it's pissing down, so having spent the last hour drawing thunderbirds 1,2,3,4 & 5, it's now time to break out his little radio controlled car to use in the lounge.
After that, I shall spend a couple of hours chasing the dog to get it back, and then another hour fixing it!